this i know i think likes me he does stuff without expecting anythin in return we have known each other for near 10 yrs he doesnt have to buy things for me he tells me stuff no one else knows he stated b4 he left he didnt have feelings for me but then after he movd he retracted and said it was all a lie. he pays for me to come visit and already asking next time i will be up. he knows my hsband and states even if we were separated(in the prcess) it wouldnt make a diffrence but i think it would. he acts so different with me i know what his feelings are as he does mine but his are ague how i can i determine what they really are? (i prolly answered question posting this)
2006-11-05 19:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by tiggermouse73 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do know he is not playing me
we have on may occasions done stuff as friends and he has got me things with NO STRINGS ATTACHED
2006-11-05 19:35:12 · update #1
if u know this guy for 10 years then u should have a very frank discussion with him and check out what his feelings for u really are. u dont want to miss this opportunity. if he does not reveal anything, then finally u could mention ur feelings and check if it is ok with him. better have a frank discussion instead of playing a guessing hide and seek game. better now than never. better get over with it now once and for all, than fretting later on that u missed out on a good chance. if its yes, then good for both of u, otherwise let life carry on as usual. good luck.
2006-11-05 19:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by wow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute........did I read correctly???? Are you married currently???
If so, why are you asking if another man loves you? What difference does it make to you or him???? If you are married, take whatever it is you are doing with this other person and enjoy it for what it is and do not worry yourself about what he feels for you.
He is probably hanging out with you, cause he knows that you can not commit to him, since you are already involved in a committed relationship.
Betcha if you leave your husband for this man, you will end up with nothing. The other man will leave too. Right now this thing is good for him, he can send for you when he wants to be bothered with you and when he is done you go back to where you came from, until he is ready for you again.
The other man has it good. Plus when you are not around, he can see his other girlfriends, that he may have. He has got the best of both worlds.
2006-11-06 03:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Staci C 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The picture which you brought out above is very dismal. He is not in love with you. He is simply passing his time and he is very tricker as he simply wants you to have sex with you. There should be no hesitation in saying that he is a cheater.
2006-11-06 03:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you never know just wait it out and see how things go...
2006-11-06 03:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by woohoo69_2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he loves you cos he knows you the best,hes the one for you!
2006-11-06 03:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Yady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he does...
2006-11-06 03:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Quinnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him, and stand by his answer....
2006-11-06 03:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by HK gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋