Other - Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

there is a guy i really love , we used to be together for a while and all the pple around me were advicing me that he isnt the right guy for me but i used to ignore them all. he was married to a woman n his wife left him because he got cought while having sex with another woman ,well , i used to ignore his past as well , i neva gave a **** to pple's **** talking behind him but recently ive heard that he had somebody else except me , but in other hands he asked me for marriage n stuff , am really confused , there is a huge age difference between us n i dont want to make a big mistake in my life n fell forever !! help

2006-11-03 12:57:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you feel called into a certain occupation or called to do a specific thing? What is it? Do you ignore it or try to pursue it? Not necessarily a religious question

2006-11-03 12:43:07 · 4 answers · asked by mrs michelle 4

my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls and says he could have any girl he wanted i would like someone to flirt with him and try to get it on with him just to see if he would cheat on me everyone says he would but i am not sure if he would or not i know its a horrible thing to do to him but i need to know because once he went to see his ex he told me he did not know she was there but i was told he did and then he had a phone call at 2 am in the morning asking him to go and meet his ex but i was there so he said no but if i was not there and did not hear the conversation would he have gone and also i had his ex girlfriends sister on the phone asking to talk to him i asked her what she wanted she said he had been calling her to talk to her sister he said she just wanted to make trouble and he had not phoned i have since found out he had also been out with her sister before aswell so that is why i want a girl to do that but i dont know where i would find a girl willing to do that

2006-11-03 12:29:01 · 37 answers · asked by HARLUN S 2

Tell me your honest answer and if you gone back what was the result were you happy?

2006-11-03 12:21:47 · 11 answers · asked by Panda Lover 2

I had a job now so that i can save ^ my money so when next year in june of 2007 comes i can saved ^ my money and be ready 2 move in with my man.

2006-11-03 12:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or do they usually venture across the border to Mexico for a little extra gentlemen's fun??!

2006-11-03 12:16:55 · 14 answers · asked by butterflylover 4

I have known a man for 10 years. 5 years ago, I let my irish temper get the best of me and I called it off between us. I rushed into a marriage I later found out was abusive, and he was there for me. Everything is planned out now, but I have some questions. What does it really mean when a man says "No matter who you marry, you'll always belong to me?" What does it mean, upon seeing your children and spoiling them rotten, when he says, in a good sort of sad way and not a bad one "They should have been from me. But you dumped me". What does it mean when you are talking, and the man says he wants more children in the future? Especially when you have to work hard most of the time to get his feelings out in the first place? What does it mean when he says he never thinks anything badly of you and that just a look from you "drives him nuts" and he can't resist kissing you? Is this just talk, or is it real since he didn't try anything in the beginning?

2006-11-03 12:13:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy said im his pedigree what does he mean? I think he likes me but i dont know..

2006-11-03 12:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my aunt is considerely younger than my mother about 12 years. shes in her mid 30's and i cant help but become erect whenever i see her. ill try to sit and talk with her but a sexual fantasy comes into my head everytime. and when i masterbate i climax faster when i think of her. i just cant help it. anyone ever felt the same

2006-11-03 12:02:22 · 9 answers · asked by thrashpunk88 1

Because it's wrong?

2006-11-03 11:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel really really lonely and depressed because I have no friends. I've been wondering if I just have too high standards and that's why no one is close to me. To clarify on the no friends thing -- I have people who if I called them up would hang out with me, but no one that calls me (except one guy that likes me and I'm not interested in). I'm not desperate to have someone to do things with -- I am okay doing things by myself, but there is no one who I talk to every day or every other day, no one I see regularly. I don't have a boyfriend. I do date a few times a month. I'm in an activity club and I go out once or twice a week, so it's not like I'm totally isolated, but I am really uncomfortable around new people and I REALLY REALLY don't want to date anyone seriously. My question is: is it normal to go days without talking to anyone but coworkers and roommate? Is there such a thing as a close friend who will stick by you both when you're happy and when you're sad. ?

2006-11-03 11:51:10 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle J 3

just wondering why others like myself dont post their pictures on their avatars?? is it cuz of complete strangers or your scared or what?? because i know at least 99% of you have a myspace!!!

2006-11-03 11:49:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have two friends i like them alot but they don't like each other and i have to choose one of them but ican't leave without both of them what can i do???????????????

2006-11-03 11:45:22 · 18 answers · asked by noura 1

So what happened was we were on a field trip and girls were trying on a kids glasses. One kid said to one of the girls, "You look like a sexy Librarian." So a few other girls tried them on and he said the same thing. My english teacher (Who is pretty hot) said sit down and be quiet, but she didn't know what we were saying. Then the kid next to me said to my teacher, "Hey Miss. Fiorentino (her name) can you give us a sexy librarian look?" and everybody was silent the second he said it and she herd him and got so pissed. Do you think this is funny, because I do?

2006-11-03 11:44:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so when i sleep i dream of something like for example i deam of a death and then it really happens im scared im only 13 and it really freaks me out... What is it called and what should i do about it cuz i haven't told my parents yet but if i did then they would probably think was crazy PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-11-03 11:43:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am i ready for sex.. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months. We've been kinda on and off but i feel he's the one. and i really want to do it but i dont want any regrets. how do i know for sure if im really ready

2006-11-03 11:35:32 · 11 answers · asked by Clueless 1

I seriously have no idea what "get over yourself" means. She says that I think everything revolves around me, and that I shift blame off myself to avoid responsibility. Everything is about me, but I blame everyone else (read: her) for all my problems.

I don't want to lose her, but unless I figure this out, I'm going to. I feel so clueless. Help.

2006-11-03 11:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by sacarube 1

2006-11-03 11:16:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-03 11:04:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you already said to a guy that you dont want to be with him and you cant talk to him anymore, and when he sees you talking with another guy that is your best friend and said a joke and i laughed but when the guy that i dont like sends me this email saying bad thing about my friend and that i was flirting with him which i wasnt. what do i say to that guy that i dont like ?i mean i thought that he was a nice guy you know. i am a little scared right now and i dont know what to say to him. please anyone answer me as soon as possible in at least 2 days because after the weekend i have to face this problem. i am only 16 years old. thank you.

2006-11-03 11:02:36 · 2 answers · asked by Selwa A 1

I don't understand this thing that is said "You teach people how to treat you." How do you do that? Explain in elementary terms.

2006-11-03 10:59:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, I love him allot and he's always loved me. But about 1 month ago, I told him I wasn't sure about my feelings towards him. So he took it the wrong way, and told people I didn't love him anymore (I had never said that) and now he likes this chic named Katie....that I happen to hate. She plays on guys and acts like a total *****. I could go on about her...but John (the guy I told you about) still has feelings for me. I can't tell him that I still love, because I've been forbidden. But my friends have told him, and he just can't seem to get it through his head. I don't know what to do, and I'm hurting so badly, I can't eat or sleep, and the only thing that takes my mind off of this whole thing is riding. John has told me he still has feelings for me, and he believes now I still have feelings for him, but that ****** Katie, is freakin out and making him feel guilty. He feels like he has to stay with her. But he still thinks i'm the 1 for him I just don't know what to do. please help.

2006-11-03 10:58:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-03 10:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by D K 1

Ok so basically my boyfriend of 2 months is somebody I like a lot and I haven't ever felt this way towards someone before. He tells me he loves me one minute and the next minute he will be mad and screaming at me saying we need time apart, then he apologizes and ALWAYS finds a way to make me drop the subject and get on to something that will make me forget that he just called me a *****. He always is so rude when he is around his friends and he seems to be really wrapped up in his reputation. one time he told me that he was breaking up with me for 2 weeks so he can have sex with a girl he met in minnesota and then he said he would get back with me but he didnt want to cheat. I am so nice and vulnerable to his behavior that I let him walk all over me. Last night he said we needed time apart and we got in a fight, then i told him i had to go eat and he was like but i still wanna go out with u i still like u please dont be mad at me. It was totally stupid. He makes me somad but i lovehim

2006-11-03 10:28:08 · 37 answers · asked by Vannah-Loo! 2

2006-11-03 10:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by Me x3 1

I mean there is this guy and I think he might like me but I'm not 100% sure. I've danced with him before (several times) and he's never said no, and he laughs when I say stuff (not in a mean way) and I was just wondering if there are certain signals I could look for to tell if he like me.

2006-11-03 10:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Shelby 2

Is moving\changing from a close friendship into a relationship a big step/difference? Can the girl really be that afraid? Would she tell you that is her main concern? If so, will you always just remain friends or will it gradually change over time?

When do you know if you’re ready for a relationship?(both in early twenties)What is the difference, if you technically act like a couple already? Is it only the physical aspect?(kissing/sex/holding hands).

Anything I can\should do? She DON’t like speaking about it….

Am really a dumbarse in this area!!

2006-11-03 10:15:55 · 8 answers · asked by Machine 3

My bf & I live together & have custody of his 2 (16 & 15 year old) kids & my 1 (8). We plan on marrying 1 day but are not in a rush. We are getting 250K life insurance policies to take care of each other & the children if something should happen. (FYI, been 2gether 3 yr)

My question is: would it be fair to give 100K to him 100K to my 8 year old and 25K each to his children? I almost would like to give his children more but we are not married & I have no financial obligation to them. I also have reservations of their ability to be resposible with the money. They have not been taught any responsibility when it comes to finances & while they both say they want to go to college to secure their future, neither one of them is doing anything about that other than the girl says she wants to go to that college where they play instruments or something like that (I had to laugh & I said do you mean Juliard?, she said, YA... that's it).

I'm torn... any words of encouragement/advice?

2006-11-03 10:10:38 · 6 answers · asked by Heather S 4

I cannot get her to understand the offside rule
Would she make a good referee

2006-11-03 10:06:58 · 16 answers · asked by pop 4

In a normal healthy relationship, how long do people involve in sexual intercourse(amount of time) for most people or in general? and how many times a week/day should people do this?

Also another question,just for the guys,but little far off, but just wondering, when a guy is with his love is sex always on his mind?

2006-11-03 10:02:41 · 8 answers · asked by looking for knowledge 1