Sexy,
Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.
I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.
I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.
With awestruck love,
Pumpkin
2006-11-05 22:28:56 · 7 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this letter sounds like something that would be written on a professional/business level, not on the level of awestruck love. this person who wrote to you is seriously lacking emotion...how can someone love if they have no emotion? unless you want to live a life without basic emotions, get rid of this woman...she is just telling you what you want to hear to keep you around....
2006-11-05 22:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by JaneDoe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she was expressing a great love for you. If you feel the same, respond with your feelings. However, you have totally stepped over relationship boundaries here. You posted your girlfriend's private email message over the internet. Did you think before you made that move? How would feel if that was done to you? You should quickly inform her of your action and apologize before she finds it herself. Otherwise, this will come back to bite you big time later. Best wishes and take care.
2006-11-06 06:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by raintigar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol,,,the girl is self absorbed,,narcissistic and an attention seeker,,,she is going to be high-maintenance mate,,believe me,,she loves the fact you can,'see her',,this side she probably hasnt tried to hide but has made out you have seen right through her rough exterior to the innocent beneath,,,,,be careful ,,you are going to be a puppet on her string,,i guarantee it or il eat your hat mate..
2006-11-06 06:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like some really good drugs took affect.
2006-11-06 06:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like it's self explanitory and that you just wanted us to see all the great stuff she wrote about you. Sorry but that's what it seems like. There's no real problem here.
2006-11-06 06:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank her for her kindness and say you want to talk with her more. She seems to be interested in you. What luck!
2006-11-06 06:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by greylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical woman just cant shut them up! Dont bother
2006-11-06 06:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋