What are some good ways to boost your confidece level, when you can't feel good about yourself no matter what you do. I have more friends than anyone could ever imagine or need, and i love them to death. Sadly, as most girls do i leave how i feel about my looks up to the guys, and it results in pain. I don't have a really stable family life right now and no where i go i feel safe. I also get physically sick when im emotianlly upset, so i really need to start getting some confidence, and get back on the right track.
2007-08-25 03:45:36 · 9 answers · asked by Jessiexxlove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
-Yes, thats really my picture.
2007-09-01 03:35:40 · update #1
i will pray for you, God is where you should get your confidence from. He took the time to create you, and He thinks your special !!! how about talking to someone you trust.... how come you don't feel safe? has something happened to make you feel that way? i grew up in an unstable house too, it's difficult, but you can make it!! don't take other people's oponions, on how you look.....have you heard the expression......oponions are like butties....... everyone has one !!! most of them stink and are best kept at a distance !!! best wishes !
2007-09-01 12:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by cherokee squaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is really your picture, you do not need to be told you are a lovely young lady. Perhaps you need a a change in your employment if you are old enough to be working. Perhaps your friends bore you without you knowing that they do. You need a direction. Try seeking a job through your school counselor or at a college where you could find a counselor to give you ideas about what you would really like to do with your life. Keep looking, life is full of interesting things to do and there are so many beautiful things to see in this wonderful, crazy world. Just do not give up, good things will come to you if you look on the good side of life instead of the negative side. Happy days ahead.
2007-08-31 21:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im a chubby little girl.... Im pretty much pretty in the face but im chubby. Plus Im shortish..... I like dressing up in baggy clothes and stuff i dont care on what boys or anybody thinks of me...... You shouldnt let anyone put u down.... its not what they think its what u think.... if anyone dont like u cause of ur looks u should forget them cause there not a good person..... if they dont care on ur looks then they are great friends/boyfriends or what ever. I felt bad for my self at first but now i feel like who gives a crap i love me thats all that counts.... oh and remember this......
Girls are like apples on trees.The best ones are at the top of the tree. Th boys dont want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they get the rotton apples from the ground that arent as good,but easy. So the apples at the top think there is somthing wrong with them, when in realality, They are amazing.They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, The on who is brave enough to climb to the top of the tree.
I got that off another site it helped my confidence of my self.... and if u switch the poems its also the same for boys... lol so I hope this helps....
2007-09-01 17:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things that you do well and these do exist, do them often. Confidence comes from within. You don't need a guy to tell you how good you look. Sure times get hard and it sounds like you have hit a rough patch. This won't last forever. Humor is the best medicine. Always look for a comedic outlet.
2007-09-01 17:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you let boys decide how you feel about your looks? I think one of the most sexy things in a women is when SHE is confident in herself. Now don't get this confused with being cocky, or full of yourself, but you shouldn't need some stupid boys to tell you how you feel about yourself. I think inner beauty is far more important then outer beauty.
You should pick some role models in your life, women who are very confident and successful and work to be like them. and just relax a bit, you have got a lot of life ahead of you, don't worry so much. Go with the flow of things.
good luck!
2007-08-25 04:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by crysent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wonderfully and beautifully made. Can't no man respect or love you if you don't love yourself. Fix your hair,your clothes, your attitude, fix whatever you want but the lack of self confidence is in your mind. No man can change that but the one above girl! I was once feeling like you and now I'm like Kanye West cause( you can't tell me nothing) you are beautiful and there still is a future of hope for you. Trust it is gonna get better!!!!!! BELIEVE
2007-09-01 22:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depression seems most of your problem and that is where it lies you need to see doc and get on meds to help revive yourself and you wil then feel good again.
2007-08-29 16:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me BUT if that is your picture you must live in an isolated area where the boy's are stupid YOU ARE WOW GIRL TELL THEM TO SHUVE THEIR OPINIONS go and enjoy your self
2007-09-01 08:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by raggy1852 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,, 1st
your very fit,,,,,,which helps
2nd
you got really sexy eyes
Thats all you need
have a good day
2007-08-27 01:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋