Is it "wrong" to view most people I meet as ugly?

Question

I posted this earlier, but wanted to clarify.
1) I judge people based on looks when I first meet them, as most people do. I find a lot of people ugly.
2) I have liked guys that I first found "ugly" after knowing their personalities....
3) I do not think I am perfect or a model.
4) I do not care if someone finds me ugly, as someone will always find someone else ugly no matter what (Just matter of opinion).
5) I think most people were born as cute kids but develop into ugly adults.
6) I do find some people attractive or average, but less often than I find them ugly.

7) I think my boyfriend is good looking, but I think he has a large nose. He also tells me my physical flaws. We "share" in this way and we have been together for 4 years (We're both in our early twenties and in our last year of uni at the moment.)

8) I think a lot of celebrities are ugly as well. (Think Sarah Jessica Parker.)

AM...you are weird. "Struck blind?" You sound like a sadist.

Answer 1

I think we 'learn' what is ugly or pretty to a large extent. Our perceptions of beauty are not generally or wholly innate or biological. Even the few attributes that people everywhere tend to find attractive are valued to a greater or lesser extent based upon exposure to culture and family etc. And so somehow you have 'learned' to believe that people are ugly if they don't meet certain standards that you, others around you, and the media have constructed.

Answer 2

Actually most people I meet are attractive to me. We all can't look alike or have the same coloring or same features, although maybe it would be easier on mankind if that was the case! Or better yet, maybe it would be nice if all people who had a tendency to look upon other people as ugly would be struck blind. That way, if I meet you walking down the street some day, I can be assured you won't be looking at me thinking Im too ugly to breathe. No wait! Because chances are I would find YOUR outward appearance incredibly ugly and then " I " would be struck blind!
But every human being has their own separate little quirks and habits and traits that makes them unique. No human being is replaceable. Just try to see it that way and maybe someday, eventually you will start to change your way of looking at people.

Answer 3

I believe that you can only give what you have to give, and that you feel other people are ugly because that is what you have inside to give. Also you may be acting like you think you are attractive, but that is just covering up your low self esteem and negative feelings towards yourself. I think this has more to do with you than other people. Its not wrong, its just a very closed way of thinking.

Answer 4

Well, it can be wrong, and it can be right. Whatever makes you feel happy is right for you.

My friend up the street is physically challenged, and he has never kissed a woman, for he has been discriminated by all females. He is not ugly, but his life is, and people who judge from the outside make it complicated for this poor little guy who has no control over who he is.

Answer 5

Nothing wrong with it, it's just kind of negative and cynical. Why not try viewing "ugly" people as plain or average instead? Ugly is such an awful term and clutters the mind with unpleasant feelings.

Answer 6

I agree with 5 and 8.

Answer 7

Hey, its on you, at least you try to get to know them and find that you like them. Though I still think it's a little mean to judge before you know.

Answer 8

If you always try to find the beauty in everything including people you will be happier, just imagine you see everybody beautiful... I recommend you to watch "shallow girl"

Answer 9

It's whats in there HEART, you should view, not there looks. The life here on earth is just an illusion.

Answer 10

You must be a good critic on people features, I bet you will be good as a make up artist.