me and this boy hav known each other for 3 yrs...we went 2 middle school 2gether...after we finished middle school and moved on to high school we didn't see each other but still kept in contact threw phone...when on my [turning] 14th birthday he told me that he was in love with me...and i guess @ the time i felt the same way. So basically he was my first love...here i am 15 about to turn 16 and i'm in the worst situation ever. We've been going out [long distance] on and off since 8th grade...i kno ppl say long distance relationships dont work out so plz dont put that as an answer....he hurts me sooo bad emotionally and as far as going some where in life wise my family loves him....as far as personality [i guess u could say] they hate him. I'm constantly coming to them for advice because of what he always does. Every person in my family keeps telling me that i'm chasing him and i need 2 let go...but i cant. how do i? wut do i do? and he neva gets me anything 4 mi b-day but i do 4 him...
2007-08-21 15:30:42 · 3 answers · asked by [*1 Love*] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should look deep inside of you for the answer. I think by even posting this you know the answer. Look for your strength and use that good old fashioned strong will you had when you were two. Just don't call if your answer is it is over. If not you should question why you would want to be with someone who hurts you? You are young and deserve to be happy.
2007-08-29 11:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Finding Me! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey you can't be in a relationship by your self and that is what is going on. yes, you may think hes tops but hes not gotten you as his choice and all people have choices so now i would just drop it i know its hard and i know howyou feel i had one i liked but i have always learnted you can't make someone care for you no matter what you do or give them i tried that with a newly found sister and it didn't work but for 20 years. so you see its no win situation so plase move on and find someone new eventaully it will fad away when you find someone else.
2007-08-25 23:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really sound like you need to take your famiy advice and let'
go of him., in normal to feel as you , he was someone that you
truly had feeling for, but as you stated, he hurt you and the back and forth is not good for any one. time to move on and
find someone that will give you what you need.
2007-08-21 23:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋