Other - Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

2007-08-22 23:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by arry2002uk 2

2007-08-22 22:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by arry2002uk 2

I do all the time...

2007-08-22 21:16:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my ex boyfriend for about 5 years, he really was and still is the person I love and care about most in the whole world. But we broke up because he had changed over the past year or so he started taking me for granted and not respecting me, but when he was not doing this we would get on fine.

I just put up with it all time and time again, and it was so so hard when we decided to break up. It was actually he who suggested the break up, but we agreed mutually.

Things were ok for a few days, but whenever I would go out he would text me the day after asking if I was seeing such and such…….or sleeping with so and so, which I hadn’t.

I have spoken to my ex since, and he has told me that he cant eat, sleep, he jus keeps thinking about me and him, and how he wants it back. He said that he knows how he treated me was wrong and he doesn’t know what was wrong with him.

I started seeing a great guy, just going out on dates and stuff. He treats me like a princess, and I really do like him.

But im feeling kind of confused about whether im making the right choice seeing and getting close to this new guy if I still love and deeply care about my ex.

Im just thinking – am I making a mistake by letting go of my ex. What if I wait and by the time ive decided I do want my ex back its too late.

If I knew he would change and things would go bk to how they were before he started takin me for granted I wouldn’t think twice bout getting bk 2getha.

What can I do to be sure, or what would u do?

Thanks x

2007-08-22 21:15:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been dating 2 yrs, recently he told me he has no feelings for me & rather we stay as good friends. I really love him & thought he was gonna propose than ending our relationship. When I told him I might be pregnant he was really happy & came to me in the middle of the night. Later on I checked & dr say I wasn't. When I told him his attitude changed yet he kept saying "Sometimes I have feelings for you, but when I think about our arguments it's too painful" I know he has feelings for me & I realized that I kinda push him alot when I ask him "where are we now?" coz he tend to avoid this question by saying "maybe" & never a direct answer. I love him but everytime I tell people we on a break they kept saying he probably have another girl. I really hate that! I love him but I don't understand him. Recently I went to dr for ultrasound coz I had stomach pain then they say I had a miscarriage & it coz my stomach to bloat like I'm pregnant.

2007-08-22 20:41:53 · 10 answers · asked by silver 1

i said how are you coping? his reply was well i could be better. WHAT DID HE MEAN BY THAT?

2007-08-22 20:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by frauline1999 1

I AM A 43 YRS OLD FEMALE ADOPTED IN LA COUNTY IN 1964. I NOW LIVE NEAR SACRAMENTO CA.I DO NOT HAVE A CAR TO DRIVE DOWN TO LA .ANY SUGGESTIONS? THANK-YOU!

2007-08-22 20:05:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Needs urgent suggestions.?
iam much upset. my love is getting married to other girl because of his family.
i love him alot i can not see this moment
kindly suggest me your opinion,

i love him a lot i cant live one without him.

2007-08-22 19:58:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're schoolmates..when i see him i show him that i'm annoyed at him.. but i'm really not.. when i don't see him i sort of feel sad..

2007-08-22 19:48:27 · 1 answers · asked by frenchfries1993 1

I started dating my ex-gf again about 2 weeks ago. While I was so in love with her, she said she was just "testing her feelings for me again." I've changed my life significantly and have done everything I possibly could do to show her how much I love her, but she's just not into me like she used be in the past. She says she needs to take it slow, but she's had nearly 6 months after we first broke up to think about our relationship. Obviously we don't have sex, but she can't even hold my hand without being uncomfortable. I tried so hard but I could not take it anymore. She says she cares about me, and wants to love me but says she has to continue to build her feelings for me again. Yesterday, I broke up with her. It's so painful to love someone so much and not be loved back. Some people say true love is worth waiting for, but I'll never know if she would ever fall in love with me again...Should I have just kept on dating her like this forever? Was my decision rash?

2007-08-22 19:37:37 · 16 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2

i can't understand why guy say love gf but they have some one??? They said not serious with another girl just fun...I can't understand. U said love her but why u don'e care of her feeling? i can't not understand!!!Please tell me what r u thinking???

2007-08-22 19:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by nonglnalak 1

I know im only 15 but I can tell when someone is checking me out. I know I look alittle older since im 5.8" 136 pounds (my face looks alot older). I can tell he is atleast in his mid 20's. But when he looks at me he makes eye contact with me for like 2-4 secounds long....which freaks me out but i just try to act like im really into my work out (which i am). And try not to look at him.
but i can tell he looks at me from the corner of my eye.


I have to say, i kinda like the attention, he is really good looking. But i know we have no reason to look at each other like that.


There was even this time were he was looking at me, walked straight to me but at the slightest sec. he turn somewhere else (i thought he was going to come up and talk to me). That freaked me out like he was playing hard to get or somethin!

This have been going on for two months now!
What should i do?

2007-08-22 18:53:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and giving me that kind of look. I am the only one in class who is not fat and i dont wear t-shirts, only thin tops. Sorry for details. But it is not my fault that they cant go to fitness or control what they eat.

2007-08-22 18:26:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 18:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by marina_703 1

i am 12 years old and the girls in my grade are already making out with guys but i havent even had my first kiss. One of my friends recently gave her bf a present out of nowhere where she took a pic of her in her bra and sent it to him. what i am getting at here is i dont want my bf to think i am scared to kiss him and do that stuff for him, what can i do to show him that i am not afraid to do that stuff even if i dont want to.

2007-08-22 17:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by roni4196 1

2007-08-22 17:38:31 · 1 answers · asked by anne 1

Would you rather be considered attractive in general by all the races, or be considered attracted only within your own race?

2007-08-22 17:31:05 · 2 answers · asked by pharmdcougargal12 3

Okay I am 16 years old and I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year. He first got with me when my father passed away because he felt that I needed the support and that's when we got incredibly close. Like I said, it's been a year now and he wants to break up with me because he says he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. He says he wants more time to himself and like he doesn't get to do the things he wants to do because of having a girlfriend. I hate myself for making him feel this way because lately I've been going through a really hard time and I've needed him a whole lot, and more than ever. I just panic every time he tries to break up with me because I am going through such a hard time right now that I need to be as close to him as I possibly can be. I tell him to think of all of the fun that we have and blablabla but he just says "But we can still have fun and just be friends" He doesn't understand that I need him more than ever right now ( details added due no room)

2007-08-22 17:30:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 16:24:35 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2

I dated a guy who apparently took me for granted. after a month apart he claimed he texted me by mistake but took the opportunity to invite me out for coffee. I admit i was excited. but i told him i'm going to be busy for the next two weeks i have family over which is true. i know i could have made some time for him but i feel he has to work for it if he wants to be in my life in any way. he really messed up and now he claims he misses me. i said i don't think is a good idea he claims is just a friend inquiring about a friend. we dated for three months and is good to feel i left an impression. what do you think? if he is interested he should be able to wait, right? is only two weeks. it did not work out because he drank and drove, danced disrespectfully with other ladies being with me. when i told him my concern he said i was controlling. i can observe his behavior as a friend and see if he really changed IF he asks me to be with him again. what do you thin

2007-08-22 16:03:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ladies... can you believe the number of men who do not know women have an orgasm too? this friend of mine( a guy) is in his late 40's, didnt know what I was talking about and when I explained this to him & he was like"whaaatttt?" and he thought I was totally making this up. Any familiar stories? I mean if he dont know at this at his age, how many more dont know?

2007-08-22 15:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I just started dating today and I heard that he was using me for a bet for $20..........so I broke up with him. Now, we sorted everything out and are together again.......but I felt bad for him so I said yes,when he asked me out ......again. I do not want to go out with him. What should I do? I l don't like him anymore..........but have pity for him.

2007-08-22 15:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well i like this guy but i have a boyfriend?
IS THIS WRONG??
pllzz tell me thanx

2007-08-22 15:49:31 · 24 answers · asked by Just Me~!~! 1

i would like my brother to be removed from the house (he already was taken out of the house because he hurt my mom and me and my sister) he was put on medicine and it seemed like he changed but he is back to his regular self.
if he is removed from the family again he will be gone for good and i think when he doesnt live with us life is easier for my family. he even liked it sort of.
i know many of you might say he cant be removed from the family but he's hurting me and its really hard to be in school at the same time. i want him out.
he is going to hurt my grades
and hes starting to hurt me. i want him gone and we have people watching him ready to take him out of the house but their not listening to me. i want my brother gone because hes choking me and stopping me from doing my work.
so im just wondering what do you think about this

2007-08-22 14:56:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 14:50:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my dad's friend put extra emergency money in the bumper of hs car. (i know pretty dumb to put that money there when he couldve put it somewhere INSIDE his car) anyways, the money is pretty beaten up. like some of it's riped and everything and really dirty. he's going to the bank tomorrow. do you think he'll be able to cash that money in for newer, cleaner, all in one piece kinda money? thanks =]

2007-08-22 14:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by ayyyoooo 4

I have several issues with relationships, but one of them is that I am very jealous. I get jealous if my boyfriend says someone else is pretty because I feel that he should only be looking at me. I've been like this since my very first boyfriend in high school. I am now in a serious relationship with a fantastic guy. He talks about marriage and we'll probably get there...that's if I don't push him away beforehand with my jealousy. Can anyone help me?? I justify my jealousy by thinking that the guy isn't any good and that he isn't trustworthy anyways..which has been true in the past. So, how do I know the difference between an untrustworthy guy and my own jealousy??

2007-08-22 14:20:51 · 24 answers · asked by Hapagrl79 1

Went a job this guy interviewed me and half way through I told guy ' are you single' then he said no after said well even if you not still be another girl, cant you!. What you thinking of this? i mean he was hot.

2007-08-22 14:16:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

In 2001, my kinda boyfriend moved from northern ca, to southern ca. During that time he said he was having financial problems, lent him money however told him I would need it back as soon as he can - agreed. During that year and the next we were having our ups and downs, still no money ($3,000.00 was borrowed). We end up having a child together in 2003, in 2005 I moved in with him (me paying $300.00 + 1/2 utilities and groceries) moved out after 4 months. Due to problems we moved in together again temporary so I can get back on my feet, now back in northern ca. First 6 months I was paying $200.00 +1/2 utilities and groceries and still pay major of our son's things. August paying $400.00 now with the above still. During those years we have had ALOT of problems, according to him I have put him through alot. He feels for everything that he has gone through that he should not have to pay back, I explained to him money lent to him in 2001 and years later of going through crap don't mix

2007-08-22 13:56:29 · 1 answers · asked by confused 1

I hear this all the time and In my opinion, it is totally false. I think married couples have much more sex than single couples, from personal experience and from what I've heard from friends. It is also a fact that was surveyed many times. So why is it that people think the opposite? I not only think married couples have more sex, but that they have better sex, because they are secure and relaxed and free to do "anything" they desire, without feeling embarrassed or weird. What do you all think?

2007-08-22 13:55:25 · 9 answers · asked by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6