Other - Family & Relationships - 25 August 2007

my sister is dating this guy for about 2 years now but the thing is when ever that guy is drunk he wants to shoot himself. what do u guys think my sister should do ? she really loves him.

2007-08-25 13:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

His good traits
1.loving/devoted dad(his child from 1st marrage)
2.supporting exhusband(takes "the high road" with his ex for his son's sake)
3.no drugs/drinking
4.hard worker/good job
5.smart/clean cut
Ok sounds good right? now for the 'bad traits"
1.history of cheating(left wife for old gf then left old gf for me)
2.temper(never hit me but can sware and yell alot)
3.has crazy/controlling exwife
4.money issues(asked me to pay off his debt once 25k and did the if you love me you would do it)
5.has to be reminded of my b-day/valentines day(we went "dutch" on both these days)
6.In the 5 yrs i got flowers once.

2007-08-25 12:20:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married to a man who seems to not want to ever be home. He tries to sell the idea that all men go out two to three times a night after work to the store, the video store, to the office, to call there mom or whatever there is always an excuse and if i say anything then he starts with how i am being unreasonable. I finally asked him how many days has he not gone out at least once. He could only come up with three total. He will even go out during a blizzard. He says he needs time to his thoughts. I said well i never have that luxery since i must take care of our 1 year old daughter. I can not come and go as I please. He tells me how i take so much for granted.. But is he not taking the ability to come and go for granted. I am tiered of feeling like home is a hit and run. Home is to eat and sleep and maybe catch a show he likes. Outside of that he would rather be somewhere else. He says i am parinoid. My perspective is wrong. That all men do this.

2007-08-25 11:55:52 · 10 answers · asked by dreamsofinsomnia 3

I have accepted a job back in my home down. It was a long testing process, but I am finally in. I start Oct. 1st. My GF of over a year has no idea. I made the decision not to tell her, as I wanted to make this decision for me and ONLY me. I did not want any outside influences.

I am a little nervous about telling her, as I dont want to hurt her. I am also afraid of feeling regret over this, but I know I need to live my life. I am only 22, and I am passionate about my career. She will not move with me, so that is out of the question.

Whats the best way to do this? And when woudl the best time be? Wait till the very last minute, or now?

2007-08-25 11:44:42 · 8 answers · asked by handguns_4_hearts 2

My personality is one where I could easily stay at home by myself for a week - during the summer holidays I have gone out very infrequently - but I'm waiting to head off to university and I can start socialising much more there. I guess I want to know whether there are any other people who could if they wanted go out more, but just can't be bothered/ motivated to.

2007-08-25 11:07:35 · 2 answers · asked by Amachronic 2

He is very heterosexual, no doubt about that. But he does seem almost obsessed with my shoes. If we are sitting together, he will take off one of my shoes and just hold it. He has told me that he loves to see me dangle my shoe from my toes. He has said that he would like to see me walk out of a shoe. I do both of these things for him. He is a lovely man and I love him dearly. Do I have a problem?

2007-08-25 09:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by goodygirlie 2

for me, cheating (i stupidly kissed a guy) on my boyfriend who i ADORE...

2007-08-25 09:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

children that he was supposed to look after within his marriage.

2007-08-25 09:16:48 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

down in me, I actually don't care a **** about almost everything, should I stop pretending or keep pretending that I care and worry for something?

2007-08-25 08:48:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-25 08:33:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-25 08:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my friend is dating my boyfriends's friend.After she dumped his friend for him.Now she wants to dump him for my best friends ex.Which my best frined and her ex broke up b/c they went to diff. schools.And my friend goes to the same school as my bestfriend.And this is all in the matter of 3 days.IO would really apriciate some advice b/c i dont know what to tell my friend.Thanks.:D Best answer gets 10 points.

2007-08-25 08:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by mla2794 1

2007-08-25 08:00:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-25 07:46:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom, now 56 yrs old, was telling me about how if I were to have 2 kids, and one be a girl and one be a boy, that I would need a 3 bedroom place. And I asked why. She told me that you cant have a child of the opposite sex in the same room. She was saying how (she has 3 boys and 2 girls) me, i had always had a separate room from my brothers because fo this, and my brothers all shared a same room. Now I dont know it this was just in florida because thats where I was raised, but can someone tell me if this was the truth back then or even present, or if my mom was just being cautious about us kids toegtehr and if so can you find me a link...

2007-08-25 07:37:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

or a kiss or anything at all...its just that i am craving for a lil love and attention from all the people in my life(that includes YOU)...please give me a special one...pretty please...lastly,thank you so so much for making my day...

2007-08-25 07:18:38 · 43 answers · asked by Luscious Sasa 2

my hubby's sis always notices every thing about me, on her wedding day she told me that my eye shadow was too bright, I said that I like it so thats enough. Then she was complimenting my sisters eyelashes and then immediately said how my eyelashes were straight and small. I was like " omg you seem to notice every small detail about me you must really like me, but you are the bride and so must focus on how you look instead of focusing on me all the time", she immediately went red. I'm not saying that my make up is perfect but why should it bother her, even my hubby never noticed my pink eyeshadow and how small my eyelashes are. I model for tv so I have learnt to apply make up for myself if I need to. I dunno I always feel like she is noticing every flaw about me. However she constantly compliments others. She knew I went to get my eyebrows done, and she was like " let me see, oh" and never said anything. I feel really small around her

2007-08-25 07:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl i like I catch looking at me across the room like 3 times today (there was alot of people in the room) and the last time I caught her I looked her in the eyes and she looked down with her eyes then away and me and some one else were laughing about something I looked at her and she was smiling and laughing along with me. Shes not shy but she wont approach me

I love this girl so much. I would do anything for her I dont know why but i feel like we belong together.

2007-08-25 06:53:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's that simple. She will follow the first answer we get!

2007-08-25 06:23:04 · 2 answers · asked by Jana 1

Alright! This one is mainly for the guys. How aggrivated would you get if you were told by a very attractive women that she has just finalized her divorce and you were indireclty asked about your own status (grounded or still flying high), hint-hint? Would you consider this cruelty? Oh and your married too.
Ladies, don't freak out just yet. Yes the ring was shown to end the subject with this person.

2007-08-25 05:46:01 · 6 answers · asked by caslow26 2

Ok so, how do I let this guy (in high school, same as me) know that I just want to be friends without saying it? I used to like him and I'm almost positive he liked me too but I think we're both over it now. I just don't want him to think that I like him again when I am just trying to be his friend. Any suggestions? Thanks so much, high school boys are tough.

2007-08-25 05:31:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

it became too much the sites which tell sotries about the families which had sex "the brother with his sister and his mother"..i believe that these sotries is not real"...
did you meet something like this in real before!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-25 05:17:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

here it goes
shes extremely popular
she noes i like her
wut i do

2007-08-25 05:17:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thru thick and thin, who is always there for you no matter what.

Who has proven to not be just a "fair weather friend"?

How have they proven that to you?

2007-08-25 05:07:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-25 04:50:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

how would i ask a girl if she has a bf w/o it being akward after(if she does)? also what to do if she does bcuz i don't want to be like oh umm...i'm gonna go now or something.

2007-08-25 04:49:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

and is it different rules for men and women?

2007-08-25 04:01:47 · 10 answers · asked by hotsophisticate 1

What are some good ways to boost your confidece level, when you can't feel good about yourself no matter what you do. I have more friends than anyone could ever imagine or need, and i love them to death. Sadly, as most girls do i leave how i feel about my looks up to the guys, and it results in pain. I don't have a really stable family life right now and no where i go i feel safe. I also get physically sick when im emotianlly upset, so i really need to start getting some confidence, and get back on the right track.

2007-08-25 03:45:36 · 9 answers · asked by Jessiexxlove 3

i wear hearing aids since the age of three (im 25 now). i grew my hair to cover them (im a guy) at uni. i then moved and got a job they were always covered so i never told anyone i wore them. three years i have worked there nobody knows. now the idiot who cut my hair messed up and you can see it clear as rain. i am not looking forward to work on tuesday now. what can i do?

2007-08-25 00:06:23 · 22 answers · asked by jojoar 1