My fiance is such a freaking momma's boy.It is annoying.Right now we are not allowed to be together because of our colleges.But he can't come and visit me because his mother said he cant.He is 19 freaking years old.Will he ever outgrow this?Is there anyway that I can make this happen quicker?
2007-08-30 16:49:18 · 5 answers · asked by vac_witt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just because his mom is like that does not necessarily mean he's a "momma's boy", it's more like... the mom is overprotective and the guy might want to break out of her overprotectiveness but isn't quite sure how to.
I say this because I'm in a similar situation, I'm 20 and almost 21 and since I'm not able to both work and do school at the same time (working on college now) I'm not gonna be able to move out of my house for some time yet. But trust me I definately want to move out asap, and my mom also controls my life to some extent.
Like now I recently met someone (female) at college, and it might not even turn into anything since all I did was hand her my email address so if she never emails me it's not gonna amount to anything. But my mom is all paranoid because I'm a Christian, and she's worried that she isn't. A simple hanging out with someone of the opposite sex is not a binding marriage contract... sheesh. She thinks that I cannot think and act for myself (this is funny and ironic seeing as I am going for a Ph.D in the years to come) So yeah, this is my two cents.
While I am not really sure what I can tell you to help you out in your situation, I thought I'd let you know from a person that is probably experiencing something similar (from your guy's point of view.)
Now I might be wrong and he may truly be a momma's boy in which case you can disregard everything I said.
2007-08-30 17:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Xan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately once a MOMMA's boy always a MOMMA's boy. They do not outgrow it and actually it will get worse when they get older because MOMMA will think that she needs to raise your kids as well. I am sorry but it does not look promising and you need to give him the option before you go any farther. You need to make sure that he will back you when he needs to. I am sorry for you being put in this situation what ever you choose to do I wish you the best!
2007-08-30 16:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by imbford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a mama's boy and he still is a mama's boy. There is really nothing you can do but let him know how much you don't like that he is a mama's boy. I had a talk with his mother, but that didn't do any good so he is still at home to this day in his 20's without me! (go figure)
2007-08-30 17:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by SWEET_COCOA_27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never grow out of loving your Mom!
2007-08-30 16:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is clearly a soft c ock kill his mum or get some1 to beat he puss y *** up
2007-08-30 16:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by MaSsIvE pen15 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋