Other - Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

When my husband & 1st wife split, she took their 5yr old girl (only child) & disappered for 5 months. When he got her back, he felt so bad, what she had gone through. She was sleeping with him, she would cry & he would give her anything. Its not as bad as it was, but the sleeping with us at night. For awhille I had her in her own room all night for 5-6 weeks, then we watched a show on TV in bed, now I can't get him to put her in her bed. He says the feeling of her needing him helps with making up for what she went through. My complain is we sleep on a queen bed, he is 220 lbs, I'm 140 lbs, both are 5' 8", & she is 45 lbs, a 5 yr old. I wake up to his knee wedged in my back or a leg over my lower back , or a arm wraped around my head.He is a logger, excavater, a big guy. If he & I go to bed alone, its onely for a few hours. But I cant get him to put her back. Now I'm the geluase one, & don't understand the bond they have, ect. What do I do?

2006-10-30 04:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

Should polygamy be allowed?
If yes, what are the advantages of polygamy?
If no, what are the disadvantages of polygamy?

2006-10-30 04:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by R A 2

So he's avatar is like a dark haired guy with big funny glasses,
he's nickname was dubling guy and now it is dubs up or something like it.I'm just wondering who is he?
He is so mysterious...if you find him just let me know.
Grazie tante!

2006-10-30 04:20:48 · 8 answers · asked by Minerva 1

He told me he was seperated when I first met him in which I found out they were stll together a couple of weeks later. Even after I found this out I continued to see him. Things were fine between us until I told him I was going to keep the baby. Then he began to threaten me if I didn't abort. Even after I was too far along to abort he told to put baby up for adoption. When I told him I was going to keep it he informed me that he didn't want to have anything else to do with me and don't call him when baby is born because it was low down of me to keep baby after I told him I wouldn't keep it. My family wants me to put him om child support, but I promised him I wouldn't do that. Plus I'm afraid that things would get really ugly if his wife were to find out. This is not the first child he has had outside of his marriage. He's a police officer and my house is on his beat, which I have not lived at my house for the past two months. But I would be afraid to move back after I give birth.

2006-10-30 04:15:44 · 47 answers · asked by divalicious 2

earlier i ran into the mother of my friend who is an extremely intelligent, good-natured and sensitive girl but whose life is not working out. she suffers from severe depression and there may also be something else. I know where it comes from; the relationship with her mom. It makes me so depressed to know it may be too late. I've tried to help her but either her mom intervenes or she just doesn't have enough strength to pursue a path to a brighter future and she is already 26. I won't go into detail regarding everything about her life because it would be too long but it breaks my heart to know that somebody so beautiful could have a completely different life if they were brought up in a healthy family environment (she can't study, doesn't go out, she's always at home or at the doc's.

What are your thoughts on that & remember - you can't judge someone's life from your perspective and the kind of person you are. Some people just can't try as hard as you can no matter what.

Thanx.

2006-10-30 04:11:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son will be 3 in Nov & i'm wondering if buying a CPKid would be a good idea for him (boy CPK).Ive read that it is a good way of learning how to nurture & care for things.. what do you think?

2006-10-30 04:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4

I love and adore my husband and I do sweet little things for him. I fill up his medicine for him (he has a ton) and becuase of his diabetes, I make sweet sugar free treats for him sometimes. There are so many things I do for him, I wouldn't have room to list them all, these are just a couple.
What do you do for love?

2006-10-30 04:03:00 · 5 answers · asked by helpme1 5

ive just had this big realisation that im trapped and i want my life back. ive got a 2yr old and a partner and we live in a council house and i hate all of it im not sure i love my partner anymore as having a baby at 20 made us different people, id just started to live wen i got pregnant i wanted an abortion but he didnt and i was glad i didnt until recently when i started feeling like i did 3 yrs ago wen we met, ive got my energy and passion back and nothing to put it to all i do is look after my son and the house im totally lost i have just wanted to walk out while my son was upstairs sleeping thankfully i realised i was being stupid and selfish. but i just want my life back. what can i do.

2006-10-30 03:49:57 · 29 answers · asked by kimberley w. 3

at 18 i lost my virginity then at 19 i started dating my current boyfriend for some stupid reason we all ended living together my 1st and his gf, my boyfriend-n I. My feelings for my 1st (my bf knew this already) emerged again being in close proximity of eachother i cheated on my bf..5+ yrs later we have a baby, he already took me back..why is he emotionally/physically distant ?

2006-10-30 03:48:23 · 4 answers · asked by wannaBluvd 2

We will be divorcing soon.

Do you think he is giving me freedom to prove that I can be unfaithful and to influence his divorce case ( he is rich, and we were together for 5 years)

2006-10-30 03:39:11 · 60 answers · asked by janna c 1

my sister has been going throu a really tough time lately, i see her slowly changing back into her bad lifesyle everyday(sex,drugs, fights, Rebel without a cause). I dont know whats causing it, but i think it might have something to do with this being her Seniour year at high school(its my last year 2). we use to be really close until i started going back to church and she sorta just quit going. Could it be that she feels betrayed by me or something, cause we use to do alot of fun stuff together, go clubbin, skip school 2 go 2 tha movies,partys, etc; i tried talking to her, but she just tells me shes sleepy or has 2 go somewhere. i really care about my sis, please help me. what should i do?

2006-10-30 03:38:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

For instance, if your bf or husband lost all his money, would you still "love" him? What if after that, he lost his leg and vision, would you still "love" him? How about if he suddenly got Alzheimer's, would you still "love" him?

2006-10-30 03:29:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

in most relationship you find one person doing all the loving or better stll you find one doing more of the loving

2006-10-30 03:21:11 · 20 answers · asked by bombom 1

i am doing a sociology paper on relationship abuse and i need input on why it happens and who is usually the one getting abused?

2006-10-30 03:19:07 · 14 answers · asked by roo 1

2006-10-30 03:05:53 · 16 answers · asked by ang_172 3

to you while in the middle of making love

2006-10-30 02:59:55 · 4 answers · asked by the star fairy 2

i've never tried to give him one but he asks i just say no way!!!!

2006-10-30 02:52:21 · 7 answers · asked by Mea 5

2006-10-30 02:50:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently went through a difficult period and shared information about my relationship that I shouldn't have. The man in my life has lost complete trust in me for going outside of our relationship and telling thhose in our circle of friends negative things about him. During this time I felt frustrated, angry, helpless, anxious, etc and didn't know how to handle these feelings. Our relationship appears to be through and the guilt I am feeling for destroying everythjing we built together has now overwhelmed me. Where do I begin to fix things when it is obvious he wants out of our relationship?

2006-10-30 02:47:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

for months i've been masturbating a lot. it keeps increasing. two months ago it was almost every day. a month ago it was every day. this month it's been twice almost every day. sometimes 3 times. i've been up now for only less than three hours and i've already masturbated twice. i just can't get sex off of my mind. even after i'm done masturbating it just makes me wanna have sex even more. i'm a virgin so i guess it's normal.. but i'm afraid that after i do have sex i'm gonna become addicted. is there anything i can do to get sex off of my mind?
this is a serious question

2006-10-30 02:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by yo 2

Would it sound stupid or silly?

2006-10-30 02:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2

I have several ex boyfriends who I could call at a moment's notice and they would agree to go out with me again. I'm happily married so I would never do this, but I'm wondering how many other people have this situation. I find it weird!! One of my ex's is 15 years older then me (I'm 28) and he has my email address and old phone number from years ago. A few months ago he wrote and said he hoped to run into me sometime and that if anything happens to my marriage, to please contact him immediately. He admitted that he should've been more open with his feelings when we were together - 5 years ago!!!! I just find this strange. Of course I did not respond and I won't. I mean, are these guys just desperate or what??

2006-10-30 02:39:29 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel 7

2006-10-30 02:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past couple of months my husbands attitude towards me has been awful. (We are newly weds). He even shoved me out of our bedroom once when he was mad. I found out this past Friday that he has been on steroids for a little over a month. I asked if his attitude was due to the steroid use. He said, "No". I don't know if he says no so I won't make him stop taking them or if he's just being mean sometimes. Has anyone been in a relationship with someone on steroids? What was it like?

2006-10-30 02:29:45 · 5 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1

2006-10-30 02:12:01 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy who i liked ever since i was 4 or five years old and now im 13...i dont know why i like him...people say to forget about him and i try to...but i cant...i think he knows i like him and he's acting SO different than before...i want to forget about him...but i cant...they say he's ugly and that he's jerk...and when they do say that...i dont know what to think anymore...a side of me says to forget about him because im just wasting my time running after him...but another side of me says to hold on because maybe i still have a chance...so what should i do???

2006-10-30 02:06:11 · 10 answers · asked by upset girlie 1

Does it make them mean and aggressive?

2006-10-30 02:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1

I was born at 1726hrs, my weight was 9lbs 8oz, and I was 21 inches long.

2006-10-30 01:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay before you judge me, I just want you to know I AM NOT lazy.

Here's the deal... I am twelve weeks pregnant and we have a 12 month old son. I work third shift (40 hours a week), and my fiance (whom I live with) works 40 hrs a week also. We are doing just fine financially right now and I am starting to feel really tired all the time, not to mention I am dealing with alot of morning sickness (that has been happening mostly at night while I am working, TOUGH LUCK HUH? ) Anyway, I have yet to talk to him, but I would really like to cut back my hours some, and maybe only work 32 hours a week (or four nights), but the thing is I don't want to bring it up to him because I feel like it wouldn't be fair for me to not have to work that extra 8 hours. Mind you financially those 8 hours wouldn't break us though. Do you feel this would be fair to my fiance? Why or why not?

2006-10-30 01:24:29 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3

desperately missing at this moment? What would you say if you could speak to them?

2006-10-30 01:21:38 · 31 answers · asked by }pixie{ 4