Other - Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

Oh please... i really need help.
I moved away from family and friends last year to be with my boyfriend (army) and just found out my boyfriend is going to Afghanistan next month for 7 months.
My 21st is in early November and he wont be here... i cant go home until Christmas because of money issues.
I have only one friend here and she decided to fly away ON MY BIRTHDAY! She knows i will be alone!
Im so scared that i will be alone and sad on my 21st, i have NO FRIENDS or FAMILY up here... i still have time though
1. What should i do for my birthday
2. Is my friend a true friend for choosing to leave ON my birthday? she could have avoided it.

2007-08-28 23:55:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your first step is just to know about it and I promise you will love and respect it . wait for amazing cd's wihin a month.It deserves waiting.

2007-08-28 22:58:33 · 1 answers · asked by ah.hopeful 2

2007-08-28 22:56:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 22:53:28 · 8 answers · asked by MR.Marhomy 1

i have i promblem with my boyfriend,he dont trust me,on monday he call while i was sleeping so i didn't speak properly,when he call me i always say hie love,that time i didnt say that word at the end he thought i was sleeping with man,i tryed to explain that i was not feeling well he dont want to understand,i love this guy very much and i will never heart her what can i do to convince him that i didnt do anything wrong.

2007-08-28 22:27:04 · 20 answers · asked by lebza1971 1

i don't know who i should go out with, they both said they liked me, but now its hard too choose. They're both awesome, and cute......!

2007-08-28 18:54:40 · 15 answers · asked by <333 1

she were still living with her ex. She had a very abusive life with him.They were getting divorced (still living in same house) when he had a stroke and became an invalid. He can talk and feed himself but everything else is total care. She needs a life but is very devoted to him.No sexual involvement with him for 4 years.So what I"m asking is...Is it wrong to start seeing another man and have some kind of a life?

2007-08-28 18:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by § dreamer § 7

my exbf and I went out 2 yrs ago,we werent on speaking terms but i recently contact him to hang out b4 leaving for college. He agreed and we met up, hung out and kissed at the end of the night (that was our first kiss together) . A week later he left for college but kept in touch; calling me, texting me saying he misses me and wants to kiss me..etc. Well, when he came down from college he asked to see me, I agreed. But I had seen pictures of him and his "ex" girlfriend (he had told me they were broken up and werent really speaking to eachother) rather affectionate on the girl's FACEBOOK. This made me suspicious so I brought a camara with me and met up with him. We made out a lot and he was very affectionate and rather lustful with me..he said things like "things couldve been diff. btw. us" "you are soo good looking" "you are a cool chick to hang out with" and said wow a lot and kissed me alot. At the end, I took out my camara and asked him to pose with me. Well guess what? He hid his

2007-08-28 18:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 18:28:22 · 25 answers · asked by sylvia 2

this one day there was this girl who lies alot and i saw him next to her sitting down talking then when i showed up he got really nervous because when he thought i was cheating on him he holla at her she then told me that he told her if they can have something without telling me and that he tried to kiss her he admited to me that before he kissed her before we went out i still think they did something even though he keps saying no and swearing to god i really do trust him but why would she make that up if we were friends he even spit in her face to show me she was lying thats how mad he was but i strill dont know what do you think

2007-08-28 18:07:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Father and I were walking in downtown Columbus, Ohio, on High Street ,when he decides to jaywalk.
But , High Street's middle line is actually a raised bump in the road. As hr ran across the street, his toe caught on it, tripping at a running speed. Then his body naturally flew forward, and his legs attempted to catch up with his body's momentum, and he barely made it after a little bit of acrobatics.
He's 6'4 and only about 190 , so he looked like a stick puppet in motion, trying not to fall down; he didn't fall down, he made it to the other side, but then looked back at the bump, scratching his head.
I couldn't stop laughing; and then when I made it to the other side, I still kept bursting out laughing,
So he told me, "Man you have a sick sense of humor!"

Do I? Wouldn't you laugh, if you saw that?

2007-08-28 17:52:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 3 adult kids of my own ages 19 son,and two daughters 18,16,they dont get along with the man in my life with whom i have 3 kids with,they have seen me go through some rough times in my relationship with him"abuse" for 1 year this went on until i had him arrested but yes i did let him back in my life,hoping things would work out,but as things were getting on track my kids started having mad attitude with him and was pushing him out of my life,they started nick picking with him and now its hard to attempt at this relationship because my kids totally dislike him,so what am i to do?

2007-08-28 17:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not going to say who thinks what, because that would be pointless. But I was really upset when I heard his opinion of things. Could this ruin our relationship?

2007-08-28 17:21:27 · 10 answers · asked by LivingDeadKat 4

im asingle mother of 6 children with one on the way,i would like to know from the men especially,can i truely find a man that might be interested in me and not think of my kids as baggage and not think of me as a woman in need? i carry my own weight.i love to work and have my own money,but theres no need to lie ,i wouldnt mind some help,which is something i cant seem to find love,joy,security and happiness,which ive been told that makes me an hard *** because im use to being the boss and for a man to step in and attempt to do it is hard for me,but i guess if the right one come along ,i can let go of the power and just be a woman in love who is actually happy for once in her life.

2007-08-28 16:21:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

True love, like soulmates.
Who actually believes in it? Has anyone ever expierenced it?

2007-08-28 15:58:03 · 18 answers · asked by sofitelle 1

tight hugs....
long hugs....
pat on the back hugs....
short hugs....
held around the waist hugs...
pick up hugs....

2007-08-28 15:48:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first viewing when my father passed away, my mom, family and friends attended. On the second day, my fathers current wife would not allow my mom, family and friends to attend his Rosary and funeral. She made my grandma and my fathers brothers and sisters stand in the 100 degree heat. She stated that she did not want my mom, family and friends to attend. I just want to get someone else's opinion on this situation. Some of my family and friends came as far as 300 miles to show there respect.

2007-08-28 15:45:47 · 14 answers · asked by BG 1

if someone owned 17 rental properties plus her own home and had credit card debt upwards of $60,000, how would they qualify for medicaid coverage and food stamps? There is a 2 year old in the house that lives with her, her tax returns show a loss every year but that is mostly smoke and mirriors, can anyone give me any information as to how this person could get medicaid benefits?

2007-08-28 15:45:29 · 3 answers · asked by bri 1

my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. We broke up twice but got back together in a week. Well, we broke up after prom b/c he just left me at the shore and hung out with a bunch of ppl but me. Apologized so much but we decided to end things. Besides, him staring and watching his ex bothered me too. He was in lust with her. Anyway we got back together during the end of summer but I found out that two weeks before we got back together he was hanging out with her and they shared a KISS. Not only that but I find out he kept in touch and a week after we got back together they hung out again and this time they shared passionate kisses and made out. But he swears he loves me not her. Idk what to do? She didnt know that we were back together when this happened....he had told her we were broken up. He says he finds her attractive and all but he loves me and only me. What do you think?

2007-08-28 15:43:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

tired to join an organization not too long ago, an organization I had longed to be a part of,and got accepted, but didn't go on to fully become a member :( I know bummer.Well anyways, so a few months go by and I meet this guy, I mean he's handome, smart, a prominent leader, but he was three years younger than I plus he happened to be the brother and best friend of one of the members of the the organiztion I almost joined. We started talking, and there was some chemistry, but not enough to feel like I wanted to be in a relationship with him,(if you catch my drift)so he starts calling me late hours of the night, he invited me over, we got drunk, and had sex, I felt some guilt but we talked it over and he assured me that there was nothing to feel guilty about, he wasn't involved with anyone in the organization and everything between us would be only between us, so a few months go by, and we really didn't talk that much but we hooked up again, and I called him, he called me afterwards

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3 minutes ago
(sorry for the long details) but yeah we were talking and I told him that I didn't want anyone to know about our sexual realtionship, I told him this because I didn't want people to think that I was a **** and put me in that category, and plus I told him that I might want to one day try to rejoin again, and he was like well, we do have a relationship, and in the midst of everything he was accusing me of playing on his phone, and all this stuff, but yet we got intimate, and we talked that night and he told me he thought I try to hard, and he started playing footsies, but then a few weeks goes by and I call to see if I left something at his house and he gets upset and tells me to never call him again and he'll tell everyone about our relationship, so now when I run into him, he doesn't speak, and the members sort of shun me as well,my question did I do anything wrong in your opinion and should I rejoin even though I might run into the same people, and why do you think he acted the way?

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58 minutes ago
What was really crazy...is the fact that after he threatened me and told me not too call him anymore, his best friend calls me out the clear blue asking me to come to one of his events..and I'm thinking oh yeah" somthing is up..

2007-08-28 15:42:58 · 10 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1

Has anyone here gone on without sex for the past 5 to 6 years? Can you last so long without it? Do you think sex should be part of everyone's life?

What did you do to overcome the urge?

2007-08-28 15:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 35 y/o brother. (I'm 41). Last year he got himself into a very difficult financial situation. I felt really bad for him. He moved in my city cause there's a lot of jobs here. I forwarded the money for him to move and settle. He found a good job right away. At first it was hard for him (he said) so I would help with his month's end also. Now it's been 8 months since he works and he's still asking for money from time to time. I'm starting to feel like a bank machine! Needless to say I have my own responsibilities to face.

Did I do right by giving him the money or I should of let him fetch for himself even if he is my brother?

2007-08-28 15:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by Jane Marple 7

I don't like my friends anymore its like i grew out of them and i dont need the once i got right now there like ruining my life.. and its ruining my reputation for high school. When i hang with them they older seniors think im stupid and they guy i like probably hates me cause of them and when they act in mature and tell him ****... and just randomly bug him. So really, I want to ditch my friends [[i know sounds harsh lol] so how do you make new friends any tips?

2007-08-28 14:52:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of two and a half years has been talking a lot to this girl he met in grad school. I have found that they email back and forth rather frequently and that they also Instant message each other as well. Just recently I found her ipod over at his house that he said he was working on fixing and adding new songs to it. I should say we met through a internet dating site where we got more and more interested as we chatted longer and longer via email/instant messenger and sometimes talked on the phone in the beginning of our relationship. I am just worried that in time he might start to grow feelings for her. They are going through some of the same things, such as both being laid off of their job at relatively the same time and also are going to grad school to continue their education. I see that they have several similarities and Im starting to feel a little threatened by their close friendship. Am I being overly jealous or paranoid?

2007-08-28 14:38:03 · 1 answers · asked by jilly27 1

this on 16 year old asked my little sis out and shes 12 she wanted to go but she new that he was the wrong age and now hes going to ask her again but shes deciding rather to go or not what should i tell her? i want your opinion

2007-08-28 14:30:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My former teacher emailed me...her words were..."Hi there Miss Shira...I was just thinking of you this weekend. I was missing my sweet students that I had last year. In a way, I'm really sad b/c you all are "graduated" but at the same time, I know you have moved on to bigger and better things in life." Was she mainly referring to me only when she said "you all" or was she referring to the rest of her students? Do you really think that she misses me?

2007-08-28 14:17:49 · 1 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1

From a significant other?? :) I know it is not polite to look a gift horse in the mouth, but we have all received bad gifts, no?

2007-08-28 14:09:31 · 2 answers · asked by Melissa's Smile 2

Each day I coint as a blessing for I
Dost not know if tomorrow I'll be here
What circomstances shall befall
Only that it's vital to be prepared
Is the oitcome of my sol in qoestion?
Naoght for in being aware
Of opportinities to be taken advantage of
I dare not hesitate
And given the chance to share my love
Time , I shall not waste!

Message: Many words left onsaid never reach the ears of whom they were intended. The voice of the speaker fades as a whisper. Yet when spoken these words comfort and inspire. Reaching the heart of the listener. Today, many get so caoght op in their own affairs, they neglect those whom they love the most.
To those who took care to read this, I'd appreciate yoir response.

2007-08-28 13:53:09 · 1 answers · asked by Sol is Real 2

?tell me

2007-08-28 13:51:37 · 2 answers · asked by corso 3

I'm about to be roommates with a certain someone. We're not friends. We are merely just acquaintances and we're about to sign a lease good for one year to rent and share a room together just the two of us. We're both from the same country and working as expats in a foreign land. It'll be my 1st time to share a room with someone for that long of a period. Any ideas/suggestions on how to maintain good relations with a roommate would help out a lot. We're both female btw.

2007-08-28 13:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous