I have been going out with the love of my life for 3.5 years. He asked me to marry him too.
Tomorrow, I plan to break-up him because I want to be free. I want freedom! He's a good person, I love him to death...but I have to leave him if I want this freedom.
I am not cheating on him, I am not wanting someone else, and I am not lesbian.
My life is excellent when I am with him. He makes me smile and he makes me extremely happy,so what the heck is wrong with me?
2007-08-25 16:01:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there is nothing wrong with you. i'm guessing you want your freedom since you have been dating for 3 and a half years. here's wht i think you should do. tell him you need to just chill for a little bit and put the wedding on hold. have your freedom and if you feel like you're missing him in anyway, you have definitely found your guy.
2007-08-25 16:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you gotta do honey. If that's what's best for you and you know it, go for it. What your doing might not be as stupid as you think. It could be seen as bravery as well!
2007-08-25 16:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just not ready to settle down with someone.
2007-08-25 16:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing. That is all you have to keep in mind.
2007-08-25 16:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your getting nervous and got cold feet. dont break up with him. talk to him about your fears!
2007-08-25 16:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by aleka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont love him,dont marry him
2007-08-25 16:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by chica-sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋