He is very heterosexual, no doubt about that. But he does seem almost obsessed with my shoes. If we are sitting together, he will take off one of my shoes and just hold it. He has told me that he loves to see me dangle my shoe from my toes. He has said that he would like to see me walk out of a shoe. I do both of these things for him. He is a lovely man and I love him dearly. Do I have a problem?
2007-08-25 09:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by goodygirlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on how open you are . I know what its like, he is just got a shoe fetish. My ex had one. It never bothered me, he just like shoes and I must say he had a good taste in style. But he was very much a hetro. There is no problem there. As long as he loves you and its just you two , little things like that shouldnt matter.
2007-08-25 09:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by vada1977 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
An obsession with women's shoes is not that uncommon and does not mean that you cannot have a happy relationship. BUT how happy are you about this situation? If you are asking this question I feel that you have some doubts. If you are happy to dangle your shoes in the privacy of your home that is not a problem. But where does he want you to walk out of a shoe, at home or in the street? Would you be happy to walk out of shoe in the street?
Any relationship is between two people and there is bound to be some give and take. Are you happy with the balance or do you think you are doing too much giving?
Look on the bright side though, if you are happy with things you should have no problem persuading him that you need lots of shoes LOL
2007-08-25 09:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. And neither does your husband. It is something that you can both do for each other. You can entice him with your lovely feet and shoes and give him pleasure and he will appreciate your openness and willingness to accept and take part in his fetish. There is no harm in it and you have a very special and deep understanding of each other. I think that is wonderful.
2007-08-25 09:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if he wears them and stretches them... then its gonna be an expensive fetish.
Seriously if you're not bothered by it, why are you writing it on here? Strikes me your not 100%comfortable about it, which then means you and him need to have a chat about it.
2007-08-25 09:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by vampwithaheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. He may have some form of a fetish for your feet and/or shoes. Be grateful that he finds your feet and attire attractive.
2007-08-25 09:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just ask him why is he obsessed by your feet
he'll probably say that he thinks you have beautifull legs
give him a foot massage it'll excite him
2007-08-25 09:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by darwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats his boat I suppose lol.
I don't think you should worry,unless he wants to wear them himself.
2007-08-26 02:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just has a foot fetish. That's all. Don't worry.
2007-08-25 09:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Venessa B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has an obvious foot fetish, i suppose it could be worse he might want to wear your knickers
2007-08-25 09:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If hes got a shed full yes,,,,,
2007-08-25 09:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋