So, I was in 7th grade and there was one guy in 8th grade and he was thought to be gay but he really wasn't gay, he just liked drama, sewing, and stereotypical homosexual things, but he really wasn't gay because he liked ME, a girl.
So, he asks me out on a date, and I accept even though I feel too young. We go on a couple more outings together and he assumes we're going out even though I meant them strickly to be a friend basis kind of thing.
Word gets out about our dating, and I want to reject it. Soon, it dies down and I calmly explain to this guy that we're just friends, and not dating.
So, the word has died, but this very annoying kid in the grade above me keeps annoying me about it. And, what's worse, he's in my ballroom dancing class my mom and dad make me take so I must be PLEASANT around him.
One week a tragedy happened in my family, and I find out at a choral performance. He's sitting RIGHT behind me. Perfect moment? But he didn't annoy me.
Why do you think he annoys me?
2007-08-21 17:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He doesn't just annoy me. He annoys everyone else around me. My guy friend who everyone thought i was dating warned me about him and said that he was just a mean kid.
Then... why was he compassionate that one night?
2007-08-21 17:30:44 · update #1
This kid is probably annoying you because he has a crush on you himself, and he's probably a little scared to let you know this. It could be he's a little bit jealous that you went out on a couple of dates with some other guy. Try and ignore this kid who is annoying you, and he will leave you alone. Just act like his annoyance doesn't bother you and he'll stop. Guys don't like it when you ignore them it brusies their ego. So, yeah, if this kid starts to bother you anymore just ignore him don't say or do anything and just walk away. Because if you say or do anything you'll be giving to what he wants you to do. Don't even give him the time of day. Let me know how this worked out for you.
2007-08-21 17:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always some bully that is trying to push people's buttons. They get off to rattling your chains.
Stay cool and aloof. If you show any response to their guff, it feeds them, so don't give them what they want.
Don't let him annoy you.
Anyone who would take advantage a tragedy in your family is total scum.
2007-08-22 00:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have a crush on you himself and might be acting out on his insecurities he feels toward the other guy you went out with by bugging you.
2007-08-22 00:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes u? or just wan2 get ur attention.. y not go over and talk to him? hu knows, he might be wat ur looking 4 in the first place... go ahead and talk to him.. for sure if u got his attention then he won't bother annoying u... at least he feels that u've notice him and maybe wud get2 know him more...
2007-08-22 00:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u n thats the only way he knows to show he likes u
2007-08-22 00:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by The Midnight Captain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋