2006-10-30 02:50:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, this is actually a very serious question. Yes, it can last. I married my high school sweetheart, started dating him when I was 16. I've now been married to him for 17 years. HOWEVER, this happens very rarely. In my class alone, 3 pairs of so-called high school sweethearts were divorced within 5 years. Be careful, take one day at a time, plan for your future. Go to college, get settled. You don't have to marry right away. If you two are meant to be together, then you will still be together after college.
2006-10-30 02:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It can last.
I am married to the guy I've been with since I was 16. We've been together 4 years now. In 2 more weeks, we are expecting our first child (a girl!) to be born. Teenage love certainly can last. But of course, its gonna depend on the two people in the relationship... just like with adult relationships too.
2006-10-30 02:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people say this because they feel that teens are in puppy love and dont know what real love is. I personally believe that it depends on the two individuals and how mature they are. Not all teens are impulsive. My husband and I were 12 and 15 when we started dating we got married 22 years ago and have two wonderful head strong children. I thoroughly enjoy spending time with him because he is the funniest, strongest and most sensitive man I have ever met besides my dad of course. We are still very much in love and enjoy each other immensly.
2006-10-30 03:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by bowler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love at age 14 with a new classmate. It was love at first sight and I dated her until age 17 when we got engaged and I went into military for 4 years. we got married my last year of service when she was 19 and I was 20.
we both turned 60 a couple years ago and it is still on. We had a lot of rough times, especially in our relationship but also in life with money , kids, etc. The turbulent 1960 to 1980 years almost did us in but we hung on by a thread. it just takes determination to make it work, realism and forgiveness to last.
but if you do not, so what. it is a growth experience. you are not on earth to avoid experiences.
good judgment comes from experience, but experience comes from bad judgment. so plunge on and take the risk of love and get ready for a wild ride.
(Be sure to remember the forgiveness part. )
YES I did get curious about what it would be like with another... so that is where the forgiveness comes in mostly. It is only natural so do not be too shocked or surprized if it happens. getting married too young always results in temptation and curiosity eventually. 60 years is a long time with one person.
2006-10-30 03:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On it depends on if you are 13 or 18. And how much work you are willing to put into a relationship. Most teenagers are not wiling to put in the work, and are at different junctions in thier life. But if you are than it can. I am with my high school sweetheart and we are in colleg and discussing marriage. But it was hard and you do miss out on a few things, but in the end it can be well worth it.
2006-10-30 02:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you change a lot from when you're a teen to when you're 25. Your interests will change, some of your beliefs may even shift. Your relationship MAY work out, but even if it does, there is no guarantee. I think teens are too young to date - waiting until at least 21 is best!
2006-10-30 03:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not that it can't so much as it probably won't. I was madly in love with my high school boyfriend. But we both grew up and it ended. It's hard to find love (esp. when you're still trying to figure yourself out). I hope your love does last, but don't count on it. Just be happy with yourself and you will be fine.
2006-10-30 02:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you grow up and move out into the world and see alot of people in the world,
most high school or teenage romance dont last,
2006-10-30 02:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because most of the time teens just go by the looks but once u grow up u tend to look for something that probadly u teen sweet heart dosent provide u... once u get to a certain age are feelings and needs change..
2006-10-30 05:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by yessika_213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sneak up and relex you cant stay with the girl you love from 1 st grade scholar you were you meet new girls and ive fell in love with a few another thing if they cacht you they will use you
so always think if you need it somtimes that new i dont love anyone only my famliy i say when i was at high scholl what the ****** up this thing is?
felling in love with somone i almost dont know
think about i youself too
2006-10-30 02:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by aliran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋