ok heres the situation!my boyfriend is in jail and he been in there for about 5 days now.when he was out he use to do liltle ****** up things to me like pick up his ex girl and taker to work plus he use to go up to some female job and visit her on her lunch brake plus he still had alot of pics of his ex -girlfriends in this photo book and he also still had ex females callin his house!so anyways the point is he does me ****** up and i just want to know do you think its wrong for me to talk to another boy while hes in jail or do you think thats wrong?
2007-08-30 18:04:46 · 27 answers · asked by hazeleyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you are both messed up. But, I also think that you are smart enough to realize that. Take a break and be something better.
2007-08-30 18:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a man who does all that stuff and then goes to jail is no good. I am a dude, yes. But I also have common sence to know I should not be flirting with other females when I am commited to a fine lady like yourself. Ok so I guess some guys get flirty...but he is in jail. You are telling me you are going to wait for a person who has commited a crime (in any level), and when he wasn't there, he used to flirt with other women? I say go out there and don't settle for something that might turn out alot worse. Don't just 'talk' to some other guy...but actually date them...as in get rid of your current boy friend.
2007-08-31 02:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by soinlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong for you to be with someone else while he's in jail, or while he's out for that matter. He's playing you hard, and you know that. He's obviously still messing with him, and he's going to continue to because he's probably still got some strong feelings for her if he's not willing to let her go even though he's with you. Just move on to the new guy, and he's end up not being worth your time, find somebody else just don't go back to the jail guy, because one day he is really really going to hurt you emotionally.
2007-08-31 01:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you're relationship is over, and it sounds to me as if it is, or should be. But keep in mind, that the new guy could be better for you, and might very well, fall for you and you for him. I think in your scenario, cheating would be acceptable and right! As for the jail bird, let him stay there, stop talking to him! I mean that, Kelly Grace!
2007-08-31 01:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check your heart truely if your BF still in there! if yes, support him by visiting him etc. this will give you no trouble in mind and in your heart but if you visit or talk to him gives you nothing probably you no longer love him. Tell him what's in your heart so that there's a smooth break up or reverse. There's no wrong in talking w/ other boy--just talking no other business
2007-08-31 01:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by milled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you should stay with this wonderful man. A man in jail is obviously a great catch.
Not real big on the self-esteem, huh?
2007-08-31 01:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you should probably break up with him first, if he's in jail for something violent, you don't want him to find out about you talking to other guys or he might think you are cheating on him.
2007-08-31 01:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by brown_eyed_wonder 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him and you could have a three some or four some, really lady do you really need to ask this question get rid of him and straighten your life out
2007-08-31 02:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by johnt1961 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose that two timing disrespecting, womanizing getting arrested good for nothing bum. Let him get out of jail an be someone's problem.
Good ridden's!
2007-08-31 01:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by antswife 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have lfet him a long time ago. What are you letting this man disrespect you like that? You deserve better than that. Get rid of the jerk!!!
2007-08-31 01:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋