Other - Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

I have been having steady relationship with my gf for the past 2 years. A few days back, I told her that sometimes I masturbate. She got a bit irritated and started calling me cheater. When I tell her its comman, she says she does not do nor her friends do it. I am confused. I don't like hiding things from my near dear ones and also there has been absolutely no problem in our relationship due to this.
Why should she behave like this ? How do I deal with this?

2007-08-26 21:49:25 · 41 answers · asked by Saket S 1

Can love be measured and compared - he loves me more than I love him, kind of deal?

If so, what are the measurements? What qualifies as more or less love?

People leave relationships because they "fell out of love" - does this have to do with quantity or quality?

2007-08-26 21:02:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

they say that when you love someone, set them free and if they comes back then you are meant to be.

but if that person comes back and you're no longer free?

what will you do?

2007-08-26 19:42:11 · 13 answers · asked by askme n 1

2007-08-26 19:20:10 · 3 answers · asked by carla gomez 1

should i spend on a girl for a birthday if we've only been together for a month? whats too much and whats to cheap?

2007-08-26 19:14:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i went to the gym and the instructor there makes us say stuff to her microphone like grunts and stuff like that and she never put it to me and when she did i didnt say anything wuold you have? or would you have acted shy like me and how do i overcome shyness?

2007-08-26 18:53:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I terminated the relationship with my ex several months ago. Now he is going around his office and with my (now ex-) friends talking very badly about me behind my back. And when he is in online locations that he knows I also am there, he will make passive aggressive snarky comments at my expense. My response so far is say nothing. But the more that I find out he is saying about me, and these lies that are being spread about me, my patience is about to wear out. Part of me wants to confront him and the people involved and call them out directly. Part of me wants to snark back. And what I think is my better nature says to have no part of it and not even address such concerns. Why do I feel the need to defend myself? Should I? I do not go around the old friends at all - he won them. But at work (we work together, on my recommendation he got his job while we were together) I do not want to run the risk of his badly chosen words to change my reputation. Is silence always the best option?

2007-08-26 18:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by buscadora78 2

I'm going to have 4 large groups of girls ages 10-15 and I have to lead them in something but arts & crafts & sports are already taken and I do not know what to do.

2007-08-26 18:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by samantha 1

He doesn't like them but what are your opinions??
Thankyou.

2007-08-26 18:02:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

God saw you were getting tired when a cure was not to be
So He closed His arms around you
And whispered Come to Me
You didn't deserve what you went through
So He gave you a rest
God's garden must be beautiful
Because He only takes the best

2007-08-26 17:58:11 · 13 answers · asked by § dreamer § 7

he is atleast 25 maybe in his thirty's and he is a trainer at 24 hour fitness. He asked me, and gave me his number while i was working out. (fist time i talked to him). He only knows me from checking me out all the time while i work out, He is cute but i know its wrong if we were to just go on a date. RIGHT?
i responed with a "I will call you".

2007-08-26 17:55:32 · 25 answers · asked by marina_703 1

my sister started playing it because her bf got her into it and thats alllll they do! its a long distance relationship and when he comes over, he goes to the computer downstairs and they play it with each other. all day she sits on the computer and plays it!! she used to like going out and she went to resaturants and stuff with her bf but not anymore :-( every time i tell her shes playing it too much, she gets mad at me and says theres nothing else to do in our house and she just does it to pass time. but i think shes obsessed and i dont know what to do to make her stop without making her upset at me :-( she goes on EVERY day for at least 8 hours! PLEAASSSSSE HELP! i miss my sister :'-(

2007-08-26 17:47:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

but isn't in reality we aren't really equal:

we both are different physically, mentally and emotionally.
if we are equal why would i have to open the door for the ladies?
if we are equal why men are more responsible to pay child support?
if we are equal why men are required to sign for the Army after turning 18?
is your father the same as your mother?
will you protect your sister similar like your brother?
and if we are truly equal, then how come no woman become president for the USA until now?

in reality, are we equal?

2007-08-26 17:24:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-26 17:00:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is such a sweetheart, your perfect mom, loves to cook, loves to make sure everyone else is OK before herself...I just wondered if anyone had any cute, original perfect gift ideas, something to make, buy, put together...

2007-08-26 16:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by Allison H 2

2007-08-26 16:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I'm in love, but i dont want to be, I'm only 15, anyway, I been trying to forget this girl, for the past week i haven't talked to her, we usually spend nights talking on aim and stuff, till like 3-4 in the morning. I just made up my mind, about personal stuff, and how I feel about my life and etc, well the point is the past week even though i haven't talked to her she's like all i can think about.

I need a really good way to get her out of my mind, dont just say move on its too hard, I'm like literally sitting here crying.

I don't really want to say why i want to forget her but i just do...

I have told her how i feel, which i actually regret, I have no FRICKEN idea why...

I'm not the flirty type...I dont go for girls easily, so don't tell me to move and and get a new girl...I can't and i wont that easily.

AND trust me its not infatuation, i have never looked at her in a sexual way or a way just to have sex, im not that kind of guy.

2007-08-26 16:13:20 · 1 answers · asked by _kish_ 3

OK, I have a huge shoe delema?

Heres my problem. There are sketchers that I really really really want but I live in Australia and Sketchers.com will only ship within the US. The sketchers in Australia are all really really crappy and my current shoes are hurting my feet so I really need new gym shoes :o(
I have been trying to get these shoes for like 6 months and I am against a brick wall.

I have finally come to a way which I could get them. If I was able to give all the details so someone in the US, they could put them on Ebay with a buy it now bid, I could buy it, paying with paypal, then they once I've paid, they could buy them and send them on to me. If anyone would be interested in helping me, they can email me and I will send them the product link so I can get my shoes, if anyone can help me I will love you 4eva and help you out if you ever need similar...

Thank-you for taking the time to read this :o)

2007-08-26 16:10:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??

2007-08-26 15:54:41 · 2 answers · asked by fran c 1

I don't mean to be over -reacting, and please tell me if you think so, but I'm 16, and yesterday at a family get together, i was practically on the coucgh falling asleep because I had a stomach ache, and I had taken some pills that made me sleepy. So as I fall asleep, a long time family friend wanted to rub my tummy to make it feel better...In my oppinion he wasn't rubbing only my tummy. I don't know, I just feel so violated. it's in my head, i cant get the feeling out. I can't discribe the feeling, it's just you know it only after you experince it. I told him to stop, but he kept going, untill i got up and left. What should I do? I feel so alone, and disgusted with myself. I told my mom but she doesn't believe me because i've been moody all day and made her mad, so she thinks im just making it up...please share your thoughts with me. do these feelings ever go away?

2007-08-26 15:46:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

he had told me they broke during the beginning of summer and we've been hooking up lately. well, i just found out that they are still together!!!!!!!! I feel like SHITTT what to do??! please help!

2007-08-26 14:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Buenos Aires, Argentina with my girlfriend. She has two children, boy 16 and girl 15. They use to ask for a taste of wine or beer during dinner but more recently seem to expect that they can drink a glass of wine or beer with dinner. Is this common, normal, and/or healthy?

2007-08-26 14:22:49 · 4 answers · asked by mitscherman 2

2007-08-26 14:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Matt A 1

my step cousin has been calling me upset and in tears, sometimes i cant understand her words. but one thing she makes clear is that she says she want to die, just die. and that she's more likely to die from her own two hands than a car accident or something. I know she's been through some tough times in the past year, but i would have thought she would be over it by now. But seems as if her world is alway gray, she could be happy for a few, then she falls again*out of the blue*. I want to help her, but dont know were to began. I dont even really know whats wrong, because if you as her she would say.
''i cant explain, i just feel it''

2007-08-26 14:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by DJ 6

My little sister is going to start her freshman year and she wants to wear this kind of low cut top from Hollister. Is this a bad thing to wear on the first day of school? Will this give teachers a bad impression?

2007-08-26 14:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by Fredrico 2

2007-08-26 14:01:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have two kids from a previous marriage. Ages 5 ond 3. We divorced because he was cheating on me. with plenty of women. i moved to a different state and made a new life since then i have moved back to the state that he lives in and he is making my life hell. we have joint custody but when he gets the girls he don't want to give them back. i am getting remarried and he has a girlfriend but all he does is talk about my future husband and want to fight him. i personally hate him but for the kids i try to be nice. he does not pay child support because he says he don't want to. Am i wrong because i don't want my kids around him? He calls to speak to them maybe 2x a week. Am i a bad person because i don't want him to get them?

2007-08-26 13:56:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

the gift is for a female

2007-08-26 13:46:57 · 1 answers · asked by kailey b 2

I met this guy and we instantly connected. We spent about a week together and would just sit and talk for hours.We live in different provinces, but he has called me every night since we met and we still talk for hours. He is always telling me how amazing I am and how much he cares about me.I am going to visit him in 2 weeks, and hes coming to visit me in 3 weeks after that. He said he told his parents and friends about me and they cant wait to meet me. He also said he feels like a lucky man to have met me. He genuinely seems like he wants to know all about me and is very interested in my life and making me happy.We've talked about the distance thing and he brought up the idea of him transferring schools in January to be closer to me.Last night he said (kinda jokingly) im trying to figure out how to tell my roomate and friends im moving.I am falling for this guy and feel like we have something really great. Do you think he feels the same way? I do, I just want to get an outside opinon!

2007-08-26 13:34:31 · 2 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

I WANNA KNOW PARENTS ABUSE THEIR KIDS. DON'T THEY LOVE THEM? CHILD ABUSE NEEDS TO STOP!!

2007-08-26 13:30:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous