Other - Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

i cant open up under pressure.
my bf wants to no everything but i am not ready to tell him how do say nicely no

2006-10-25 23:47:30 · 13 answers · asked by Kelly B 1

What can I do to make him unbored. I thought everything was OK.

2006-10-25 23:46:33 · 21 answers · asked by Christine D 2

2006-10-25 23:36:57 · 8 answers · asked by Adithya 1

My daughter who is 10 stayed interstate with her grandmother (x mother in law). Her grandmother bought her padded, uplifting bras and took her to see a movie rated for over 15 year olds. My x mother in law knows that I would not approve of this, but still did it. I feel like she has done this just to spite me, but I don't know how I should deal with it and prevent her for doing similar things in the future. I, myself find it quite disturbing that anyone would buy a padded, push up bra for a 10 year old child who is in the 5th grade. I see this as sexualising a child. What should I do?

2006-10-25 23:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Lydjos 2

How can I forgive my boyfriend! He got a job in a film for two moths to be able to find a place to move in.I'm due in three weeks from now,What is ironic is that the first day of his job was also the first time we so our baby in a sonogram. How can someone be son insensitive about it and go and have sexual relationships with the director of the movie? I even spoke to her last week.I don't know what to do.We still live in the same place, I'm in a really tide situation here.My family is in a different state plus my doctors are here i can not leave. I'm so hurt that I don't even want to allowed him to be part of labor, but at the same time I don't want to be alone...I would like to give him an opportunity, go to therapy or something, well I discover that he cheated with other people as well...but we may don't have time to heal before labor...I already have contractions..anybody out there with good advise? Im hurt

2006-10-25 23:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've overheard him in fights with people. and i always knew he used to argue but he says things like 'good job i cant hear what your saying with your mouth around my zipper' there was a guy that liked me and he pretended to be me in my email, and pretended to hook up with him and then break it off. all of his friends are girls, guys never like him. but he always makes girls laugh (like me) and seems really considerate. but why be different with guys then? he used to make me feel special, but i believe he could make anyone feel like that. but i do feel like he loves me, he wants me to go live with him, to get married, meet his family. he does want me there 24/7 but he's making me feel real bad. like what i liked in him isn't really there. now, he gets mad at me over nothing, but after a while he says things he know will make it right. only it's not making it right anymore. i know he likes women, i know he gets angry, i know he is insecure. i just want love, respect, tenderness.

2006-10-25 23:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Both me and my boyfriend work monday to friday, but he doesn't drive so after I finish work I pick up my daughter and go and pick him up, then go home, cook dinner, sort out my daughter, then wash up and maybe sit down for a couple of houre before he gets a cab home. So come saturday and sunday I would like to do something for the three of us that would not include staying indoors or drinking in the pub, but before I can approach the subject we are either staying in with a dvd, a take away and a bottle of wine or going up the pub with his friends and then sleeping most of sunday because we are tired.

2006-10-25 23:00:46 · 21 answers · asked by draintek 1

2006-10-25 23:00:43 · 5 answers · asked by nansy 1

Why are people afraid to admit how they really feel, even to themselves? What is it that causes us as humans to deny the love and affection that is so obvious and longed-for?

2006-10-25 22:57:50 · 11 answers · asked by Avia 3

2006-10-25 22:48:35 · 16 answers · asked by Santhosh Shetty 1

I have been so up and down recently, I hav been with my fella for 4 months and love him to bits, he makes me so happy, but I can't help feeling insecure. I know he feels the same about me and we see each other all the time, but sometimes I just feel so moody and depressed... I'm due on in 4 days so it could be that, but I just want to snap out of it! Is there anything I can do?? I don't want to drive him away...

2006-10-25 22:43:06 · 20 answers · asked by Brunettebeauty 2

i've started to realise that sometimes my boyfriend is being 'caring' but really i think he's trying to get me to do what he wants. he gave me some guidelines which are supposed to be funny and he says he wrote them cos 'he was bored and thinking about me' but i know it was on things that piss him off. if the phone is engaged after 10pm he thinks there is another guy. i didn't call him and he wrote me a long email to say that i do this to him everytime and ahh he is so mad but we arent in trouble and he loves me as much. It's all things that seem like nothing to me, but he says i dont do them, that i never get better. Like if i'm upset i can take maybe 5-10 minutes to tell him what's up. and it wrecks 3 days. things can be nice and special. but i'm just sick of being blamed when i dont see what i've done.

2006-10-25 22:42:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm looking at sharing a house with complete strangers. how do i protect myself.
i dont want to be riped off. paying more then i should, having items stolen etc.
should i try and share a house with women (i'm a male), mixed?
advice and things to look for when before sharing a house i.e. plus exp (dose that mean a extra $$$ per week for items i'm not using.any help will be great or any experiences you have had. thankyou

2006-10-25 22:42:32 · 5 answers · asked by webster5584 1

I was in love with a married woman for 6 months now the relation is almost end. I am not almost end. I AM NOT ABLE TO FORGET HER WHENEVER I PUT MY INTREST IN OTHER THINGS SHE COMES IN MY MIND. GIVE ME ADVICE PLEEEEEEEESE.......

2006-10-25 22:37:38 · 27 answers · asked by anurag k 2

I am a married working woman with a son. I love my husband but is fed up of rude behaviour, taunts. Other wise he is ok. Off late I had wrote a sms of love and leaving and stored it in the drafts folder but did not sent it to anybody, because I dont have anybody. I love my husband only.I have tried to convince him but he doesnt understand. Now, he wants me to leave my job and be entirely dependent on him. But, if I leave my job and become dependent on him then I would be committing the biggest blunder of life because I know my husband better.

2006-10-25 22:28:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do YOU think there is so much pain in loving, and is it the reason so many people act blase about it?

Honestly, I read all the messages up here and one thing shines through - Alot of people are hurting. I know I have, and probably will again, but we keep coming back for more, don't we?

Personally I think there is so much pain in loving because during love, you are growing, and so your heart and mind have to stretch, when love threatens to break, your heart needs to re-adjust to the absence of the influx of "good feelings" and that is hard because it involves so many feelings of rejection. When love is over, then the spaces need to heal, and yet your heart remains enlarged in its capacity to give, and the vacuum of not giving or receiving burns at you, an unsatisfied longing.

2006-10-25 22:25:41 · 11 answers · asked by Sugar 4

Helping a relative to track down his ancestors. But hard to do from Australia. He thinks he is connected to the Stephen Foster (musician) family along the line somewhere.
WOuld love to hear from anyone who can help. Thank you.

2006-10-25 22:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Friend or bf. i have been friends with a guy for two years. in the beginning he thought that we were going to get together. to be serious with each other, but i'd already fallen for my boyfriend. now my bf is doing stuff like blaming me for everything, and we arnt too happy. I still love him and try and work things out, but he says things cant go back to the way that they were. He wants me to go live with him to make everything right. I'm starting to see my friend differently, he's always there, never gets pissed at anything, he's a very chilled out guy. and i'm kinda like that, my boyfriend is competitive and gets angry. i hate being angry. i asked my friend the other day about the time we almost got together, and he said that things always come right in the end. that we have something good even if we aren't together and he wouldn't wanna lose me. i started to see the way my bf is with other people, and he can be an ***, worse than with me. although he's starting to with me too.

2006-10-25 22:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

need help

2006-10-25 22:12:17 · 5 answers · asked by sally d 1

I was thinking about paying for my 2 sisters there partners and my parents for a day out aintballing do you think this is a good present for Xmas?

2006-10-25 22:07:13 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

My boyfriend is a Marine who's stationed in San Diego, but just yesterday he received orders to transfer to a base several hrs north (in the middle of nowhere). He just got back a month ago from being in Iraq for 7 months. We're pretty crushed about this situation b/c besides him, I don't have any family or many friends down here and he hates the idea of having to leave me again.

I told him I would move out there with him to be by his side. It probably sounds crazy, we've been together only a year, but I've never been more sure about anyone and would sacrifice it all for him; he is the love of my life.

I'd like to get some other military spouses' opinions. Did you need mention of marriage for motivation at any time? I know some girls who would need that ring on their finger in order to do what I'm considering, but I am wondering, am I a fool for thinking about this? Honestly I'd rather go through hell with him, than without him. Please share any stories or experiences, thanks

2006-10-25 22:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by dreamin delux 3

me and my guy hav been going out for mo than a year now....(1 year and 4 months) i have told my family abt him. even my aunt & uncle, my close cousins all know.....but my guy has never told abt me to his family...he's such a great guy...90% of wht i expected my guy to be....and all that...

now my parents are causing trouble because they dont accept this relationship. and im always being pushed arnd abt it...and i argue alot with my parents and we have many problems at home...but my guy is totally cool with his family and is doing very fine...

my prob is...y is he doing this....? he has asked me in marriage and i accepted it...but still, he hasnt told his family abt me... I asked him several tyms to tell his family..me being a gal had the gutss to talk to my family...he's 6 years older than me, but he doesn't... I told him if he doesnt talk to his parents abt me within this week, i'd let him go...
wht do u think of this situation

2006-10-25 22:02:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 21:46:15 · 18 answers · asked by Super Girl 3

just happened help please

2006-10-25 21:44:17 · 24 answers · asked by sally d 1

2006-10-25 21:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my health and family and financial situation. it has been a hard year for me.involving abusive boyfriend, health up and down. now i ll soon have no place to live that is, my kids and i. bf is locked up. for the past 2 weeks ive been having dreams or that at least what i thought they were. more like nightmares. they keep me awake alot afraid to go to sleep and dream or see something else.turns out later i feel like/know that these sre things that have happend in the past reguarding my bf and myself. horrible things. y am i remembering them now? especially with all thats happening now?

2006-10-25 21:38:40 · 4 answers · asked by thesebrwneyes4u 1

My bf & his mom are planning to travel in Lanzarote this xmas until new yrs eve. I know that we just move 2 our new flat and it'll be our first christmas n new year here. I asked my dad before if I could come with them in England, n he said "No!" I really know that they dont want me to make love with my bf cause they are afraid for me to be pregnant, but we use condoms everytime! I am soon 20, but they dont allow me to be with 'em especially when they are traveling. I am so SCARED to ask my parents if I could come with them this Dec.2006 coz I know what they will gonna answer back. I REALLY WANNA GO THERE! I have been celebrating xmas n new yr with them for 19 years!!!
I hate this ******* damn family ever!! I CANT DECIDE FOR MY OWN! I CANT TRAVEL, ALWAYS HAVE TO BE HOME BEFORE 9 EVENING!!! WTF?! Yes i am asian, moving to europe but do i have to follow the asian culture though i am living here for 3 yrs? Itsdiffiult for me coz I DONT ******* KNOW WHICH CULTURE I SHOULD FOLLOW? HELP!!!!

2006-10-25 21:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i have a SERIOUS problem of shyness, i can't speak when i am around people especially the girl of my dreams. I'm afraid, ill say the wrong thing or what I say may come out wrong or just pure shyness. When i'm about to talk to someone I question myself...i have no problem on computer (msn and email) and on games but at school it strikes. I need to be able to overcome shyness or i wont be able to talk to the girl of my dreams, we barely know each other, but i love her for who she is, her personality, her sense of humor, her voice, her looks, everything about her lights up my life, but i freaked her out by being too romantic when we barely know each other, i made her a rose from paper ( origami ), i offered to lend her money whenever she needs some; no matter what the amount, i have helped get her school bag when it was far away, and a lot more,and she blocked me, so the only way to talk to her is in real life,and its so hard i might as well say its impossible for me. Pls hlp.

2006-10-25 21:05:40 · 6 answers · asked by Spring is Awesome 1

My girlfriend's best friend is one of her exes. She says that he is like a brother to her. They go out to dinner together and sometimes watch movies at his house. Before we started dated, she would sleep on his couch sometimes if it got late and she didn't want to drive home. She cooked a dinner for both of us to introduce us. I know she wouldn't cheat on me, but I still get jealous when she spends time with him. I don't want to tell her to end her friendship. What is fair?

2006-10-25 20:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by pamgissa 3

Ive liked this girl for aproximatly 2 and a half years. Only recently have we gotten close, like friends. Ive even been to her house a few times, she invited me?!

She knows I like her which makes it that much harder to talk to her properly, i just don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. I enjoy being her friend alot but I really want to hang out with just her..no one else, like a date almost. Im just confused as to how to go about this?

I like love her, i just don't quite understand the whole Boyfriend Girlfriend concept...

Help me please

2006-10-25 20:42:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous