I am a Gay!!
I felt in Love with my student who is 4 years younger to me (27 years old). I have done so many things for him. Given lots of money, helped him passing the exams, taken him out for foreign tours at my expense. I have always felt sexual love for his body but he is not GAY. Now he is to complete his studies so he is ignoring me. How can I forget him? What should I do? I love him more than my life?
2007-08-25 21:08:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe join the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They can probably help you with your difficulty by helping you not even want to be gay anymore, with principles about the sanctity of the traditional family. Perhaps it's a different angle than you were looking at it from, but worth a shot, eh?
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No, Jan M., don't ignore the LDS stuff. Sincerely investigating and then joining the Church of Jesus Christ and following His teachings (again, sincerely) can only be a good thing. He can help you.
Instead, ignore people like Jumping Right In who think that ignoring Christ-centered principles is a good thing, since that's really not true. Going with Christ's principles (sincerely) is always a good thing!
Mike
2007-08-25 21:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First off, ignore the LDS stuff. Anyone who has taken a biology course and actually paid attention knowns that a certain percentage of the population is going to be gay, and this is normal.
OK, gay, straight or bi, it doesn't matter, you don't try to buy someone's love. That is what you were doing. Don't feel bad, you weren't the first person to try this, and money can always be replaced.
As for your broken heart over this, you need to learn from this experience and not be so forthcoming with gifts for people unless you are in a serious relationship with them already. The keyword being already in a serious relationship. Your may have thought it was a serious relationship, but it was clearly one sided.
It is time for you to move on and learn from this experience. If you feel you need more help, I suggest you seek the help of a professional to work through your hurt feelings.
2007-08-26 04:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just relize the face that he doesnt have a attraction for men only woman. It may feel awkward to him also because you are his teacher. The best thing to do is eat chocolate and move on and find someone who is attracted to men and will love you for you.
2007-08-30 00:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Southern Cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen this is the best advice you can get. remember you are a teacher and you are trusted with students you need to remember this and stay true to yourself. you can find someone else but not at school so move on. i am sorry but there is so much now days with all this mess going on they would love to smear your name all over and i am trying tobe friend toyou. take care.
2007-08-29 23:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋