WATS the best way to stop saying bad words if ur mom,bro.and dad do it?

Question

c my bro stred saying bad words and when i was 4 my dad got made at my mom and stared saying bad words so when my bro turn 14 (hes 15 now) he stared to say bad words i dont want to say them but it hars all my dads friends do that my uncel dose it . do u have eney advice on it plzz hlp me iam only 11

my dad wont even let me say fudge when i do something rong like at a capming trip with my cunle and my family i drop my marrsmollow and i said fudge my dads like amy i can say fudge b/c its to closse to the word f***

Answer 1

The first thing you have to realize is that using bad language is usually a sign of poor education and a lack of self-control. I don't mean to trash your relatives, but that is what most people think when they hear people talking like that. So it is GREAT that you don't want to be like that - it means you respect yourself, and want to make yourself a better person!

The next thing you need to realize is that the emotions behind the language is valid - people DO get angry, it's perfectly natural. What is bad is expressing those emotions in a bad way - it is NEVER ok to hit anybody, or destroy stuff, or otherwise be violent. Bad language and especially verbal abuse (insults) are DEFINITELY a form of violence.

So the first thing you need is a little education. Find acceptable replacement words: instead of "sh**" say "feces" (the medical word for poop, pronounced fee-seez). You'll find you'll usually get a good laugh from anybody listening. Use a dictionary to find other replacements. You'll find a lot of good stuff in medical dictionaries.

The next thing you need is a little self control. Learn to recognize when you are becoming angry, and be extra careful about what you say (and do) when you are mad. With a little practice it will become second nature, and you really WILL be a better person.

Finally, don't let yourself become a "casual curser." When people use bad words a lot, it just becomes a bad habit. They're not angry, or even trying to show off, they just don't even realize they're doing it. And some of people's worst behavior come not from trying to be bad, but just not thinking about the consequences of their actions.

If you think it won't make people mad, you can also encourage them not to use that sort of language. After all, you're trying to help them become better people too!

Answer 2

Some people, for some reason, think they sound more intelligent, or cool when they swear. Since you can already see that it makes you look stupid, your already ahead of the game. Just because they do it, doesn't mean you will. You are in control of you, nobody else.

Answer 3

you just quit that is all it takes and dont' repeat them any more. you can do it if you want to its best and shows how much you respect you have for others.

Answer 4

Think about what you say before you say it. And then edit out whatever you don't want to say.

Answer 5

hear from 1 ear and left from other.

Answer 6

avoid..........