Am i ready for sex.. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months. We've been kinda on and off but i feel he's the one. and i really want to do it but i dont want any regrets. how do i know for sure if im really ready
2006-11-03 11:35:32 · 11 answers · asked by Clueless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are not sure--then you are not ready. Simple as that. Do not take any pressure from anyone. If you are young and you feel he is the one--I'm sorry to tell you that the success rate of highschool sweethearts is very, very low (trust me, I'm one of those statistics).
Do not do anything that you may end up regretting later in life. Only you will truly know when you are ready. It appears that you are not though...and its better to wait it out than to be sorry later on. You have your whole life ahead of you to have sex....why rush it now?
2006-11-03 11:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, wait until you get married, then you'll defiantly know you are ready, you'll be sure you love him [because sex should be out of love, not to say 'oh, we are together"] and you won't have any regrets because after marriage you are sure about everything. Also, Think about if he's ever said "I love you" and if he did, if he really meant it. You don't want to give something like that away to someone who doesn't love you or you don't know if you'll be spending the rest of your life with.
2006-11-03 11:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask yourself this question, then you're probably not ready. although 7 months is a long time, do you really feel that this is the person you want to be your first? and you say you've been on and off. hopefully you're not trying to make this decision just to make the relationship stay on. if so, you're definitely not ready and may need to re-evaluate your relationship. i say take some more time to think about it. when you're ready, it'll happen.
2006-11-03 11:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're ready when you are married. Before that there is NO commitment and if you got pregnant (and that IS likely to happen regardless of what you do) you have to take care of a child. You don't mention your age but if you are asking this question
YOU ARE NOT READY!!!
2006-11-03 11:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur asking us then nope ur not ready.. just cause u have a bf that doesn't mean u and him should have sex.. i say hold out for as long as possible.. ur gonna regret it... u think he's the one but listen to ur question.. u and him have been off and on again.. until u and him r stable then u should'nt be planning to give him nothing...
2006-11-03 11:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are wed to the beau, you are ready. You are both worth the wait. What an honour & priviledge to marry as virgins; what a compliment to your spouse. What a way to honour God, besides yourselves.
2006-11-03 11:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first evaluate the situation. Like for example have you ever like this for anyother guy? What about him is he still a virgin or is he jst looking for some ***? Think about what could happen if your condom breaks or if you dnt evn use a condom? Can you handle having a baby right now? think about it b4 u make ur desition.
2006-11-03 11:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Stefanie A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really know when it's "time". It just kind of happens, it's not something that you can plan. If you love or really care for this guy, then I say go for it. But don't rush it. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
2006-11-03 11:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it its fun what do ya got to loose and dont listen to all the wait till marriage cowards or you will have regrets
2006-11-03 11:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you must question it then you are not ready
2006-11-03 11:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋