Other - Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

not really in a financial postion to do it I really want a baby as I feel time is running out a bit and I don't want to leave it too late. My boyfriend would be happy for us to have a baby but is worried about the financial implications. My family are also worried about this. Is there ever a right time to have a baby.?

2006-10-30 23:54:09 · 12 answers · asked by Muffin 2

i was abused as a child by my mums boyfriend i am in counceling but i wonderd what all you have to say all advice would be greatfull i used to HATE my mum but not now i am older i realise it wasnt her fault but yet its still hard please help me if you can

2006-10-30 23:47:44 · 11 answers · asked by Ricky S 2

Sometimes my bf drinks from friday 'til sunday. And it's not even in a special ocassion, like a holiday or something. He drinks and gets drunk because he wants to. Recently he missed a compromise he had with his boss to work on a Sunday. Plus, he didn't go to work on Monday and Tuesday. I've decided to end our relationship because of the many times he has done this. What makes me even more mad is that when he does this he has me up all night, when I have to go to work the next day, because he's either sorry, his back hurts or he has chest pain. (Go figure, the heat from all the alcohol). This time there's no turning back, but he keeps on saying he needs help and he wants me to help him get help because supposedly he accepts he has an alcoholism problem. I would like to believe him, but it's so convenient for him to tell me this every time he goes in these drinking weekends. And then there's his manipulating mother also. This is a real situation. Please help!

2006-10-30 23:45:42 · 4 answers · asked by Playera 3

2006-10-30 23:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jeff W 3

Does anyone know any examples where a couple have been successful at making thier marraige work after infidelity?

2006-10-30 22:15:16 · 20 answers · asked by chimerauk 3

I'm 19 yrs old and he is 26, he has been married for an year only and i fell in love with him just one month after his marriage. I think he loves me too. he is a dj in a delhi club. I cannot message or call him because his wife checks his log daily. she hates me big time. I just go to that club regularly to look at him and i'm the only girl towards whom he looks at .when our eyes meet its hard to break the contact from both sides. please help someone i'm lonely and depressed and i want him really bad

2006-10-30 22:14:51 · 33 answers · asked by Mitali L 1

I have a dilemma, I am with this guy 38 , me 24 for the last5 years, he is fabulous , makes great money, 65k, dresses well, speaks well, ensures all is ok for me and our 4 year old, I strayed found a man who is a bouncer at a club, he swears, smokes weed, but the sex is great, we have been dating 4 months ,and I am pregnant by him,there is something about him i love but in terms of my other guy the sex was not that good,and i know i care about him but, not if i love him, i am confused. They found out about each other and now they want me to choose i don`t what i want i am confused.help

2006-10-30 22:10:26 · 22 answers · asked by flavia d 1

REALLY, constant playing of dodgy stupid phone ringtones, throwing things, generally being annoying, they bang their chairs off the tables, argue with lecturers...I think I want to scream!!

2006-10-30 22:00:51 · 17 answers · asked by xx_lush_xx 3

this will be our 4th xmas together and we've bought each other everythin there is to buy ... we're downscaling xmas this year as there was a death in the family but i need to buy him somethin small but that it means something.

Any ideas ???

2006-10-30 21:55:29 · 16 answers · asked by Caz 4

2006-10-30 21:43:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

IF U HAVENT HAD SEX IN 6YEARS AND U HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX 3 DAYS BEFORE UR PERIOD STARTS, IS IT POSSIBLE TO GET PREGNANT?

2006-10-30 21:29:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend lives in a neighbouring country. His mother and sister like me so much. The sister comes to visit me. I go to visit them, i buy a few groceries for them when there's none. On a good day for them they give me a few groceries to take home with me. But he doesn't call me, doesn't respond to my messages. When i call he sounds like the happiest man on earth, though we'll be taking on a friendly basis

2006-10-30 21:27:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

For sometime now my boyfriend has been getting sms messages from a girl that he speaks to from work (She works for another company). When I ask him questions about it he tells me that is all for work?? The thing is she got fired from her job last week but she still keeps sending him messages. She even droped into his work today to see him. Which my boyfriend told me about. Now she is coming to dinner with us and his parents for his birthday. Should I be worried? Should I be nice to her? I've never met this girl before.

2006-10-30 21:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa K 1

2006-10-30 21:21:03 · 14 answers · asked by Arah S 2

we both enjoyed it a lot but we always felt guilty.....

2006-10-30 21:07:03 · 14 answers · asked by sara_of_bara 1

she has loads of jewlery, perfume i am just stumpped for what to get her this xmas, its our 6th together.

2006-10-30 21:05:28 · 20 answers · asked by rave 1

and who is wrong, the person charging or the person paying?

2006-10-30 20:59:44 · 49 answers · asked by hicapaul 2

2006-10-30 20:45:08 · 21 answers · asked by kirsty d 2

I'm 26 and my fiance is 28.This morning I got up to have breakfast and my fiance's wallet was lying on the side. I know I shouldn't have but as I could see something poking out I had a look. I found a letter written to another woman saying he wanted to be with her and make love to her and that he felt very deeply about her. I felt physically sick when I read this. I was raving mad and went into the bedroom where he was sleeping and confronted him about it. He said that when we went through a bad patch this woman was there for him (he says not sexually, but just to talk to). The fact is though that he wrote this letter in the first place. He must have feelings for her or he wouldn't have written it, would he? He's texting me at work saying he wants to prove to me that he loves me but I don't think I can trust him now. Am I being paranoid or should I accept what he tells me as the truth? I really don't know what to do. Any advice?

2006-10-30 20:35:59 · 47 answers · asked by kezzap80 1

every time i am with my daughter he goes to me and plays with my daughter. the other day my brother told him that someone likes him so he gave him his number. then he asked is that person has a baby and if its a girl. my brother said yes. then the next day he went with my brothers and cousins to my house. he was trying to play with the my daughter but my daguhter is scared of him.lol. while we was in the livingroom he was caring my cousin and i was sitting in front of the coutch that he was sitting at so i looked at him directly t his eyes nd he stared at me back for like 5 seconds then i looked away.


HELP DO YOU THINK HE LIKE ME? WHAT DO I DO? SHOULD I WAIT UNTILL HE TELLS ME SOMETHING OR SHOULD I CALL HIM BUT WHAT DO I TELL HIM? HELP

2006-10-30 20:07:13 · 9 answers · asked by SexXyBaCK 1

When you lost a love one to another...is there a way to deaden the pain without shooting off a toe or body part!

2006-10-30 19:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by MadDog21 1

after baby is it right that the ***** became lose?If yes tell me how many days it continue?

2006-10-30 19:45:25 · 18 answers · asked by kartik o 1

2006-10-30 19:03:20 · 12 answers · asked by wannaknow 1

I'm Dead Inside!

2006-10-30 18:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The girl of my dreams left me for another man. Her personality is outgoing and I am uptight and serious. She left me for a guy who is the life of the party and bar hops. The exact opposite of who I am. Her Myspace page is flooded with pics of her and her new "fling". I am doing what I can to move on. The overall effect is it is a huge blow to my pride. I dont drink, party, or even go to the bar. She does, she is extremely outgoing, and she is already seeing someone only days after ending a 4 year relationship. Am i wrong for being who I am? I can understand her wanting to experience new things, but does this mean I should change who I am? I feel like there is something wrong with me. While she is out having a great time, I am at home depressed. I just don't have that personality. Is there something I am missing?

2006-10-30 18:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by masksqueeze2 1

2006-10-30 18:07:20 · 18 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3

My 16 yr old stepdaughter was seeing a no good loser & at one time thought she was pregnant. My husband was furious and forbid her to see or speak to this boy. Who happens to be 18. Anyway, we recently moved to a new town about 9 hours away, so she was not to happy with moving. I thought she would have a chance to meet new people and possibly a new b/f. But she refuses to make friends she still talks to this boy on the phone and on comp. but hasnt lately cause I grounded her.she says she doesnt want a new b/f cause once she graduates she and this boy are going to get married. She is in the 10 grade, How can I make her understand that he is not going to wait for her for 3 yrs, every time she talks to this boy he accuses her of cheating on him and he makes her cry. my husband and I have tried talking to her She looks depressed and is thin. She has no goals for future but marrying this boy. Am afraid shell end up preg. and alone. Do I call boy up and tell him to leave her alone? Help

2006-10-30 17:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by Baby boy blue 3

i haven't seen have for 11year and have been has gf for 5 months but now a guy that is here whants to go out with me what do i do?do i still stay with my bf that i haven't seen for along time and don't know when will i see him or do i go out with this guy cause he's here PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-10-30 17:08:25 · 7 answers · asked by meow 2

2006-10-30 17:04:33 · 18 answers · asked by Dorian 2

I always get excited with my fiance even we are cuddling 24/7 a week..we been for almost 2 years relationships but i even get more excited when i look at him..is't normal?

2006-10-30 16:48:55 · 7 answers · asked by Wondergirl_in_ da_City 1