Alright! This one is mainly for the guys. How aggrivated would you get if you were told by a very attractive women that she has just finalized her divorce and you were indireclty asked about your own status (grounded or still flying high), hint-hint? Would you consider this cruelty? Oh and your married too.
Ladies, don't freak out just yet. Yes the ring was shown to end the subject with this person.
2007-08-25 05:46:01 · 6 answers · asked by caslow26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she was just wondering if you cheated on your wife.
When I was going through my divorce, a "friend from work" asked me who was "servicing" me. Huh? Anyway, he was offering his "services", oh, and it was "OK" with his wife. I picked up the phone, asked him for her number and told him that if it was "OK" with her and she told me that, it would be "OK" with me. He couldn't get far away from my desk fast enough.
But on the other hand, she could have just been trying to see if someone she thought was attractive, would be interested in her. Kind of a self-esteem thing.
It's not cruelty. Take it as a compliment that she found you attractive. Also take comfort in knowing that if presented with an opportunity to cheat on your wife, (you were), that you loved your spouse enough to say no.
2007-08-25 05:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was the first time or she didn't know it doesn't bother me.
If they know and still ask, hint, flirt...etc. Depends how there doing it. If its a true come on highly aggrivating/cruel.
Thing is i don't see woman in that way much really. I'm not in the market so why window shop.
2007-08-25 12:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by ball 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually the ring sometimes doesn't make any difference - i have seen 2 men that i work with take their wedding rings off and keep them off, because they said they got hit on more with them on than they did with them off - go figure!
2007-08-25 13:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by mommymel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the ring do the talking.
2007-08-25 12:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Pups 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aggravated?
I would be flattered. now if she continued to hound me after knowing I was married, that would be a different story...:)
2007-08-25 12:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get aggravated because I would have had sex with her.
2007-08-25 12:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by naked_lunch82 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋