Other - Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

My partner is f*cking terrible. When he goes downtown it feels like a dog slobbering all over me.

Should I leave him?

We've been together 3 years and I don't think I can take it anymore!

2007-08-30 22:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by Trout Pout (Lollie) 4

Need advice regarding My Parents?
I am 37 years old and have been living with my Mother and Father for a while now since my father lost his ability to walk in 2006.
I Have been taking care of my father and mother and have done all i can. up until recently because both of my parents have showed me no appreciation they call me names, put me down ,and so forth which has left me very depressed, and hurt .this is not the first time either.i feel its time to leave.
Any Advice will be appreciated.Thanks

2007-08-30 22:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by ................ 7

Was it within your control or not?

2007-08-30 21:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by purpleklipse 2

Is Cupid really at work? Why can't he get me one?

2007-08-30 20:52:38 · 4 answers · asked by ernesto 1

done,he went on the roof,told me it looks pretty bad,came off the roof,then he gave me a estimate of $15,000 to take care of the roof.He said that it really needs to be done soon.I said,that i don't have the money for that,I feel unconfortable with doing it right now.I told them when I first met them earlier in the evening,that I only wanted a free estimate.they gave me the estrimate,after alomst three hrs of talking,but never write it down,it was on their laptop computer.When I go get more estimates,what is the best way of doing it,so that I won't feel pressured to sign a contract right away,like they wanted me to?I met them by myself,do you think I should have a freind or someone else with me when I get my estimate?any suggestions?

2007-08-30 20:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by ericfaul2003 4

My wife is pregnant. She was adopted as a baby. Because we're pregnant, we thought now would be a good time to find her natural parents. Well, we found 'em & it turns out my wife's birth dad is black and her birth mom is white. My wife looks white..she has blonde hair & beautiful green eyes. I'm having a hard time dealing with this. All our friends are white, everybody we know is white. I'm scared my kid may be born black. Not that I have anything against black people...it's just that if I wanted a black kid, I would've married a black woman. I don't want a black kid. Now, I'm looking at my wife different...now I know why she has a bubble-butt and Michelle Phiferish lips. I'm finding it hard to look at her the same. I'm afraid to tell my friends or family. Anybody ever been in this situation? What the heck am I supposed to do?

2007-08-30 20:17:06 · 35 answers · asked by Luke Donovan 1

I posted this earlier, but wanted to clarify.
1) I judge people based on looks when I first meet them, as most people do. I find a lot of people ugly.
2) I have liked guys that I first found "ugly" after knowing their personalities....
3) I do not think I am perfect or a model.
4) I do not care if someone finds me ugly, as someone will always find someone else ugly no matter what (Just matter of opinion).
5) I think most people were born as cute kids but develop into ugly adults.
6) I do find some people attractive or average, but less often than I find them ugly.

2007-08-30 20:00:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We recently got in an argument about how shes tired of the same thing... and she won't tell me what she wants, she says that she shouldn't have to ask!!! Any ideas on how I can "satisfy" her better???

2007-08-30 19:42:40 · 20 answers · asked by clerick145 2

I have lost a lot of people that were really close to me, and I just can't get over the fact that I am still in this world when the ones that have helped me the most are gone.

2007-08-30 19:29:58 · 1 answers · asked by Tweety Bell 1

We live in an age where many people are just confused and down right angry at the opposit sex. Is it really a case of being decieved by them or is a 20 million year old instict that makes us cheat , decieve and betray our partner. These issues have been occuring since time out of mind. Do we really understand our own nature? Or is this simply natures way of making sure that our species survive?

2007-08-30 19:19:35 · 5 answers · asked by Bern_CH 5

My life is stressful, depressing all the time now, im becoming more anti-social since ive been hanging out with the girl i love again lately, im always angry, and im never like this. And now my love of my life is asking me to tell my friends im back with her even though they went through 20+ breakups to get me happy again and if i tell them im back, i will totally blow their trust and lose everyone close to me, and my birthdays next week. Not including things will be 20x harder to deal with with no one to hang out with when my love breaks my heart or hurts me in any way. My dad will also lose my trust, my mom and my brother as well as my cousin. Schools stressful, lifes stressful. I don't know what the hell to do. But i need suggestions, because id rather have things to aim for than commit suicide over it all.

2007-08-30 19:02:35 · 21 answers · asked by Zonnxy 2

and they also try be very gentle to you. Im curious because im like that.

2007-08-30 19:00:48 · 1 answers · asked by straight guy 1

ok so my mom just came home from kingsoopers, it was dark out and my dad went in to by food, my mom was waiting in the car and some guy came up to here with a nife and told her to give him money. I dont know what hapened after that cuz she didnt tell me. now i am so scared for my mom because she cant protect herself. What can my mom do to stay safe in an area thats full of those black people who get runk all day im not trying to be racist btw and i know white poeple do it too but where i live its mostly black. Help what are some tips...

2007-08-30 18:10:24 · 18 answers · asked by teenqueen 1

ok heres the situation!my boyfriend is in jail and he been in there for about 5 days now.when he was out he use to do liltle ****** up things to me like pick up his ex girl and taker to work plus he use to go up to some female job and visit her on her lunch brake plus he still had alot of pics of his ex -girlfriends in this photo book and he also still had ex females callin his house!so anyways the point is he does me ****** up and i just want to know do you think its wrong for me to talk to another boy while hes in jail or do you think thats wrong?

2007-08-30 18:04:46 · 27 answers · asked by hazeleyes 1

i always told myself i didnt want a guy that was controlling...i think he is at times...and i love him

he hates when i go out with friends especially if it is some where there will be guys or could be guys and he isnt with me...not because he doesnt trust me but he thinks im so pretty that these guys would do anything to be with me....and trust me im not pretty...so there is no reason for him to think that

and not only is it the guys he has a problem with...but it is my friends too...and i have a problem with them too...they are extremely immature and are basically whores...especially my best friend...and he thinks that if i hang out with them i will be like that too...so if i am hanging out with them he is constantly on the phone with me

is he controlling or just trying to protect me?

2007-08-30 17:36:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a really bad problem of procrastinating when I have to do things. This goes from school projects and papers, to doing laundry and paying bills. I'm so bad that it is part of the reason why I failed out of college. Even now, I can't hold a job because I can't get up in the morning when I need/want to, and I have 3 alarm clocks that go off. I've always been I night person since I was a freshman in high school, but I use to be able to get up and do the things I liked to do in the morning. Now I get up and turn my alarm off, lie back down and all of a sudden it's already noon, or later.

I want to try to get my life more organized. I want to get up and practice playing guitar or piano, but instead I don't I just sit in my bed watching movies while being online looking at videos or on this website giving people advice that I should be following. Can anyone help me out, is there a way to put more discipline in your life and get things on the track again?

2007-08-30 17:24:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard when men go into their caves, they either have a problem to think about or they need time out from their partners. During this period the woman should give her man his space. Is this true in your experience? Would you wait for him to come out of the cave if you really need to talk to him?

2007-08-30 17:15:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 17:11:21 · 2 answers · asked by jmd86 1

I have 5 children and no education. I have never really worked, other than part-time here and there. My Husband has been our primary care giver for years now. However, he is addicted to crack-cocaine. Has been in and out of jail, and tends to get harsh, well physicallly, with me lately. I know that the kids and I could make a life on our own, but we are not able to recieve any form of government assistance. I guess what I really want to know is there actually stil men out there looking to settle down and start a family witha 30 year old woman who has 5 kids, and really doesn't want to work right now? I would like to go back to school though....

2007-08-30 16:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance is such a freaking momma's boy.It is annoying.Right now we are not allowed to be together because of our colleges.But he can't come and visit me because his mother said he cant.He is 19 freaking years old.Will he ever outgrow this?Is there anyway that I can make this happen quicker?

2007-08-30 16:49:18 · 5 answers · asked by vac_witt 1

2007-08-30 16:47:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a late 30s old spinster handmaid. Where I work I love to provide outstanding service to my customers. I've had women customers comment to me saying: "Oh, you'll get married soon, and you'll see that special someone." Or another one I worked for said out of the blue: "Don't worry, you'll find the right one." You won't be single for long."

I mean that is nice and all but they just say it out of the blue and for no reason. I can't stand it when people try to predict my future. Because I wouldn't predict someone elses. I would never say it to a unmarried girl. Obviously she is unmarried for a good reason. Your thoughts.......

2007-08-30 16:34:52 · 24 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

2007-08-30 16:09:32 · 10 answers · asked by tete 1

she gave me all the dates because her and her boyfriend broke up for a week and in that week she slept with another guy unprotected so anyway i worked out that the date she slept with the other guy she was ovulating and her and her partner tried for 2 years to have a baby and were never successful now she is 12 weeks pregnant and she wont believe me that its the other guys baby and not her boyfriends because if it was her boyfriends she would be 15 weeks and 5 days instead of 12 weeks today it is so frustrating what should i do she asked me for the truth and i gave it to her

2007-08-30 15:48:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 14:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like him so tell me what to do. plz signed,in love

2007-08-30 14:08:05 · 1 answers · asked by koolit6 2

Are you currently with them? or are they gone?!

2007-08-30 14:04:41 · 16 answers · asked by I <3 Izzy. 4

Christian names such and John and Willam and Mary and Donna. Instead it was names like Keyshawn and LaToya. Why do you think this happened? I'm not upset by it but it seems to me thats its kind of a way of saying I don't want to be included in your society if I'm reading it correctly. When I hear these names on tv I shake my head. What do you think?

2007-08-30 13:51:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex broke up with me about a month ago. Actually we came to a mutual agreement to give the relationship a temporary break. We were together for about four years. She said she wanted to breakup because she's wasn't happy,but I wanted to breakup for personal reason. She said she love's me but then she goes on and says she needs space. I get the feeling she doesn't want to be with me anymore, although she did buy me some colonge for my birthday a couple of weeks ago. I'ts like she sending mixed signals. what should i do?

2007-08-30 13:33:55 · 2 answers · asked by atboney 1

So I just got a boyfriend now...with one of my friends. And now he's showing me a bit of his immature side that i've never seen before. Like...smelling farts or whatever it is sort of thing. He's a really sweet guy though, romantic...telling me i'm his one and only angel and such. So wanderful. And...I thought I would mind the immaturity but I don't...but at the same time I do. Are all guys naturally immature? how do you deal with it?

And like he'll make these random fart noises....so far that i've known him it's really rare though when he does it. But a few times i'm just like.....woah...didn't see that little immature side coming.

2007-08-30 13:30:01 · 1 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1