Have you ever had a boy who was bad for you and you knew it, but he just had this power over you that kept you coming helplessly back for more? I know I'm not alone here - so many of us girls have been through it!
I thought I was immune - I've always been very strong and dominant - the Queen B*tch my friends have always called me ;)... but now I'm with a guy who I know is a bastard, but whenever he looks into my eyes or strokes my hair I melt like a schoolgirl...he just knows how manipulate me, to push my buttons, to make me do anything. I can't resist. How do these guys do this to us, and how do we break their spell?
2006-11-05 21:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by Amazon Karen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to post this question in more than one category - just want to get a good breadth of answers. Thanks!
2006-11-05 21:59:32 · update #1
It happens to all of us. To break the spell, you need to quit him cold turkey and don't look back. Get involved or distract yourself with your friends, a hobby, and don't do something else just to meet another guy. It's when you're not looking that you meet Mr. Right. I found Mr. Right 10 years ago when I was just got a job I was embarrassed about (Ride Operator at an amusement park wearing a stupid costume) and he was the one who trained me (also wearing the same stupid costume). We're married now with a gorgeous daughter.
2006-11-05 22:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me pose this question to you. Do you like to be manipulated by him? If not, then leave him and never look back...I know it is hard but just look at your life 10yrs. from now...do you like what you see? But, if you do like this manipulation that he does to you...then deal with the fact that you know longer will be the Queen B.
2006-11-06 06:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by buggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i know exactly what your talking about,because i'm currently in your situation,but mines is more complicated.The best advice that i can give you is to break yourself away from him slowly .If you do it to fast it would hurt too badly and you'll end up right back in his arms.
2006-11-06 08:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by LaToya T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its karma...But don't let anyone treat you like rubbish because you're more than that, play him at his own game
2006-11-06 06:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best bet is to leave he is controlling you and you don't need that you need to get your ***** back and show it to him and be strong.
2006-11-06 06:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by kathy froggylady40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋