she gave me all the dates because her and her boyfriend broke up for a week and in that week she slept with another guy unprotected so anyway i worked out that the date she slept with the other guy she was ovulating and her and her partner tried for 2 years to have a baby and were never successful now she is 12 weeks pregnant and she wont believe me that its the other guys baby and not her boyfriends because if it was her boyfriends she would be 15 weeks and 5 days instead of 12 weeks today it is so frustrating what should i do she asked me for the truth and i gave it to her
2007-08-30 15:48:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for those of you who say i wouldnt know she gave me the date she slept with this guy and she gave me the date of her last period and the day she slept with the guy she had been broken up with her bf for a week and she was ovulating the day she slept with the other man
2007-08-30 16:01:10 · update #1
we are in australia there is no maury or dr phil or jerry springer here
2007-08-30 16:03:19 · update #2
she had an u/s and it said she was 12 weeks today and if it were her bf's she would be 15 almost 16 weeks
2007-08-30 16:09:23 · update #3
you should have her have a dna test and have her apply for those whose my baby's daddy show? it will really help. your friend is in a similar situation as my friend geo. he too has the exact same problem. glad to help you. hope you find the information helpful.
2007-08-30 15:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by john h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you told her all you could....
however it could be either.. my sister had the same problem.... her oldest daughter is possibly two guy's baby.. however- the guy they tested for perternity test came out with a high enough percent they didnt test the other guy..the only prob is if it was in fact that guys baby she would have been carrying her for 11 months and she didnt even know she was pregnant (showed no signs or anything until she was about 5 months along! so really its hard to tell... if her "clock" was right on schedule then you are probably right.. but a lot of women are a lil "off" so id say 50/50
2007-08-30 15:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by amandica82 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to request that all of her potential baby daddies need to submit to a DNA test after the baby is born. She wouldn't want the wrong guy stuck with paying child support for the next 18 years now would she?Has your friend not ever heard of using a condom?
2007-08-30 15:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since she's been sleeping around theres really no way to know who is the father of the baby for sure. She's just going to have to wait until she has the baby so that she can get a DNA test done.
2007-08-30 15:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many men are involved, and why it is YOUR responsibility to figure out her "baby daddy?" Tell her to go on the Dr Phil show and have a blood test, for pete's sake! Your friend is pathetic, and I really fear for the baby.Poor little kid.
2007-08-30 15:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its always the "other guy" Especially if her and her boyfriend had been trying for 2 years.. And why would she be "trying" to have a baby with her "boyfriend"? Wouldn't the logical thing be to be married and then try to have a baby? Let me guess they didn't want to get married because they weren't sure if they would last.. but making a baby is ok?
2007-08-30 15:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jerry Springer will tell you, it's NEVER the boyfriend's baby. That makes for bad TV. As far as your friend goes- you did your best....
2007-08-30 15:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Whynot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get a DNA paternity test kit online and send it in for a completely secure and anonymous test.
It just requires a DNA sample (hair) from each of the potential candidates and some from the mother.
It lets you know if it was "A" or "B" and you would know who was "A" and "B".
2007-08-30 15:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to have a DNA when the baby is born if you are right then just go about your day. If you are wrong you need to apologize.
2007-08-30 15:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Calico L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you did what she asked and it was very rude of her to disaggree, no matter how much she wants this guy to be the baby daddy she needs to know it's nto likely...although i was with a guy for 4 years and we never got prenant a year after that we had a baby
2007-08-30 15:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋