Other - Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

see we've been together for 2 and a half years.i love him so much.but see he's never been the type of boy that calls alot.so i really don't know.i mean his phone is disconnected and he doesn't have a cell phone.so i don't know.what should i do?we only see each other once a week.cuz he has no car and he has football practice everyday till 6.i mean i've asked everybody that knows him if he is cheating and they all say no.i've smelled his bed and it's this girl at his school.she loves to tell stuff.so i ask her all the time if he's doin something and she says no.i even ask people if he is ever with a girl and they all say no.everybody tells me no.i don't know what to do.what should i do?

2006-10-27 23:54:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would welcome answers from both M and F could you please indicate which you are.
A couple are having a heated discussion about their 8 month relationship. The general gist was both had been feeling unloved and unimportant to the other.
Neither wants to be the one in the wrong.
The lady sniggers at one of the mans point of view.
He sees it and rage sets in. He smashes a glass not hurting either of them.
He jumps up and starts shouting and swearing at her..she does not respond. The verbal abuse and swearing goes on for a further 5 mins then he leaves the room.
The arguement ends there.
In your opinion was the husbands reaction one of Violence or Temper?
Or something else.

2006-10-27 23:30:05 · 23 answers · asked by Lellyboo 1

i m a male, since past 8 years i love a female 'First', but for the last 7 years i am married with female 'Second', Both the females love me very much. I have continued relationship after my marriage and even my wife knows about my previous affair and the continued relationship. I love the first lady very much. Now its long time...the parents from first female are forcing her to get married. Its difficult for me to leave her and even she cannot live without me...we are facing a very uncomfortable situation and not ready to accept whats happening in our lives. We love eachother very much but i cannot live my wife cause even she loves me very much and it will be difficult for her to live without me...WHAT CAN I DO. I want to live with my first girlfriend without her i cannot think of a moment.

2006-10-27 23:24:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was married at a young age to a graet man with a huge family, life was too worst and is still and i cant come out of the marraige coz my husband is a darling.,i have 2 kids,i am not educated,only 10 th, my parents dont support me ,my husband does not want to seprate and i am sick of living a life in a jail,i dont have freedom nor friends to help ,and i am confused where, if i have married my husband or his family ,god can u please help me to come out of this jail unfortunatly i too good took at so i can run away too and then my kids are there too

2006-10-27 22:18:46 · 3 answers · asked by rita 1

the man i love.... i know he likes me and he likes to spend time with me... but he never want our relation to move forward...he wants us just to be lovers but not a couple and he doesn't want our relation to be official (so that everybody knows that we are together)

2006-10-27 22:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Tamara C 1

2006-10-27 21:12:49 · 28 answers · asked by soni 1

why is it when your not happy with your partner you feel you must cheat? wouldn't it be easier to just be honest with them and tell them that you are no longer happy? wouldn't this just save time and hurt?

2006-10-27 20:37:18 · 7 answers · asked by TnCouple 2 1

2006-10-27 20:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by LaMont s 1

Okay... I know this topic has been discussed a lot. But this is different. this has possibility. He is only 8 years older than me... I'm 15, he's 23. He asked me the ages for sagatory rape... he stares at me during class... he gets all flustered when we talk. Look... I know this is crazy... but he got engaged tonight, unless his girlfriend says no, in which case she's mental. He's amazing, though... in a few years, this could actually work if she said no or they split up by then.

He's leaving at the end of the semester... should I try to stay in touch with him to see if this will work out later, or does anyone have a way to forget about it??? I mean, I do amazingly in that class... but I've gotten really depressed over his damn mixed messages and the fact that the only two reasons we're not together are the age gap and his girlfriend. Neither of those may mean much in a future... please... anyone???

2006-10-27 20:19:30 · 19 answers · asked by Emmi 1

Hey well first off I'm not gay, bi or curious. I don't know how the hell it happened, but it did. We were celebrating the engagement, and were drinking alot. So the next morning I woke up, and my fiance's dad was next to me naked, and I was naked. I know what you're probably thinking. How do I know anything happened. Trust me I know. I don't remember everything that happened, but I remember some. I think somehow I got so drunk that I mistook her dad for her. I don't know what was up with him, but he was really drunk to. So anyway when I woke up, he was still asleep. I just got dressed, and left. I went home right away, and took a long cold shower. I can't believe what happened. I don't know what the hell I should do. I don't believe in keeping secrets from the people you love. I just don't know how or if I should tell her about this situation. I also don't know how to face her dad. I'm hoping that maybe he'll be so drunk that he wont even remember. Someone please help

2006-10-27 20:04:54 · 17 answers · asked by Matt Harris 1

It's an old question, and yes, I have looked up passed answers to this very question, but I am stil a little unclear. I guess I want a personal response to the horrible and intense pain I am in- for support really, too, but I must ask: How do you stop loving or make youself STOP loving a person?(When it is clear- cause they TOLD you, that they don't love you back.) I realize my relationship is over and will never work, cause only one of us truly seems to want it to work, and so I ended it, but now I am stuck with the broken heart, cause I can't just turn off my feelings for this person. Does anyone have any recommendations on how to just STOP loving the person. I don't want to HATE her, I just want the hurt to go away, that is why I feel I would be better off if I could STOP feeling love for her.(cause I KNOW I can never have her- meaning be in a relationship with her.) Any suggestions, please? A step by step plan would maybe be best. Thank-you.

2006-10-27 19:59:23 · 1 answers · asked by asylum07 2

The last question i answerd was about a girl who cheated on her husband an wanted to know what to do... Just about every answer from guys an girls was " dont tell him an learn from your mistakes" Guys and girls if your spouse cheated on you wouldnt you wanna know??? I mean i know everyone makes mistakes but do you really believe that hiding it will make things better? You dont think one deserves the truth???

2006-10-27 19:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by ohio_gurl042 4

A good story for all of us to follow in our careers and social
life........
...very true

Once upon a time a Washerman was bringing up two donkeys.

Donkey-A felt it was very energetic and could do better than the other.
It always tried to pull the washerman's attraction over it by taking more load and walking fast in front of him.

Innocent Donkey-B is normal, so it will walk normal, irrespective of
the asherman's presence. After a period of time, Washerman started pressurising
Donkey-B to be like Donkey-A.
But Donkey-B unable to walk fast, got continuous punishment from washerman. It was crying and told personally
to Donkey-A "Dear friend, only we two are here, why to compete with each other....we can carry equal load at normal speed ".

That made Donkey-A all the more energetic and next day it told to
washerman that it can carry more load and even it can run fast also. Obviously happier washerman looked at Donkey-B, his BP raised and he started kicking Donkey-

2006-10-27 19:52:25 · 3 answers · asked by Com Nerd 2

2006-10-27 19:21:31 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 22, my fiancee for 3 yrs is 32. We have a 1 yr old daughter together and we're completely committed to eachother. I just showed my boyfriend that I looked up a profile of a 24 yr old male on myspace. This is someone whom I only had a platonic relationship with in the past. A friend from highschool, what he looks like has no relevance because I love my man. My man worries why I am looking up and talking to other guys, I say that people are just words on a computer screen and male or female, social interaction is important to a person. Im a stay at home mom, my man works all day and I just raise my daughter. We just moved to a new province in canada and we dont have any friends. Is it acceptable in a relationship for women to talk to other men or for men to talk to other women? Is chatting on myspace a no no if you want to keep a committed relationship?

2006-10-27 19:21:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I've been seeing this dude, and its like we do everthing a couple does but when he refers to me, he refers to me as a friend or something like that. What am i suppose to think?

2006-10-27 19:12:33 · 9 answers · asked by tweety16788 2

welcome, like you sit there alone feeling like a cast away, I am friendly and smile and try to talk but why do people act like that?

2006-10-27 19:09:25 · 12 answers · asked by bangs 1

I find this rather intersting. More women then men cheat, but for some reason all men are scumb bags and cheaters. But what about the girls? I have many lady friends and even they agree they have cheated. Come on they agree all their friends even cheat. But if their boyfriend cheats, the whole world knows and falls apart. So why is it that people only mention men cheating and not women? (I have a girlfriend over a year and no i have never not once cheated on her and i bet there are guys who have been married for 20-50 years even but never cheatec but for all girls all men are cheaters. NEver understood this.

2006-10-27 19:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by Please Help 1

Mine is:
"You brought the meaning of life, to my dictionary!"
How is it ?

2006-10-27 19:01:21 · 10 answers · asked by Hamraaz 1

I'm married going on four years and when I first got married I believed that I was in love and as the time goes by my husband just acts like doesn't care and doesn't ever show LOVE to me ...and in the past year I see this guy in town every day when I pick my child up from school..it's seems as if we have some connection and we hve never spoke before...I stay in town to see if I will see him..cause everytime I see him I feel like I know love....do you think I'm in love with this man ?

2006-10-27 18:53:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father passed away on a thursday a couple of months ago; ever since then, one of my sisters in law calls me every single thursday to check up on me, and although I know she does this to keep in touch and with good intentions, every time she calls she brings up my Father's death and how she is feeling about it and asks me about my own feelings. No matter how good I might be feeling when the phone rings it ends up reminding me of the big loss and it saddens me still. How can I get her to stop calling on thursday or stop talking about my Dad without hurting her feelings? Any ideas? only serious answers please. Help is greatly appreciated.

2006-10-27 18:51:03 · 29 answers · asked by White 7

how did that happen? how old were you? how did you fight back or not?

2006-10-27 18:41:49 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4

making love and f*@#ing as one in the same? Like they say making love just to make an impression on a girl but really mean the other.

2006-10-27 18:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sort of like Indecent Proposal. I ask because I was reading another article a moment ago about a billionaire and it dawned on me that I'll bet he gets a lot of really good sex. I wonder how much your average woman would charge for sex, whether she's married or not.

2006-10-27 18:24:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is so hott big lips blue eays he is my older brothers friend. he is only 1 year older than me
he wont talk to me infront of my bro. but when my bro. leaves he flirts with me. his girlfriend is so ugley. I like him alot .advice please

2006-10-27 18:20:39 · 17 answers · asked by morgan f 1

it's depressing when i think about it. i'm attractive, slender, smart, have a very good job, i'm nice, yada yada yada, yet i've never had a boyfriend. as a teen i was shy. as an adult i've been on many dates but i've never dated a guy wherein we call each other girlfriend or boyfriend. i've never introduced a man to my parents or friends b/c i've never dated anyone long enough to do that? i assume it's because i keep picking the wrong guy. seriously, i don't know what's up with me. by the way, because i've never dated anyone, i've never told a guy that i love him.

2006-10-27 18:07:21 · 22 answers · asked by ca belle 2

2006-10-27 18:01:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

And know that the person you fell in love with wasn't the one you were supposed to spend the rest of your life with?

2006-10-27 17:58:15 · 13 answers · asked by jaded 3

Hi I'm 16 and I'm really shy were are talking like I can't sing in front of my mom shy. I get homeschooled and ALOT of people think tha people who get homeschooled don't know how to interact with others but I do but because I'm shy people telling me that makes it worse.I'm in a dance team and the girls are really hyper and loud well I can do that at home but I think I am anoying sometimes so I think that if I act that way in front of them they may think I'm anoying. And I get really scared well nervous if you will at pratice I think I'm not very good and the others are better then me.I really want to be an actress but people just are like whatever and tell me I should be something else because I'm so shy they don't think I can do it I think. I really feel stupid asking for advice on this but any advice well be greatly welcomed.

2006-10-27 17:57:19 · 4 answers · asked by Elizabeth H 1

your g/f had been raped by her ex and you and your g/f bumped into him sometime-would you ignore him and walk away?

my cousin was raped by her ex and her now b/f and her bumped into her ex and her b/f just ingored him-wtf?

2006-10-27 17:52:02 · 4 answers · asked by sweetness 1