Other - Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

I have been brought up in a family where your body must be covered up.My family are not Muslims but are strict Catholics and even now aged 18 my mother thinks it is wrong to wear skirts above the knee.As a result of my upbringing,the fact I am naturally very shy,the fact I still have the "catholic guilt" aspect and the fact I don't like my body, I find even the thought of having sex impossible.
I have met a lovely man who I would like to have sex with.We have been togeher for 1 and a half years and he has never pressurised me for sex however now I think it is time for us to have sex.It is the next natural step but I can't even face letting him see my tummy never alone my whole naked body.He tells me he oves me the way I am but I can't let him see me naked.Anyone experienced the same thing?

2007-08-22 07:30:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 06:36:56 · 2 answers · asked by robertandwendihill 1

I met this guy camping (im20, hes21).There was this very strong mutual chemistry when we met,and we became inseperable all weekend.We would just sit there and talk for hours.The problem is that we live in different provinces and its a hour plane ride to see each other.He has called me everynight since we met and talk for hours still.I really think this could turn into something really great. He told me last night that he is willing to do whatever it takes to make it work between us, and then brought up the idea of him transferring to the school close to me.He has to decide by October. I am going to see him in 2 weeks, and hes coming to see me 3 weeks after that. But the distance thing hurts alot.He told me that he doesnt want me to think that hes not thinking about moving and that he is alot, its just a big decision, that unfortunately has to be made fairly quickly. I am not pressuring him. He just kept saying hes going to make this work. What do u think?do u think he'll end up moving?

2007-08-22 05:49:04 · 4 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

My husband has a daughter in FL he went down there to get a paternity test and all that done. Now that thats done his daughters mother no longer wants to allow her to come to IL to visit. I was wondering if n e one knew the laws and what the probability is in him being able to get visitation for her in IL where he needs to live.

2007-08-22 05:04:27 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

How do you feel about these relationships?

I know the concept of the male being smarter is an old concept but Be honest with yourself, society today still, often see males as being the more smarter one in relationships.

I don't want bullshit answers about how everyone is smart in their own sense, i'm talking about her getting the high GPA/IQ/OP/RANK/etc. any intellectual grading system.

2007-08-22 05:03:11 · 9 answers · asked by Lucas W 1

The reason i ask this because a friend of mine emailed me and asked me how my summer was going,
I told her not that great, because this year i didnt have time to have "fun"

she wrote back
"you are an adult now, most people that do things all summer dont have to work they are in school n the 3 month is vacation. life is not all about plusure"

WHAT?? where in my old email did it say that i wanted my whole life to be about plusure<------- (lol)
What rule book is that written in??
BTW im 22!!! Please tell me
Just incase i missed the life rule 101 class

2007-08-22 05:02:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

soooo...I got about 13,000 because i got in a car accident and that was the worth of my car. so, my dilemna: i'm having a baby in 2/08 and need a reliable car, BUT if i buy a car w/ 100,000 mileage (only toyota corollas, that the only car i buy) that's a 1999-2001, i probally wouldnt have to pay more than a couple of thousands bucks, leaving me to pay off my credit card bill and pay off my boyfriend's bills, so that we have no crazy debt (except i have to pay 200 bucks a month to my mom and 320 bucks a month for student loans and of course our apartment--he wont have any debt, just bills) so should i do it??!!

what the highest i should go on my mileage? i dont know what to do??? i dont know what's best for me and my family??\

what would you do???

2007-08-22 04:52:49 · 20 answers · asked by happypants 3

what is the best way to get her horny. not that fact that im going to have sex with her.. but i enjoy her moaning.. kinda thing.. or in fact not even when frenching. just making out being alone in a room together. the best way to get her horny.. WITH CLOTHES ON. and no inapropriate touching. (i bet this one is a little hard to work with) but we are saving our virginity for marriage. but yes. what is the best way to make her "happy" while we're together? because i simply love it when shes all over me. i've tried the ear. which really works. i just need something else. say i get her to a feeling of "happiness" to a 9/10.. whats a good way to get it to a 10 or off the charts to 11. but at the same time clothes on, and no 3rd base touching.

2007-08-22 04:41:23 · 6 answers · asked by [t].spoon 1

She ignores me and is mean to me, and enjoys her power trips when their is any kind of bad news in my life. If there is good news she gets mad. How do you kind let someone know you cannot stand them or that they mean NOTHING to you but in a discreet way? I have other in laws that I do not want to hurt.

2007-08-22 04:40:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fella just chucked a football at me for no reason

2007-08-22 04:40:48 · 3 answers · asked by Draconia 4

My Sister just moved into our house, she works at night and has a complete opposite schedule from my boyfriend and I. When she comes in at night she tries to be quiet, but due to our small home...we wake up. Now she is dating a guy who occasionally stays the night with us. We really never see them, just hear them. My boyfriend called me today and asked me to tell my sister to ask permission if he can stay the night...or he should start paying the bills. I think he is more mad about being woken up at night then her new guy staying over. He just had to beat around the bush. I am torn because he is so mad at me for this and I feel bad beause it is my sister. What do I do so I can make both of them happy??

2007-08-22 04:31:53 · 2 answers · asked by katie b 1

ok. so it starts of when i was a couple months old and my parents got devorsed. Now I miss my Dad because I only get to see him every other weekend. I want to go to his house more often, but my Mom doesn't like it when we (me, my sister or brother)talk about my Dad.(we can ask simple questions like how did you guys meet?) How do I ask my Mom and not make her mad?

2007-08-22 03:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by rockhopperrulez 1

There is this guy on my messenger list who i belive is a complete jerk i refused his friendship but now he got my cell no from somewhere i did chat with him once or twice via my cell What i wanna know is that what am i supposed to do now
& how on earth did he get my cell no.What steps should i take to now

2007-08-22 03:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by hope 2

Like dane cook says... every group of friends has that ONE person that you all secretly hate, but they are in your group of friends anyways.

I have a friend like that, and shes been a notorious boyfriend stealer since 9th grade. Her original group of friends kicked her out and refuse to speak with her because she lied to them and manipulated them.... so she ended up in my group of friends. (what we like to refer to as "damage control") Shes an opportunist, and she jumps in whatevers happening around her (although it has nothing to do with her). She just eats it up, and she always has good things to say to your face, and aweful things to say behind your back.

have you ever had a 'friend' like that?

2007-08-22 03:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 03:10:48 · 8 answers · asked by Perrie Ann T 1

I'm trying to find a relative that I haven't seen or known in a very long time. Anyone know was the best way to find info about this person? Dead or Alive

2007-08-22 02:33:18 · 2 answers · asked by sonianrodriguez30 1

What should i do about my ex? We have been on and off for the last 10 years ... i fell pregnant and had a beautiful baby boy (who sadly passed away soon after birth) Since my ex and i had split when i was early stages pregnant and gone back 2 someone else (who he had 2 kids with while we had broken up) i didnt tell him what had happened 2 our son? SHOULD I HAVE TOLD HIM EVEN THO HE WASN'T AROUND
Also now him and this other person are having another baby and are naming him what i named my son but with different spelling if its a boy or the girls name i have always loved with my name for a girl... This has upset me - Do i have a reason 2 be upset or not?
Part of me still loves him and wants him back and he has said he wants 2 leave the person he is with but will only do it IF i will go back 2 him? should i or should i just move on with my life?
Hope someone can help me.

2007-08-22 02:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 02:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by NELE 2

My fiance i feel wants sex every night, but i could live with only having sex once or twice a fortnight. And there is nothing that she can do to turn me on, I feel it is because I know she wants it that i cant get turned on, what do i do?

2007-08-22 01:50:08 · 14 answers · asked by lothian 1

I have ever met! We saw the movie I Pronounce You Chuck and Larry and all of them hated it because it was too "vulgar." I mean come on - I loved it, I wasn't expecting an oscar winning preformance but it made me laugh and cry. Hey, I got to get away from watching the kids all day & SAHM duties!

I made the mistake of saying Oh I though Adam Sandler was cute in that movie and they all just stared at me in silence!

Maybe it's because I am the youngest one (28) and they are all in their late 30s or so. I'm wondering and SCARED, is this what I'm going to become? Is this how it is? They had absolutely no charisma, excitement, nothing! They had nothing to talk about except for visiting kids museums and doing back to school shopping I mean come on!!

Besides their attitude, they literally looked like they got out of bed. Messy hair and in sweats! Not to be mean is this part of why men feel like all the romance and excitement has died in their marriage and start to stray?

2007-08-22 01:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

c my bro stred saying bad words and when i was 4 my dad got made at my mom and stared saying bad words so when my bro turn 14 (hes 15 now) he stared to say bad words i dont want to say them but it hars all my dads friends do that my uncel dose it . do u have eney advice on it plzz hlp me iam only 11

2007-08-22 01:14:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 and Iranian. My culture has a pretty strong grip on some of my relatives. They live in a Iranian community so they feel a sense of belonging and have confidence in who they are. I don't know what is good and bad anymore. I'm considered unintelligent by the majority of the people I meet. I don't have confidence, running ow on fuel, I'm just confused. Things use to be great for me. I acted intelligent, rational, and organized. Now it's he complete opposite. It seems that the more I grow up, the more out of focus my life is. My Iranian family can not understand why I interpret the world the way I do. They just think I'm stupid and I don't know any better. I live in a different state than them. Maybe I am. Could be true. I just don't know.
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I don't know who to compare myself to or whom to look for advice. Maybe I should listen and be more patient.

2007-08-22 00:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a guy. There is this girl who always wants to prove me wrong, comment negatively on everything I say and do, always get angry at me and spins everything she says to me and always tries to make me look stupid.

I have to put up with her for a big part of the day.

How should I deal with it?

She is really getting on my nerves.

2007-08-22 00:36:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

And now i have told her everything and she is not accepting money and threatning me to tell police.....................What to do
i still love her?

2007-08-22 00:02:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous