Other - Family & Relationships - 25 August 2007

I have moved from CO to Kentuckey about 2yrs. ago and I have grown up alot but now I'm lonely and I have been trying to meet guys but I'm out of whack with this one and I've only really been in one relationship in my life that lasted five years. I'm 23 and sometimes it feels like I'm running out of time. MY Q is I'm I crazy for thinking this and is it normal for me to want to start a family now becuase I really want to.

2007-08-25 23:57:43 · 11 answers · asked by finebrown1982 1

Or should us guys just carry a white flag around at all times?

2007-08-25 23:56:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had prostitute friend, she was pregnant from me, but after four months she got aborstion, bucause of this i am so unhappy now, and now i hate that prostitue,
is it better that we shoud say prostitute is only the prostitute

2007-08-25 23:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by jeemi 2 1

I was a member of 360 for about a year and made some good friends on it, but in April left because of issues I had with it. However, I kept in touch with some of the people I met on there and met one of them recently. He said they have meet-ups the 360 people go to and invited me to one next month. If I go, I'll meet all my friends off the site.
However, several of them froze me out after I left, maybe because (being online and never sure about who people are) I pretended to be a bit older than I really am. They know the truth now, but I'm worried if I go then something will be said. On the other hand, my close friends from there really want to meet me and vice versa! What should I do, I'm in such a dilemma.

2007-08-25 23:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by Suzie 2

I met this guy off the internet about 2 weeks ago, we had been chattinf for a year and then finally met, but we ended up sleeping together, it was fantastic, we got on great, he still continued to text me for a week after, and he wanted to meet agaian, but then this week I have heard nothing from him, I have text him and he hasn't replied, plus he is off abroad for a year next month. I don't get why he is suddenly ignoring me, did he use me? if so, why didnt he ignore me straight away? I'm so confused? Has this ever happened to you?

2007-08-25 23:19:33 · 5 answers · asked by babygirl 1

2007-08-25 22:29:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe people push me around. Yet i only notice afterwards. My first instinct is to help (do onto others as u would like that they do onto u). how do i realize when people are just taking advantage of me/ or, if they really sincerely need my help?

2007-08-25 21:55:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a Gay!!
I felt in Love with my student who is 4 years younger to me (27 years old). I have done so many things for him. Given lots of money, helped him passing the exams, taken him out for foreign tours at my expense. I have always felt sexual love for his body but he is not GAY. Now he is to complete his studies so he is ignoring me. How can I forget him? What should I do? I love him more than my life?

2007-08-25 21:08:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been stuttering ever since I could remember. And I am so ready to stop. But the weird thing is that I stutter more around my famiy. I hardly do it at skool or with my friends.. I just need help.. AND FAST.. Im going into H.S nxt year and I dont think the most attractive thing is a girl that stutters.

P.S: My mom wont pay for lessons bc she doesnt think its that important.

2007-08-25 20:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by babycakestm 1

I feel pathetic, I just cant see myself making a move with a girl, even though I desperately want to. Im an 18 year old college freshman who gets so shy around pretty girls, especially a group of pretty girls. My roomate isnt as shy as me when it comes to this...What should I do? Ive been shy as long as I can remember...girls just seem to ignore me?

2007-08-25 20:32:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean most of the time...

2007-08-25 20:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by cathy d 1

hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??

2007-08-25 20:15:52 · 5 answers · asked by kat5634foru 1

I was engaged to the woman I thought I was gonna have grow old with. Now after like four and a half years together she's decided she hooked up with me too young and she wants to go play the field, I guess. Basically I got dropped like a bad habit and it hurts like hell. Is there anything I can do to make this suck less?

2007-08-25 19:36:03 · 4 answers · asked by Brian V 5

Don't you want somebody to love? Don't you need somebody to love? Wouldn't you like somebody to love?

Yes, yes, and more yes.

I'm kind of socially awkward in the real world, tormented with lots of self-doubt and I'm not typically handsome (as a lot of guys around where I am are). I don't really go to any clubs or bars or anything like that because I don't just want a one-night fling and I don't like the idea of going home with someone who's drunk.

I'm a pretty nice guy (at least I'm pretty sure I am), thoughtful, something of a hopeless romantic, intelligent, and I'm willing to try and improve myself. I know I'm inexperienced in both sex and love, and I want to get better.

Honestly, I think I could potentially be good relationship material. I just can't seem to get my foot in the door, and I'm not attractive enough to really get girls to come to me.

Outside of getting into the working world and hoping things change on their own, I'm at a loss. Is there any hope for me?

2007-08-25 19:21:16 · 3 answers · asked by vfaulkon 2

"Between the ages of 13 and 15 I dated a boy with whom my dad fell in love with (only really for his work ethic). Within these two years he beat my self esteem down to nearly nothing and I questioned why my friends would even bother talking to me. Finally, after a heated argument about a gay friend and mine's relationship, I broke it off, but he remained friends with my brother of two years younger.
My parents feel that it would be unfair for them to disallow my ex access to the house because of his friendship with my brother. I feel that they can remain friends, but do not want my ex at the house. Now 18, I've completely changed my mind about wanting to stay at the house through college to moving out as soon as I can, only to separate myself from my ex. I want to know what others experiences and opinions of this situation are. "
I posted this in a previous question, and now I feel like I want to reword the question. See details...

2007-08-25 19:11:36 · 7 answers · asked by Janelle W 3

I want to ask this girl out but I'm shy,and kinda fat. Were friends but I don't know. I 'm nice to her and I'm funny. I 'm afraid of rejection for it could ruin our friendship. Any pointers of getting her to like me?

2007-08-25 18:38:01 · 2 answers · asked by Alec B 2

my boss thinks i should tell this new young female coworker that she need to fix her BO or she will be fired! There has been many complaints about her smell from other coworkers that its REALLY bad.
what do i say?

2007-08-25 18:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by marina_703 1

In this ay and age, I still encounter many men who think that women only work because they have to, because they can't get a man. Or that feminism is for ugly women (Limbaugh).
Why can't they understand that some women are fulfilled by intellectual achievement and problem solving and participating in public life, just like guys are. Why do they think that marrying, cooking cleaning and having kids is enough for us if it is not enough for them? You'd never see a guy sacrificing his career to stay home and look after the kids. Why do they think we should do something that they would do themselves?
do they still think that using your brain and intellectual inquiry are inherently masculine?
How can women be happy if they don't like intellectual pursuits?

2007-08-25 18:21:59 · 15 answers · asked by Nat R 2

some times hes souch a pain in my but he gets mad at me for doing the same things he dose it dose not make any sence help!!!

2007-08-25 18:10:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jen 1

nothing cliche plz

2007-08-25 18:05:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-08-25 17:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by Chelsea 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and have been sleeping together for a few months now. Most of the time we work, so we only have one day to spend together really. Most days he spends the whole day with me, but whenever we have sex he'll stay an hour or so after that, and then say he wants to go home. I wonder why he does this. Is it a very common thing for guys to do?

2007-08-25 17:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Me 5

My husband travels a lot with his work. I work full time, I'm pregnant and I have a 2 year baby at home. I'm not trying to make excuses. When my husband is away, I'm just so tired at the end of the day, after the baby is asleep I just want to relax and watch tv then go to bed. I don't have any motivation to clean my house. Any suggestions?

2007-08-25 16:55:21 · 7 answers · asked by MTWater 2

we find out today that shes pregnant and more than likely its mine due to inactitvity b/w her and her husband. i had planned on moving out of country but now that this has happened i dont wanna just leave her, even if she is willing to take the responsibility by herself. i am not looking for a shame on u speech, i am asking WHAT U WOULD DO IF U WERE ME. i know in situations like this we all tend to tackle the circumstance. i need more like a solution or a suggestion.

2007-08-25 16:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

I have been going out with the love of my life for 3.5 years. He asked me to marry him too.
Tomorrow, I plan to break-up him because I want to be free. I want freedom! He's a good person, I love him to death...but I have to leave him if I want this freedom.
I am not cheating on him, I am not wanting someone else, and I am not lesbian.
My life is excellent when I am with him. He makes me smile and he makes me extremely happy,so what the heck is wrong with me?

2007-08-25 16:01:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been on my own for about 8 months now and I want to see what it is like to do some things by myself. For example, travel to a town by myself and do what I want to do. Usually when I go out of town it is with my family, and there is nothing wrong with that. But I would like to go one time by myself, just to see what it is like. I would also like to go to the movies once by myself. Is this wrong? My mom acted like I was weird because I wanted to try doing these things by myself, with no one else.

2007-08-25 14:13:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So are you coming over or not?

2007-08-25 14:05:32 · 4 answers · asked by yana nikolaeva 2

I like this gurl, and we are both in the same 11 grade US History class, but she sits on the other side of the room, and everyone kinda has seats they sit in every day, they're not assigned, but i dont really want to take someones seat. And i know i need to get to know her before I make any moves, But i dont know how to get to know her, because i dont know what to say if i see her in the halls. (Actually its a portable, so it would be on the way back to the school) and i dont want to make her late.

What should I do?

2007-08-25 13:55:45 · 3 answers · asked by helix 1

2007-08-25 13:39:02 · 6 answers · asked by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7

Hi I have been with out a woman for some time now. I have recently met some one. We have known each other for a week now.. She has already started to ask favores, like 10 bucks for gas, wich she got, ciggaretts, wich she did not get, long trip, so she didn't have to burn her fuel, wich didn't take place and more.

I may still be blind to the fact she may be one of those people that latch on to you, and bleed you dry, cause your a nice guy, and try to help out if possable

What do you think out there in cyber land ??

2007-08-25 13:13:30 · 1 answers · asked by duster 6