Other - Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

2006-11-05 23:56:38 · 2 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3

2006 has brought some good things my way, and some bad things. Don't get me wrong here, things could be a lot worse where I live and I am grateful they aren't.

But next year, my friend and I planned to move away together, see a bit of the world and do something with our lives. She is a seasoned traveller, spent all last year in NZ, India, Thailand etc. and I haven't done anything like this before. I don't know if I am really cut out for it to be honest. I always thought I was happy here.

This year I have had a series of failed relationships with guys and I wanted to go away because nothing much was particularly happening here. Now, however, a guy who I have liked for months and who has gradually been showing more interest in me has admitted he likes me too! I don't know what to do. Another reason I am scared to go is that my mum has MS (multiple sclerosis) and I don't know if I could leave her.She is okay at the moment but I know she could get worse.Can anyone advise me on this?

2006-11-05 23:46:05 · 19 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2

2006-11-05 23:44:13 · 3 answers · asked by yonas i 1

My friend, Paul is still very much in love with first girlfriend, Ann. Due to life's events (College, Uni) they lost touch.
In the mean time, Paul and Ann met different people and married.
Paul says that Ann was always at the back of his mind. He divorced his wife and he had few relationships but nothing came out of any. I must say that his relationships failed may be due to the fact that he is still holding on and wanting to be with Ann. He says that Ann is his soul mate and no other woman will do for him.
Now, 30 years later, they met and they both still have strong feelings for each other.
She said to Paul that in 3-5 years time, when her daughters will be in Uni, she will leave her husband to be with Paul.
Paul said Ann wouldn't want them to meet (and have sex) because this will get the ball rolling and then there will be no turning back. He also said that she would agree with him seeing other women for sex only.
Is Ann going to actually leave her husband in the end or is she just giving Paul faux hopes?

2006-11-05 23:37:59 · 19 answers · asked by Me me me 1

What in a Male Persons mind is considered a perfect GF or Wife?

2006-11-05 23:27:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 23:22:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like to know about you.

2006-11-05 23:05:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not looking for high street chains though but more quirky sites. AND they must deliver within the UK for a reasonable price

2006-11-05 22:44:42 · 13 answers · asked by lucyt20 5

2006-11-05 22:42:18 · 12 answers · asked by daniel a 3

2006-11-05 22:36:02 · 2 answers · asked by baby 1

If we can live together. We each have our own flats, that we like, sometimes I stay at his and sometimes he stays at mine and sometimes we stay in our own places. We're both coming upto 50 and have been single for a while.Although we love being together we each like our own space as well at times. Can you be married and keep separate houses? Has anyone out there actualy done this? Our flats are only 5 mins walk apart.

2006-11-05 22:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by PATRICIA L 3

Sexy,

Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.

I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.

I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.

With awestruck love,

Pumpkin

2006-11-05 22:28:56 · 7 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

2006-11-05 22:20:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 22:16:43 · 23 answers · asked by STEVE T 4

I actually got to work early today! WOW! Amazing! How is everyones morning?

2006-11-05 22:12:40 · 5 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2

Have you ever had a boy who was bad for you and you knew it, but he just had this power over you that kept you coming helplessly back for more? I know I'm not alone here - so many of us girls have been through it!

I thought I was immune - I've always been very strong and dominant - the Queen B*tch my friends have always called me ;)... but now I'm with a guy who I know is a bastard, but whenever he looks into my eyes or strokes my hair I melt like a schoolgirl...he just knows how manipulate me, to push my buttons, to make me do anything. I can't resist. How do these guys do this to us, and how do we break their spell?

2006-11-05 21:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by Amazon Karen 1

(1) if you ask a guy out for drinks and he says yes, but rather than making a "date" he says, just call me when your in town next(as we live in different towns), is he really interested? ..................

(2) I have met him a few times and we have kissed eachother. he does show all the signs that he likes me, but he still hasnt asked me out on a proper date. its still, give me a call when your next in town. i came out of a 6 year relationship 8 months ago, could he just be playing it cool because of this?he knows about my past relationship as i met this guy thru my ex. hes not a friend of my ex and i didnt split with my ex for this guy.
this guy has been chasing me for ages, even when i was with my ex.

2006-11-05 21:40:47 · 12 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

2006-11-05 21:33:13 · 7 answers · asked by daniel a 3

My friend and I have been planning to do some travelling next year, to see Scotland, Ireland and Wales and then go and live out in New Zealand and Oz for a while.

However for the past six months I have really liked this guy and (at last!!) he asked for my phone number and admitted he likes me.

The reason I wanted to go away to visit these places is to a) see some more of the UK and the world and b) because there didn't seem to be much going on here. But now there is, I don't know what to do!

I wouldn't usually be bothered about a guy but I have a feeling this one could be extra special. But I do want to do some travelling! Help!

2006-11-05 21:32:08 · 18 answers · asked by hannahrarian 1

Always putting us on hold?? Why does the thought of "COMMITMENT" scare them? Why do they like sleeping with as many girls as poss? i have been seeing the same guy for over 2 years but it feels like im not good enough to be his girl... if he didnt like me then why is he still sleeping with me, he's a good looking guy, he can have lots of women....

2006-11-05 21:28:07 · 13 answers · asked by me_me 1

On the weekend I went to my cousins wedding, at the wedding was my first boyfriend from primary school. I have not spoken to him for at least 15 years. He came up to me and he told me things about my life, he knew where I had previously lived, how long I was with my last boyfriend, what our song was in primary school and asked what had happened to the relationship in primary school. The situation for me is I want to know how he came to know this information and if we could keep in touch with each other. Do you think that I should ring him to ask him how he came to get this information and do you think that I should keep in contact with him?

2006-11-05 21:07:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok there is a guy who I like. He ignores me. He asks for my friends emails but not mine. Even if I'm standing right there. And if he needs help with something, he will always ask one of my friends, even if I'm the most convenient one. He will only ask me if thers no one else to go to. He also mutters ********* when he walks past me sometimes, and its obvious he wants me to hear. But I catch him staring at me a lot. Does he like me? If he does, is he worth it?
One thing you need to know about this guy... he is a 'jock'. He acts cool and tough. Do you think this has anything to do with it?

2006-11-05 21:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by Pennexx 2

Waiting For Her / Him

2006-11-05 20:52:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my guy and i broke up, we saw each other 4 the "last time" and he told me of how i have a choice, either to be with him while his going out wit this other girl or i can leave. I felt so humiliated and insulted. And that he had no respect for woman although i just found that out and all the time weve been dating i never knew he was such a scumbag.
Did i do the wrong thing seeing him for the last time, and am i simply angry or is he really a jerk?

2006-11-05 20:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by Tahisha 1

hi, ive been with my boyfriend a few months, and he has become very clingy in several areas, he follows me, wants to do everything, buy and pay for everything, compliments me 24-7, i cant do or say a thing wrong, he suffocates me with affection, wants to see me all the time, said he loved me a month in etc etc and it has become too much, i an independant and have my own life, and also children, i have spoken to him and said that it feels very intense was going to fast and i felt overwhelmed, he said hed back off and slow things down, but he doesnt seem to get exactly what i mean, how do i get it through to him that i dont want a shadow, or to be continuously touched 24-7, etc etc without using the words clingy, needy etc as i think they are a bit harsh, i dont want to charector assasinate him either by reading him a list. i do like this guy, and take these things away we get on great and can really see a future, but cant handle the clingyness at the minute.

2006-11-05 20:36:19 · 22 answers · asked by redblueswirl 1

There's this girl that I bent my whole life around, she has no ideal that I truly love her, no matter how hard I try she still leaves me for the bad guys, and I am really fed up with it, because I have so much advice for other's but when it happens between me and her, I can't get over her, she's the one I want to share my life with and she is totally blind and can't see the love that I have for her, she ended up getting pregnant by a guy that just up and left her, but Im still able to see past that and want to love her and her child as my own, so I do I deserve this?

2006-11-05 20:35:31 · 12 answers · asked by Only G 2

how u can identify the love frm a person?

2006-11-05 20:15:49 · 7 answers · asked by FATHIMASHARIQ 1

Ok, to answer this survey, just copy and paste the question and reply with 'yes' or 'no'. And please say whether you are male or female. Thankyou :)

1. Have you ever been in a fight at school?

2. Has a fight ever continued outside of school?

3. Have you ever witnessed a fight at school?

4. Have you ever gotton in trouble for fighting?

5. Have you ever been in a fight to which the police were involved?

6. Have you ever have a fight end in hospitalization?

7. Have you ever seeked help for a fight?

8. Have you ever stepped in to stop a fight?

9. Would you ever step in to stop a fight?

10. Do you think fighting fixes your problems?

2006-11-05 19:46:11 · 11 answers · asked by Blurred V 2

We had been togther for 4 years. I did not break it off. She is qualified for the position, but our I do not know if I can look at her from a professional point of view. I still have very strong love for her.

2006-11-05 19:40:36 · 20 answers · asked by Pat T 1

this i know i think likes me he does stuff without expecting anythin in return we have known each other for near 10 yrs he doesnt have to buy things for me he tells me stuff no one else knows he stated b4 he left he didnt have feelings for me but then after he movd he retracted and said it was all a lie. he pays for me to come visit and already asking next time i will be up. he knows my hsband and states even if we were separated(in the prcess) it wouldnt make a diffrence but i think it would. he acts so different with me i know what his feelings are as he does mine but his are ague how i can i determine what they really are? (i prolly answered question posting this)

2006-11-05 19:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by tiggermouse73 3