Other - Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

I have a friend who lives up the street.
We are both in our 30's.
She is getting a divorce for her husband cheating. I am not that far behind for a divorce for reasons she knows about. I always thought there would be time. Time to wait to tell her and ask her out. She was contacted by an old friend and has had a few dates, and it is just starting to get serious. I felt sick to my stomach. I got the guts enough to speak with her in private and I told her how I feel about her. I told her I always thought there would be more time and now I felt the time was running out to tell her. I did not want to be the old man years from now asking myself "what if?" She blushed a lot and told me she was very flattered by me.
We both have kids and both have the same religious beliefs and she is just plain perfect.
Me and my marrige is not salvagable and she knows that. I am wondering what do I do next?
Do I tell her more of my feelings?
I don't want to scare her off and I don't want her slip away

2006-11-03 07:37:15 · 40 answers · asked by WildBill 1

Hey Why Do ppl Flirt I mean I Flirt But I don't understand why I do It when I know I'll never get the guy He's either got someone or I'm not in to him But I still flirt *sighs* and I feel so bad doin it can U tell my why U flirt?

2006-11-03 07:33:45 · 12 answers · asked by Nicca 2

how do i convince her to leave him. She has a child with the stupied jerk. And he is 11 years older than her. Please i need some advice!!

2006-11-03 07:24:20 · 13 answers · asked by Esperanza 3

I still like my ex. We only went out for 10 months, but we were in love, and we were in a much too mature relationship for our age (15 n 17). In the end I think he got scared of the commitment which you know is fair enough i took it with a good humour even made him laugh when he was in tears dumping me. 2 weeks later in a bed (tho didnt sleep with) another girl. Went out with her. Made me so mad. When i FINALLY got over him and forgave him, he was tired of her (4ish months?), and i took pity on him. While we were going out we were best friends ontop of everything n it carried foward. We started flirting. Then at a friends party we made out. Since then i been up to 4th base again with him, and we were practically like we were. And i knew it was silly but i did it anyway. I dont think he meant to use me. Now hes at uni, i miss him terribly, he has seen his WH*RE ex who i loathe, and he hasnt wanted to see me...i cry hysterically every lunchtime. Hes my m8 but hes not worth this, help...

2006-11-03 07:16:07 · 4 answers · asked by mdquoth 1

2006-11-03 07:12:38 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 6

A girl that one of my guy friends is dating (living with actually) does not want him to see or speak to me...low self-esteem issues. Now, she is just being a total *****! We are all 30, but the 15yr old in me just needs to do something! Something that wont hurt her physically of course, but just something to really piss her off. BTW...she lives two hours from where I live...any ideas?

2006-11-03 07:11:27 · 6 answers · asked by question33 2

Ive got this friend which I have deep feelings for. He had to move away for work, and weve kept in touch through email. I get frustrated and lonely because we dont spend anytime together anymore. Emails just doesnt cut it. I feel like a wuss talking about how I miss the good times. He never says anything back, or even talks about how he misses me. So I decided to stop responding altogether, and wait awhile. Today, after three days of No response from me. He asked--IF I was still around! ... Should I write him back or wait more.. Does this mean that he misses me and just dont have the balls to admit to it?

2006-11-03 07:10:49 · 17 answers · asked by dustin m 1

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2006-11-03 07:02:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really don't think I'm anorexic and I'm really hurt by her comment. I know that I'm thin but I'm not grossly thin. I mean I never starve myself or make myself throw up or anything like that. I actually eat more than girls my size usually do. I just can't seem to gain weight. I'm just a bit under 90 lbs (5' 5" tall).

2006-11-03 07:00:54 · 27 answers · asked by Coco 4

been hurt, robbed,bullied or just got pissed off with someone and got them back, I love to here about this stuff

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I'm not going to leave him, I'd just like help on the best ways to deal with the loneliness and waiting..

2006-11-03 06:49:35 · 16 answers · asked by Tashauna G 1

2006-11-03 06:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by april m 1

I went on one date with this guy this week whom I met at a gym a month ago. He is a nice guy, good-looking, a gentleman, intelligent...I mean there is nothing at all I see wrong with him and he kissed me at the end of the date.

The thing is my ex whom I was in a long-term relationship with had started contacting me shortly after I started going out with the other guy and I have already arranged a second date with him for next week. I strongly feel that my ex wants to get back with me because of his attitude towrds me when he talks to me. I also feel I really want to get back with him because I do miss and love him.

So how do I brake it off with the other guy? He might find it hard to believe that we went on one date this week and now I come up with my ex has contacted me and I want to get back with him. The guy I am dating might feel there is something wrong with him which is not true, he was really good to me on the date. I just love my ex.

2006-11-03 06:38:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce is actively promoting Gay Marriage legalization.

2006-11-03 06:36:14 · 19 answers · asked by luperith 2

Hi all. I need help, or just some good ideas for special present. My friend's birthday is after a week (17 birthday). She doesn't need cosmetic, porfumes and I can't choose clothes, so... it must be, I want it to be something different, that will impress her, something that she will remember. And do you think, that a photo of me and her in e beautiful frame is siutable? If it help - she is sociable, smily, beautiful, elegant, clever and thin and tall :)

2006-11-03 06:23:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, don't a guy know that most gurls in the world are sensative. If a guy tells her he loves her, she feels like the luckliest gurl in da world.I mean, i'm kinda goth/punk but even i fall hard when a guy says the 3 little words! So men, this is for you! WHY!

2006-11-03 06:13:45 · 9 answers · asked by freak on a leash 6 1

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What would it be??

2006-11-03 06:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by Ellyn 5

His is my daughter father maybe they can meet one day

2006-11-03 06:06:17 · 1 answers · asked by tynisamenefee 1

2006-11-03 06:02:41 · 1 answers · asked by willmin 3

and best friend, whom would you choose and why? This is probably more of a question for ladies. Had an 'EX' spouse who tried to FORCE me to choose!!

2006-11-03 06:01:58 · 2 answers · asked by Desert Rose 2

I want to know how can i keep my mind off of having sex,masturbation,Watching pornography,And just looking at girls sexually.
I have a real problem with all of those things and it seems like its slowly but surely getting worse & when it seems that I'm making any progress i always go back to my old ways.With the pornography thing the fact that i have the problem with this is hard to deal with because i have unlimited access to everything thats erotic from movies to Promiscuous girls.
So can anyone give me a suggestion that may help me change my life for the better.

2006-11-03 06:00:49 · 6 answers · asked by Slim504 2

has anyone ever said or done something to a close friend or family member that they regret, i had a heated argument with my big bro last night and said some really bad things to him, i really regret what i said, so i have just been and apologised to him...glad i did, i felt awful after the argument....has anyone else felt bad after a fight or argument and regretted that it happened?

2006-11-03 05:57:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont take my brother and shes pissed off i havent drove in like 4 days and i dont know how to fix this she keeps sayin oh i lost the keys but i know that isnt true

2006-11-03 05:32:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ias seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months?

2006-11-03 04:05:45 · 27 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1

Hi,
I had get the shocking news that one of my cousin is pregnant and her boyfriend is beating her up and i realized that she's 17 and i'm 15 i was so suprised witha such a thing and my cousin want to run away from her BF and her BF finds her and want to kill her but how i suppose to help my cousin to run away cuz i care about her!!!!!!!! I just don't want her to run for her death i just want her to live and we tried to call the police and her BF lied how should we help her to have him revolve the truth!!!!!! Help if you have a suggests

2006-11-03 03:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to look my best. My weight is 135 pounds and my height is 5 3. Need to lose 10 pounds quickly. Also any suggestions would be great.

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