Other - Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

My grandmother has been taking care of my sister and brother and I, Since I was 6 yrs old. My grandmother had eight boys and one girl. The girl which was my mom died when I was very young. So my grandmother had to take care of all of us. She work 2 jobs 3 to 11 and 11 to 7 so I barely had conversations with her. I love her very much. But we hardly talk to each other i mean we talk but it's nothing like she come to me and start a conversation or me either. I don't know what to do i don't want our relationship like that. Sometimes she say she be scared to talk to me but I'm not a bad person. I don't know half the time what to say to her. I guess cause I'm not a talkive person I always been to myself. Only when I don't have anything to say. Now that she don't go to work as much as she use to it's like I'm in my room and she is in hers. I'm a fun person to be around alot of people like and enjoy my present. What should I do or say?

2006-11-03 23:47:45 · 9 answers · asked by Live love laugh 2

My grandfather told me that the letter 'A' has a silent 'D' is this true or should I smother him with a pillow like I did to my Grandmother ?

2006-11-03 23:38:55 · 18 answers · asked by offmihead 2

we've been together for 6 months nw,we were so much in luv & he even talked abt gettin engaged in like 2 years &he was takin it 2 seriously but then i told him tht i dont wanna have so much hopes so i dnt get hurt if things dnt work out,he used 2 get mad when i say tht,tht he even once told me tht if i dnt have hope 4 us thn we shudnt be 2gether.Like 3 weeks ago he was goin on a vacatin with his frndz & he told me he needed a break becuz we r 2 different!!wht i understood is tht he's trying 2 break up without hurting me.so when he came bck from the vacation he tld me he misses me & we talked abt it &he tld me if he wanted 2 break up he would've told me &tht he doesnt want 2 break up &he told me tht i have so much hopes for us &he doesnt know wt will happen in 3 or4 years &its still 2 soon 2 think of it!i was shocked cuz he's the one who used 2 get mad whn i tell him i dnt wanna have so much hopes.we've been on &off for like a week,we dont call eachother tht much,i wanna know wts wrong

2006-11-03 23:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by *punkdaisy* 1

i'm 25 and my bf is in his early 40's. I only broke up with him 4 days back. I was fine for those days and now i feel pain and soar in my heart. i feel like calling him back and to be with him. I called him ealier but he's not answering my calls. The reason we broke up was becoz he has high level of susicions against me and he loves to link me with other men.He abuses me mentally and he treats me like a small Kid. Many times i told him i was a clan girl and i only had him in my heart but he still doubts me.i went thru this treatment for 2 years.the final straw was tht i shouted at him and told him he was overly possessing me. tht's it. he told me i wanted other men that's why i was condeming him. i didn't condemn him, i just wantd him to know how i felt. NOw i feel so much pain. wat should I do?

2006-11-03 23:01:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anisha81 2

2006-11-03 22:48:04 · 2 answers · asked by preet 1

Ive started going out with this girl and she really is beautiful, but last nite we were out and she was kinda walking behind me and this guy walked by and said something to her. She wouldnt tell me what it was but im guessing it was some sort of sexual comment. Also anytime she went to the bar guys would chat her up and anytime i left her alone for more than a minute guys would swarm over. Im not happy about this at all so what do I do??? What can I do? Should i just accept that its gonna happen or should i be more protective of her and just not let her leave my side when we're out?

2006-11-03 22:04:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

you fancied a guy soooooo much, you wanted to ask them out but you took it slowly and 1st became frriends with him, then becoming good freinds with him but it came to a point where another girl got him 1st and they became a couple before you knew it. how much does that hurt? did you do something about it? what did you do? or did you leave them to it but you still fancy him though. and what if it came to a point where they were thinking of getting engaged and the guy asked for your opinions (coz he trusted you soooo much) on what he should get her for presents etc. what would happen? what would you do? reject him and say you dont want to know him no more or would you still try and win his heart over? have you ever been in taht situation? what happened?

2006-11-03 21:53:21 · 14 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

how did it feel when you were rejected or cheated on by ur partner? i.e. he/she went off with someone else or to make matters worse, with your next door neighbour u really hated or your best friend? how bad did it hurt? do you still feel hurt? was it painful at the time and are you still hurt or do you just think the opposite and think that he wernt worth it coz i deserve better?

2006-11-03 21:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

2006-11-03 21:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong for my boyfriend to log in on my Yahoo ID to see what questions and answers I have?!

2006-11-03 21:28:31 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not attract men who are losers........

2006-11-03 21:26:50 · 15 answers · asked by Jude 2

My girlfriend manages our finances and my monthly salary get paid directly into her account, she has the only atm and credit card but gives me enough to get by each week. This has worked well for the past 6 months, however, 2 weeks ago she made me kneel to her when asking for some money back and told me I would have to do this to her from now on. Last week she told me I would have to do all the housework for her before she gives me anything (we don't even live together). I am afraid what she will make me do next. I would die if we ever broke up the trouble is she knows it too. Any advice?

See previous questions for more info.

2006-11-03 21:13:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-03 20:49:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sweet Sexy,
What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.
I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.
Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.
I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.
The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.
At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.
Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.
Your,
Pumpkin

2006-11-03 20:42:58 · 6 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

if its ok for you to go out with your mates on a hen party,and a birthday celebration,they say yes,but,the next morning they're in a mood and dont talk to you,,??

2006-11-03 20:41:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance, soon to be wife and I are always making sexual comments and jokes to one another but alot of times when I make a minor foreplay on her its not as bad as not tonight I have a headache but might as well be. I love makeing love to her even when its only for her gain and not mine. But she works full-time and alot of times is not in that mood if you know what I mean, please help.

2006-11-03 20:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by Romeo 1

We should always ask ourselves this question.


Marriage is not still, we need to give to it as much as we can.

mandy

2006-11-03 19:26:20 · 13 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4

my husband has showed less interest for a year now,I told him many times and he said his bussines life made him less active in marriage life ,so now he's a bit more free and still the same as before,what can i do ?

2006-11-03 19:16:54 · 13 answers · asked by fallingprincess 2

i had a friend named princy.. she was a quite nice friend of mine she even encouraged me in all my endevours... i think that she had developed love in me.. one day she came to my house and in my room she said that she has lost her heart to me... i became angry and slapped her and told her to get out... as i dont have any friends but her how can i accept her as my lover or my wife?

2006-11-03 18:53:32 · 7 answers · asked by q te man 1

I'm 57, F, 34 yr marriage to an incredible guy. We have 2 grown kids who are doing well, are getting ready to retire to our shore house, and i have a job i love. But i have a terrible crush (at my age!) on my 60yr old cousin. He lives far away, but i think of him every day and want to be with him. I love my husband. WHAT IS MY PROBLEM??? Why am I obsessed with being with my cousin? His younger sister was my best friend until i was 6 and we moved, and his mom was like a second mom to me, so it feels even weirder to me that i want him. Any ideas?

2006-11-03 18:31:28 · 26 answers · asked by glitter4me123 1

I want sex but my wife has no interest in it for the past ten years since a car accident. I see no issue in separating Love and Sex.

2006-11-03 18:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Traveller 4

I want to leave my boyfriend but all things are in my name and this is my house so I cannot just walk off. After seven years I can't take anymore! Physically he has been violent once before but all abuse is emotional or mental. An example is like tonite he knows i have to work in the am and he is to watch the kids but if he cannot have sex with me then he is considering not watching the kids. Also, since he claims I am paying him no "attention" tonite then he took my car and left at 1am in the morning. I am in my senior year of college with 2 semsters to go and it is detrimental to me to be self suffient so i stay out of these type of dependant relationships (although he relies on me financially and i use him for child care conflicts). How can I get out and stay out when this is my home.

2006-11-03 17:59:25 · 13 answers · asked by nene 3

me and my girlfriend was together for 3 years and 9 months. we broke up 3 months ago. her dad died 2 weeks later. I broke up with her because she told me I didnt matter. I didnt know she meant I didnt matter when shes trying to spend time with her parents. shes 19 years old, Im 23 years old. through out the relationship it was hard for us to see each other because her parents were so strict that we had to sneak to see each other and only was able to talk on the phone 2 days a week. so the anger we got from that would be thrown at each other. but once we realized it we became a better relationship. she says we will never get back together because she felt I wasnt there for her in that stressful time of her dad. I've always been there for her through everything. im her first everything, boyfriend, virginity you name it except for a crush before me. she has a grudge against me, possibly dont like me as a person. my friends say she will come back but i dont know. do you think she will?

2006-11-03 17:52:40 · 6 answers · asked by wilbur 62 1

today is my birthday : ) my brothers called me to say "Happy Birthday" and my parents said so too (and my aunt and my cousin)

BUT my man hasn't, obviously he forgot

he won't get home from work for probably another 1/2-hour so I'm debating whether I should wait up for him just to be mad or just go to bed and be mad when he wakes me up

we're having all kinds of problems lately and now this, he's so inconsiderate that he can't even call to say "Happy Birthday!" I don't want/need or even expect a present, just a simple call to say he remembered (and cares)

my mom called me a little while ago and asked me if I got a nice dinner for my birthday. I laughed and said he hasn't even called all day to even say "Happy Birthday!" she laughed and said, "well, that's what happens when they stop caring"

how mad would you be? is this even something to be upset about? my mom said to forget his birthday when it comes around, kinda hard though, it's New Year's Eve, everyone knows his

2006-11-03 17:48:05 · 15 answers · asked by smarty pants 3

Two of my ex gf's and my ex wife are the mothers of my 5 kids.

Now one ex gf asked me if she could have a boyfriend. Of course I was furious. I mean she is the mother of one of my kids, so she should concentrate on bringing my son up. No way I will allow any other man to have any influence in bringing my kids up. She accepted my seed, now she should be loyal to me.

2006-11-03 17:47:26 · 19 answers · asked by Great Muslim 2

My mom sais I have to be a virgin until marriage. I don't mind I agree because of my own beliefs. But my sister lost her virginity when she was 16. My mom yelled at her and wouldn't speak to her for weeks. My older brother is 16. My mom has been encouraging him to date girls since he was 14. She really wants him to have sex so she made him go to a party tonight. She sais it's different for girls. They have to be ashamed of themselves for even thinking about it. They also have to do all the housework and and cook. I've been cooking for the family since I was 9. I've been doing the cleaning. My mom calls my brothers girly if they do the dishes. I really want to by Gears of War on the 8th but my mom sais video games are for guys. :o I don't know about you but that's ****** up. I kick *** at games. I've been playing for a long time but she's been mad at me lately.

What do you think about this remedialness.

2006-11-03 17:35:17 · 16 answers · asked by RooRoo 2

i have been married for 2 years, dated him for 6 years we are both 24, i want a baby and i dont think hes ever gonna be ready. before i maried him i made sure that kids were still in our plans. we love each other, and have a good relationship in every other area.. he talks about the future and kids in a positive way. but freaks out every time my period is not exactly on time and makes a theatrical thank you jesus when it finally gets here. he will not have sex unless he uses condoms yeah thats plural 2 of them everytime.. and he pulls out. if we dont have condoms we dont have sex. for the last year i have had this desire for a baby so bad. women that i know are having kids that are in no position to have them, and it makes me so jealous -we have 2 very good jobs, a stable lifestyle..dont party. i dont understand it but i know that i am seriously not gonna be having children when i am 30 years old i want to just get over it.. i hate the way i feel towards people with kids

2006-11-03 17:13:53 · 15 answers · asked by jujubeee 4

i'm trying to make a betta income, but i don't know what company is the number 1st make money easy!!! if anyone knows please share...

2006-11-03 17:05:28 · 4 answers · asked by pldjrftb@verizon.net 3

to your wife, girlfriend, fiancee, or partner for giving birth to your beatiful children?

i was just curious if men out there are actually thanking their partners for giving birth to their kids..my bf has not said thank you and its been 5 months..i jsut think its appropiate for men to show their appreciation towards women who go through alot just to have kids..

2006-11-03 17:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls can answer this too.

My opinion.....Medium build with nice curves, not so skinny you think they are sick. 36 c or d's. Size 10-14 Medium to long hair.
And brownish red hair......suprised it isn't blond...lol

2006-11-03 16:57:10 · 11 answers · asked by Common Sense 5