Other - Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

Im going around with a guy since last 2 years!!! recently we got engaged to each other.. We are going to get married in Jan. But from last few days my realtion with him is getting worst.. we fight on small issues...........
is there any solution of all this.......... we both love each other n cant live without each other.

2007-08-21 21:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by nibha 1

im just really missing my ex bf soo much. He was my first love.
It sux so bad we can't be together right now....i broke up w/ him cuz things were getting real bad w/ us...that was about 3 weeks ago. I apoligized to him....but he said he needed time...and today he came over and said hes just gonna focus on work and school and we cant be together right now...he said as for a future relationship with us...he doesnt know yet.
I learned alot from our relationship...but a part of me thinks this is for the best too. Its like i will be fine one minute...then i start thinking of him and my stomach will start hurting...and i feel like im gonna be sickand i'll start crying again. I know with time...things will be ok..but time is going so slow for me right now cuz i feel like this...i hate it. And i feel like i cant move on right away...ive had a few guys ask me out but im just not feeling it right now. What should i do....what have u guys done to get throught heartache like this??

2007-08-21 21:35:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy put half of his penis in your vagina, are you still virgin?
Can you be pregnant?

2007-08-21 21:19:36 · 19 answers · asked by Kayleen 2

wife recently went to help here best friends mom in az,we were supposed to go out there together, now iam going out there for job interviews, I got a motel for the week,now she wants to move her best friends mom in with her,but they dont want to stay in the apartment complex they are in,so her best friends husband came back to pa, and what is going to happen when her husband comes back there like 3 times before? Her two kids want to come back to pa but they dont work and sit around all day they are 18,and 19 and smoke pot at the neighbors house. So i had problems with her kids form day one no respect,lazy,wont help at all,they get mad if you wont give them things,or rides anytime they want,the 18 year old is mad cause he wants to drive and he wants a car,I told him get a job and save money and i will help him get a car Is this wrong? the older one just wants to fight and hit his mother! He just wants to play x-box all day,smoke pot,and j-off to porn on the internet! what to do?

2007-08-21 21:17:14 · 3 answers · asked by allan l 2

no i m not emo just to get that out of the way
but i have been thinking alot about sucide
this girl i was sorta friends with she was alway a ***** to me and i told her off and told her to get it through her head that i don't like her beause of the way she treated me , i felt like a door mat.
now from my point of view it looks as though she's trying to get everyone to hate me
and stuff at home has bulided on top of this as well , my mother does'nt listen to me she ignores me and sits on her laptop and talks to her internet "boyfriends" it really bugs me and i wanna change schools but she does'nt care , yes i've tryied talking to her about whats happing and she goes" oh well thats life" .
i m not ugly , ive been told i'm heaps pretty
but now i don't even think that anymore ...
any advice you can give
please don't critse me or be mean to me i really don't need it now
thanks
x.

2007-08-21 20:42:38 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a best friend who had a deep crush on one of my guy friends. my male friend never had any feelings for her, no attraction whatsoever (he said). Now, we all have graduated, working great jobs, and this male friend of mine and I started to go out. i didnt think there was anything wrong since my best friend never dated my guy friend. i told her about me and my guy friend and she said she honestly didnt find anything wrong with it. then suddenly i heard from another female friend that my best friend is mad at me for dating this guy friend. my question, does my best freind have a right to be mad? they never dated! was i wrong to even go further with the relationship? my best friend hasnt spoken to me in years and i married this guy friend already. its been more than 5 years and its still haunting me...thanks in advance for any advice

2007-08-21 20:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend of mine whos a girl and one night she invited me to come to her house (midnight) to watch a movie. i had to sneak out and go to her house. we watched the movie then when it was over she turns off the tv and asks me what time i want to get up in the morning. i was like so u want me to spend the night? and she says ya. we slept in the same bed, never kissed, didn't have sex just slept. i know she likes me but at the time she was interested( still) in her ex who had played her 3 times before. i now live 300 or so miles away cause i had to move suddenly for college and shes no longer interested in her ex( or so she tells me) tonight she texts me and says she misses me and wishes she had gone out with me. i did like her but i don't know if i still do. questions or comments please?

2007-08-21 20:20:02 · 4 answers · asked by Spence 1

Because it's all been said and done between the two of you?

2007-08-21 19:55:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cousin daisy is 8 years old. she was born here in the US but her mom took her back to mexico when she was a baby. they sometimes still come back and i can see it clearly in daisy's eyes shes being abused by my aunt. and yes my aunt does abuses kids physically. cause im proof of that. my question is daisy is right now leaving in mexcio with her mom. is there any law here in the US that can protect it citizen children from abuse in other countries??? please help me i really have to get her out of there. shes helpless and is tramatized by her mom. i would go myself and bring her back but im 16 years old. i want to save her before my aunt goes crazy and hurts daisy really badly (my aunt one time nearly killed me and im afraid she may do the same thing with daisy). please help me!! my aunt is crazy and loves to inflict plain in daisy.

2007-08-21 19:42:07 · 16 answers · asked by swimmy 2

The other day a young person asked me how I felt about being old. I was taken aback, for I do not think of myself as old. Upon seeing my reaction, she was immediately embarrassed, but I explained that it was an interesting question, and I would ponder it, and let her know.
Old Age, I decided, is a gift.
I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body, the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror (who looks like my dad!), but I don't agonize over those things for long.
I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less grey hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.

2007-08-21 19:38:09 · 24 answers · asked by billtheangler 5

My boyfriend and I have been together for some time and have gotten quite serious. I feel like he is the perfect guy for me. We have a lot in common and he treats me very well. But lately I feel like the relationship has been getting boring. It's not that he doesn't like it... it's just that it's become very routine for ME. Is there any way that I can make it more enjoyable for myself without losing this great guy?

2007-08-21 19:30:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

so tomorrow i'm moving into my dorm for my first year of college....
i'm pretty nervous and i get homesick pretty easily,
sometimes when i get really nervous i get diahrreah (gross, i know)
and when i get homesick i cry
i'm not possitive either of these will happen tomorrow...but maybe both will?
anyways. how can i avoid getting that nervous, and if i do get sick what can i do to help/stop it
and if i start crying for some reason.. will everyone think i'm crazy?
i guess i'm just freaking out because i'm unsure of the future
and i hate being unsure and out of my comfort zone
maybe ill feel better once i get all moved in?
has this happened to anyone else?/know what to do?

2007-08-21 19:19:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know what others consider cheating. Tell me where you draw the line. From touches, internet, text messages, phone calls and anything else you believe is cheating. I'm interested in finding out what others think is cheating and where they believe boundries have been crossed.

2007-08-21 19:19:27 · 2 answers · asked by Moon 2

I went to visit my dad the other day, and I freaked out by myself about my fear of death. It just struck me suddenly out of nowhere like a panic attack with a freight train. This is months after my mother's seemingly sudden passing. I just pictured the difficulty breathing and gasping for one's last breath, and it wasn't like I could intentionally stop picturing it and what it would be like during and after. It wasn't like I meant to get like that. I don't want to keep thinking about it but I do, and I try to do things to distract myself.

2007-08-21 18:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd like some suggestions of things that I could do for my wife that would be considered above average. I've done the flowers and jewelry and notes but I'm looking for original ideas that don't take a lot of time. It's just to let my girl know I thought of her. I want to know if a guy or girl can come up with the best answer for me.

2007-08-21 18:55:28 · 1 answers · asked by Fixguy 5

If you found out your boyfriend or girlfriend was talking to another girl or boy....and lied to you. Would you give them a second chance? Knowing that they confessed?

2007-08-21 18:14:35 · 1 answers · asked by Beautiful Soul 1

I am 23 have 3 kids ages 3,2 and 1 month i know i am not a very good mom staying with sister 2 friends and my so called b f who is not working now he is mexican much older then me 14 yrs to be specific..i love my kids but hate my life been drinking to drown the pain..am in love with my youngest babys dad and he is in another town and for reasons that take long to explain i cant be with him now......I would go with him in a heart beat if i did not have kids or we had place 2 stay.....I feel like dying and cry all the time and drink too much dont know what 2 do dont see things getting any better any time in the future want to die please any one have advice please ...

2007-08-21 18:10:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i am dating this two guys who are both really nice except one is sentive and the other is the bad boy and i really cant chosse but i am kind of liking the bad boy type then the senstive what would u chosse?!?!

2007-08-21 17:57:14 · 4 answers · asked by julia p 1

she just started to go to na meeting, she saids he is no longer her brother and has no neice or nephew! she also has three children and they live with me! she comes in the day to watch them while i work and then most of the time goes to her boyfriends. please help !!!!!!!!!

2007-08-21 17:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by DEBRA R 2

I eloped and my husband and I are having a wedding picnic at my parents on September 15. My sister recently moved in with her loser boyfriend. No one in my family likes him at all. He has a 4 yr old that he is pretty much a deadbeat dad to. He works only when he wants to. He lost his license years ago and is eligible to get it back but instead is too lazy to simply go take the test. Instead he lets my sister chauffer him around. He is mean to my sister, possessive and its been rumored that he has hit previous girlfriends. I love my sister and she knows I am not fond of him and when she asked, I recommended that she not move in with him. I am friendly to him and try to treat her like the adult she is and let her make her own decision. My entire family hates this guy. I don't want an uncomfortable sitation on a happy day and I don't want to anger my sister. I am torn. Do I tell her he's not welcome and risk pushing her away from me?

2007-08-21 17:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by brakes_pegs_lucky 3

2007-08-21 17:30:05 · 6 answers · asked by nude chef 3

First of all this is not a typical situation. I love my husband and have stuck by him through everything and I believe once you marry someone they are your life through good times and bad. My husband has instigated some of the situations leading up to this. I am a confident person and happy with myself. At times I know I deserve better than what my husband puts into our relationship. I have always thought that the good times out weighed the bad. The fact is my husband would like to see me in bed with someone else and he would like for me to allow him the same. I find that morally wrong and degrading.He constantly trys to show off my body to his friends saying when they admire me it makes him feel that much more proud that I am his wife. I have fallen in love with our mutual friend of 7 yrs. Nothing is hidden from my husband, he openly knows how our friend feels about me and promotes the flirting that happens between the two of us. How could I believe I wouldn't fall for him?

2007-08-21 17:24:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, I was in 7th grade and there was one guy in 8th grade and he was thought to be gay but he really wasn't gay, he just liked drama, sewing, and stereotypical homosexual things, but he really wasn't gay because he liked ME, a girl.

So, he asks me out on a date, and I accept even though I feel too young. We go on a couple more outings together and he assumes we're going out even though I meant them strickly to be a friend basis kind of thing.

Word gets out about our dating, and I want to reject it. Soon, it dies down and I calmly explain to this guy that we're just friends, and not dating.

So, the word has died, but this very annoying kid in the grade above me keeps annoying me about it. And, what's worse, he's in my ballroom dancing class my mom and dad make me take so I must be PLEASANT around him.

One week a tragedy happened in my family, and I find out at a choral performance. He's sitting RIGHT behind me. Perfect moment? But he didn't annoy me.

Why do you think he annoys me?

2007-08-21 17:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4

at what age does the normal person start to have sex

2007-08-21 17:14:27 · 1 answers · asked by roni4196 1

if you knew something was different at age 10 or younger what actions or signs did you display?

2007-08-21 16:54:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant believe this stuff actually goes on. most of the people doing it are well respected people. then they have the nerve to lie about why they are visiting a child. i mean what the hell is the attraction with a child? some people even mess with infants. how sick! what are your thoughts on this subject?

2007-08-21 16:48:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 16:19:10 · 19 answers · asked by seshadri - 1

2007-08-21 16:11:04 · 26 answers · asked by DogTrainingroad.com 2

i have new info. this lady was in an abusive relationship. she called the police on her b/f in the past and had left him. she was living by herself and came home from church to find him waiting outside her house. he started beating her again, she was able to get to a 410 shotgun and shot him in the chest. killing him. no charges have been filed yet. was this self-defence? was the shooting justified?

2007-08-21 16:01:13 · 15 answers · asked by bow_hunter110 2

me and this boy hav known each other for 3 yrs...we went 2 middle school 2gether...after we finished middle school and moved on to high school we didn't see each other but still kept in contact threw phone...when on my [turning] 14th birthday he told me that he was in love with me...and i guess @ the time i felt the same way. So basically he was my first love...here i am 15 about to turn 16 and i'm in the worst situation ever. We've been going out [long distance] on and off since 8th grade...i kno ppl say long distance relationships dont work out so plz dont put that as an answer....he hurts me sooo bad emotionally and as far as going some where in life wise my family loves him....as far as personality [i guess u could say] they hate him. I'm constantly coming to them for advice because of what he always does. Every person in my family keeps telling me that i'm chasing him and i need 2 let go...but i cant. how do i? wut do i do? and he neva gets me anything 4 mi b-day but i do 4 him...

2007-08-21 15:30:42 · 3 answers · asked by [*1 Love*] 2