I have a friend wo is sweet and dedicated but he's not him
What do I Do? I want to let go but how?
2007-08-20 16:34:50 · 6 answers · asked by lonelynbaltimore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go be with who you are happy with. Your child will be happier if you are happy. If the babies father doesn't want you as you say, you aren't doing anyone any favors by staying together just because you have a child together. It is important to get along and remain polite and caring when you're around your child. Today's children come from more divorced/mixed families, than not. Today's society has realized that not every family that starts together remains together. Good Luck & go be happy!
2007-08-20 16:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about his wife, If you were her would you want him doing you that way. You know he does not want you. Stop allowing him to have the best of both of you. You need to find someone that will respect you enough to be there for you and your child. He has to be there for his child. So you will have to remain friends. Seriously, you deserve better than that. Respect yourself enough to not be taken advantage of. You are also confusing and hurting your child. Not sure if it is a boy or girl but that can be very damaging to a child to see his/her father disrespecting women like that. He will grow up and think it is ok. You have to realize you owe him/her the opportunity to be a better person that you and your ex. What if his wife is cheating and she brings some nasty cooties home to him and he passes it on to you. Is it worth it. Is it worth your Dignity. Trust me It is not. I have done it. I have been the other woman and it is not worth it. You are messing with people lives. Not like in HS your not arguing over a HS jacket and movies and dinner. We are talking A household, peoples mortgage, Life, well being. That tends to cut a lot deeper and people now days are feeling as if they are at the end of the road when they loose all they know. She may go crazy Psyco, and run you and him over, and harm all of you guys including your child. It is not worth it. You don't know how stable a person is. It is a Thin line between Love and Hate. YOu deserve better girl. Move on. He is treating you the way you allow him to. Love yourself more than that.
Good Luck
2007-08-20 16:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by Xplicit Parties *KIKI* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want u and his married let it go...there are many guys out there Ur first priority should be Ur Baby take care of that child and get yourself stabled.. I'm sure you'll find someone out there and time will do that. Mean while its all about u and ur baby. Think of how wrong the situation is and move on go to a mothers support group they will give u the support and encourage u to make better choices.
2007-08-20 16:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by tayzar1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound lke you need to move on, i know that it hard because
he is the father of your child and you may have still have feeling for him but he marry and has move on. time for you to
do the same. dont let him keep you in the clouds, and the
fact that you sleep with him tell hm that he can do what he
want and that not good. time to get your respect back
and move forward. as for this friend, no one will be like
him but dont let that get in your way, he could be what
you need. give it a chance,and see how things go, but
for goodness sake, stoping sleeping with baby daddy.
2007-08-20 17:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your avatar is a guy. Are you being sarcastic or do you have a friend who can't let go?
2007-08-20 17:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye, damn why is this so hard.
2007-08-20 16:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋