I was with my ex boyfriend for about 5 years, he really was and still is the person I love and care about most in the whole world. But we broke up because he had changed over the past year or so he started taking me for granted and not respecting me, but when he was not doing this we would get on fine.
I just put up with it all time and time again, and it was so so hard when we decided to break up. It was actually he who suggested the break up, but we agreed mutually.
Things were ok for a few days, but whenever I would go out he would text me the day after asking if I was seeing such and such…….or sleeping with so and so, which I hadn’t.
I have spoken to my ex since, and he has told me that he cant eat, sleep, he jus keeps thinking about me and him, and how he wants it back. He said that he knows how he treated me was wrong and he doesn’t know what was wrong with him.
I started seeing a great guy, just going out on dates and stuff. He treats me like a princess, and I really do like him.
But im feeling kind of confused about whether im making the right choice seeing and getting close to this new guy if I still love and deeply care about my ex.
Im just thinking – am I making a mistake by letting go of my ex. What if I wait and by the time ive decided I do want my ex back its too late.
If I knew he would change and things would go bk to how they were before he started takin me for granted I wouldn’t think twice bout getting bk 2getha.
What can I do to be sure, or what would u do?
Thanks x
2007-08-22 21:15:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you can NEVER be sure about love but...
let your ex go ! and don't answer to him. you should be treatted like a princess cause you deserve it
2007-08-22 21:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly believe that he realizes and wishes to correct his mistakes (which aren't unforgivable in my book), then I'd most likely give him another chance. After all, he was worth spending 5 years of your life with. At the first sign he starts to resemble his old ungrateful self, kick him to the curb and find someone who will appreciate you. Oh, I'd also play "Big Yellow Taxi" for him a couple times to make sure he gets the picture.
2007-08-23 04:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your ex. Ask him what changes he plans to make. Do not give him a clue. Make sure that he is really aware of what he was doing, and how to resolve the problem. If he is just doing it because of you, then it is probably not going to work. If he is being sincere and doing it because he truly knows that it was wrong before, then there is a good chance that it will work.
2007-08-23 04:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have done the right thing!...you've met a great guy, why pass on this when he could be your mr right!.....ignore your ex, he will get the message and move on himself soon enough......move on girl
2007-08-23 09:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋