i have i promblem with my boyfriend,he dont trust me,on monday he call while i was sleeping so i didn't speak properly,when he call me i always say hie love,that time i didnt say that word at the end he thought i was sleeping with man,i tryed to explain that i was not feeling well he dont want to understand,i love this guy very much and i will never heart her what can i do to convince him that i didnt do anything wrong.
2007-08-28 22:27:04 · 20 answers · asked by lebza1971 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is childish. give him the cold shoulder
2007-08-29 00:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt do anything wrong, and your conscience its clear -obviously he is the one with security issues. Either you talk to him about it and ask him to trust you. Let him know once he trusts you - you will do your best not to betray his trust and take it from there.
If he continues on being this way - then its up to you to decide whether you should carry on with him. Its one thing to love someone and another thing to be practical and realise that a relationship cannot be happy going on like this without a resolution.
Good luck!
2007-08-29 05:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Maxine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you did not do anything wrong and have nothing to feel guilty for. Tell him that if he does not start trusting you, that the relationship might as well be over. Tell him that you have always tried to be understanding when he was feeling ill, and that he should be respectful enough to you to do the same.
2007-08-29 05:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very insecure. This might be his way of control over you. You should be mad at him and distance yourslef from him as you want someone sane that has more confidence.
Don't get into that game playing where he considers you a cheater and you are always trying to prove how much you love him.
2007-08-29 05:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are built on trust without it there is no relationship, you need to sit him down and tell him this and explain that you were sick ask him why he is so nervous did someone chat on him in the past hope this helps and best of luck
2007-08-29 05:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by K k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to call you so late at night, and you will be more awake. If he doesn't trust you than he's not worth your time. Trust is a big issue in a relationship.
2007-08-29 05:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by ChemoAngel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother trying to convince him, if he is so sure that you are cheating on him and refuses to trust you, I would start wondering if there is a future in this relationship.
2007-08-29 07:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Can you spell, or at least click on the Check Spelling button? Don't uderstand much, but he probably has good reasons not to trust you.
2007-08-29 05:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by japiecrox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello.
how long is youre relation?he dont seem to trust you,a very jelours type huh?
you are the only one to confince him,and if he doesent believe you,it is not a good relation.
i wish you succes,and i hope he ask the next time when youre a wake good,so you return good answere him,i dont know you,but i believe you
2007-08-29 05:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by bert o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dreadful relationship to me! If he doesn't trust you, let him go and find someone else and then you can find a decent man to spend your time with.
2007-08-29 05:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by Katkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a sign that he is cheating. He is trying to get you in the act when he is really the one cheating. You really cant convince him. I would take a break from him for a while and look around.
2007-08-29 05:31:25 · answer #11 · answered by Quifta 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋