Other - Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

My dad doesn't live my mother anymore, and mum doesn't want us (me and my siblings) going up there to see him because "she's" there and she will try and buy our affection. Mum will only let him come over all he has to do is suggest it and mum will be happy to organize it. Yet he would like us to come and see him. Do I have a right to see him if i wish it? Please be as honest as possible, i really need the help

2007-08-20 23:56:49 · 13 answers · asked by mizz_shrimp 2

Not married, (engaged), but love him lots & lots x infinity & beyond! Lol :-)
Wanted to put few words in local paper's announcements but what do I write in a few words (20 ish) to express how I feel about him?
Any romantics out there with any words of wisdom?!
Would be very much appreciated!

2007-08-20 23:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by Alison S 2

S Am feeling really low, dont know what to decide as there is consequences on both side?
My family and his family dont get along

my husband asked me to choose between him together with his parents or MY family.

If i choose him and his family he said i wont be able to speak to my family let alone see them.

If i chose my family - i wont see my hubby again.

I dont know what to do, i dont want to leave him as i love him lots but he doesnt see that

but yet again i miss my family so much i cant bare the thought not being able to talk to them or see them

My family live about 350 miles away (although i dont see them much cuz of the distant i speak to them on the phone 1x week)

hubby knows am upset as he saw me crying on my own.
he told me he wants us to be with his family.
am so depressed
he said i have to leave my family at one point especially being a women
am 24, glad we dont have any kids yet
am so so depressed
i cant speak to him because he made

2007-08-20 23:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Rosy 4

I have 5 teens ages 15-19. This summer, my home became the hangout for all their friends. So at any given time, there was at least 7 huge, hungry kids lounging around my living room. Trashing the place with cans and dishes and shoes and socks. My husband and I drew back to our bedroom and started spending the majority of our time there. I might mention that the two 19 year olds are "special" and are not able to drive or go anywhere by themselves and one of our 15 year olds seriously broke her arm. My kids NEVER left the house. They are ALL back to school now but I am still holed up in my bedroom. I believe I might be going through a little bit of depression but I thought I might feel better once school started back up. Whats up with this?

2007-08-20 23:44:27 · 1 answers · asked by carie 1

Is this true?
I've been hearing promises and promises from my fiance and most of them he never make...
I would prefere if he no promise me than never make it.
I don't know how to stop him promising me and not making!!! ... Any advices?

2007-08-20 21:43:50 · 2 answers · asked by Marlyn A 2

And they even are proud before their friends to show such signs left…

2007-08-20 21:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by Ekaterina E 2

2007-08-20 20:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously what are your thoughts?

2007-08-20 19:29:04 · 2 answers · asked by Kristy 2

My fiance has been there for me and my two boys more than anyone has ever in the past. He does so much for us. Helps us get by everyday. And I don't want him to feel like he unappreciated. And since funds are low he never asks for anything. What can I do for him to show him that his love and kindness is not taken for granted?

2007-08-20 19:19:29 · 12 answers · asked by Amayah 2

I never had this happen before but he had a hard time cumming..does that mean I am not good enough or should I not worry about this.

2007-08-20 19:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by amy 2

as long if they dont have sexual relations??

2007-08-20 19:15:16 · 22 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

yesterday she came home from the movies and told me they had their first kiss. she's 16. as much as i want to know what she does, i felt a little disgusted after hearing it. eventhough i had mine at 16 too. seriously, i don't know why i reacted this way. please help!

2007-08-20 19:08:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He comes off to me and to others as a Mr. Fix It. Why does he also give uninvitied advice and states that his method is better if you just try it and if you don't he gets offended. By the way I am older than him by 4 years and have experienced things already that he tries to school me on.

2007-08-20 19:03:49 · 2 answers · asked by exactera 1

i dated a guy for almost 2 weeks and i had sex with him the second day of our relationship after he ****** somebodys wife who was also a mother of a 9 month old baby he dumped me because i simply asked him about her. he used me for sex basically and i was his summer side dish of the week and now i feel degraded what should i do?? i am so mad right now he used me and i gave him something i would never give anybody else. i never new about this other girl till the next day after we did it.he basically doesnt care but i keep wanting to call him and tell him off or see how he is doing its so hard he never calls me back or anything because he says i argue with hi but i know its because he knows i was a **** and chuck what should i do ??

2007-08-20 18:37:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like someone i met while on vaca in the DR and he likes me. i just met him recently for the first time, and come to find out he's my 3rd cousin...i know some may not consider that right, but i looked past it because of how real my feelings are for him. We've only known each other for 3 weeks and the other day he said the "L" word.. and now hes in boston visiting family... i feel so strongly for him but im afraid to go any further because he lives in another country and it would never work we'd only see each other maybe once or twice a year.. and i dont know what to do, but i cant stop thinking about him everyday.... and im afraid if he asks me to be his gf ill say the wrong thing and ill regret it..idk. what do i do?

2007-08-20 18:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by Rhonda 2

Do you think that within a year some one can change?
Change their tendancies and the way they treat certain people?

Say if two people knew eachother for two years and one of them treated the other badly in the past, but that other person hadn't treated them so well before either, but time passes and the relationship between the two becomes more light-hearted; there are great changes in the way of communication (less shy to much more outgoing)...

2007-08-20 17:37:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had sexual fantasies about girls. but also about guys. I am dating a guy at the moment, when we kiss, i feel nothing. When he holds me, i dont really feel anything either. I have looked at one of my best friends and thought her a lesbian before. when i toled her i was bi, she got mad and shut me out. shes used to itnow but i still have feelings for her which sorta bothers me. I also wonder if there is some kind of way to "test" if i like girls. (like kiss an other girl and see what its like or maybe go out with one.) i dream about kissing girls, i day dream about other girls. I thought i was bi untill i got my first kiss. It was from my bf and it felt like nothing.is this because i dont like guys in general? i am somewhat attracted to him but i didnt feel "the magic". i know it takes time to find out about our sexuality but ive always had a thing for girls. can anyone help me out a tad here? thank you :)

2007-08-20 17:27:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK I have been having some emotional problems relating to my relationship with my mother. She pretty much doesn't see me or talk to me but lives 5 minutes from me, she gives me a **** load of money to make up for it which I am grateful for but then I feel guilty for wanting more from her in regards to visiting and playing with her grandaughter. I asked her yesterday why she isnt involved in my life and she said "My mum and dad were so in love with each other and didn't pay any attention to their kids, I am trying to teach you to make Andre (husband) your whole life and only look to him for support. The only people you need to love are him and your little girl, its you against the world and you shouldnt need anybody else. " I thought oh my God she has got it so wrong, because her parents ignored her she wants to pretend I don't exist?? At least I know WHY now, do you think that is a messed up view/excuse ?

2007-08-20 17:26:48 · 4 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6

Here are something I am not allowed to do-

No myspace, facebook etc..
No tank tops or anything like that ( not even over a bathing suit)
No calling guys, no having guys call the house. (even my guy friends!!)
No instant messanger. (even if I would only talk to my friends)
My mom doesn't like the idea of me liking boys, and my friend is into boys, and my mom doesn't like that and calls her a big flirt. ( I think its mean, because she doesn't know of any of the guys that I like and she doesn't even know that I flirt, so she doesn't have any right to call my friend that)
She doesn't like me talking on the phone to my friends a lot.
I'm not allowed to have a cell, even if I do need one.
I am not allowed to go the this back to school party with my friends. Parents would be there.
Not allowed to have a cell phone.
No short shorts.
Doesn't like me to watch videos on youtube.
And I am turning 14 soon, so I think I need a little more freedom. Or am I overreacting? please help!

2007-08-20 17:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole. 3

I am a single parent struggling with health problems and as a result, financial problems also. My daugther is 14 and has never recieved child support. I filed in April of 2007 with Child Support Enforcment in my state. Her father lives in another state. They have tried to send him orders for DNA testing, etc.,
by certified mail but he doesn't respond. I have doubled checked and the address I have is correct. I do not wish to have personal contact with him or his family. But CSE is not doing much to help. What can I do now? Should I seek legal representation? Is their legal help for people who can't afford to pay a lawyer? What is UIFSA and can it help me?

2007-08-20 17:22:33 · 1 answers · asked by trulve 1

during dry sex , heavy petting if bf is breathing heavily
[really fast]
moving really fast, pulling hair,biting lip and touching,rubbing back,and pushing penis against vagina as hard as he can and all thats a good thing right?
whats does it mean?

2007-08-20 17:12:47 · 1 answers · asked by cody 1

How does a person of the age of 26 deal with the realization that they are going to live a life of loneliness? How does one come to terms with that?

2007-08-20 16:57:21 · 8 answers · asked by athena 2

I have a friend wo is sweet and dedicated but he's not him
What do I Do? I want to let go but how?

2007-08-20 16:34:50 · 6 answers · asked by lonelynbaltimore 1

its been weighing on my mind alot lately. I just don't know if i should go back to him, put aside my pride, and tell him the truth or just suck it up and move on? we dated on and off for 3 years, and we have been broken up for a year now. I think about him everyday, actually he is the first thing that pops in my head when i wake up, i cry atleast once a week.. ( i don't tell anyone or talk about him just because i don't really want them to know) we sorta have some of the same friends, but he has not talked to me at all. nothing, he dated a few girls i think, and i got upset and my best friend was like they might betogether but that doesn't mean he is happy, and she has talked to him scene we broke up, so what do i do?? if he has not talked to me then he hates me right even tho he told me i was his everything. and cried himself to sleep over me. ourfamilys hate each other, he is scared of my dad.. what to do? do u think he still loves me, he gave me a ring?? thanks.

2007-08-20 16:10:07 · 2 answers · asked by southernprideinmyveins420 1

If a person think they got depression can that person beat the odd of it with just help from friends without going to a doctor about it ? need help

2007-08-20 16:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by just me 2

this girl I really like well today i caught her looking at me from far away (she appeared to be looking at me at least) but when i caught her eye she casually turned away and stop looking does this mean anything. We know each other but not good and shes not a shy pearson

2007-08-20 16:03:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daugther will be having a grand debut on her 18th birthday. As a father, I will be her 1st dance. I want a music that is something nostalgic worth remembering. It may be an old music. The lyrics may have some meaning for her, etc.

2007-08-20 16:01:12 · 4 answers · asked by zanjoe 1

i live with my mom and pay her rent. my brother lives with us and he is bi-polar and sometimes its really tough dealing with him. my sister also live with us and we're extremely close. We live in South Florida. my best friend who lives in New York City offered me a room (rent free). all i would have to do is babysit her children from time to time. im really comfortable in my mom's house in the sense that i have my own bedroom, tv, private phone line, and computer. but i often wonder how it would be to live somewhere else. any advice?

2007-08-20 16:00:46 · 1 answers · asked by noname 4

2007-08-20 15:41:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-20 14:55:20 · 1 answers · asked by Les 1