Other - Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

2006-10-31 23:19:19 · 20 answers · asked by Pommie girl 2

I do not know. I am really confused.

I really like, or even a more appropriate word is "love" this girl. But, lately, she didn't seem to put any interest in me, very different from how she behaved towards me a few months ago.

I do not know why. Maybe she got the sign that I like her.

I am so confused. Why is it that life is not fair?

Should I forget her? Please, I really need your help and thank you.

2006-10-31 23:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am with a girl who is 4 years older than me. She was with me for a month and then she went to her country to finish her lesson and then she will come on X-mas. she is telling me she love me and i love her as well. She is there for 1 months and half and we are talking together through the internet,mobile,SMS,....
Last week she went from her university to her mum's home and she told me that dnt call me and i will call you. It is a week but she did not call me and i try to call her but she is not responding my calling,email, Sms. what do you think is it end of over .....???

2006-10-31 23:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by Jawad 1

2006-10-31 22:03:37 · 40 answers · asked by Bob M 1

i'm 31 and have just come to terms with the fact i have to finish a relationship because tho i was tryign to hang on to it and loved him he wasn't willing or able to try and make it work. ok so that's life. i have tried to find someone and i am still single and need to pick myself up and get out there again.

i feel like i first need to build up my hope cos i just find it hard to believe something is out there for me. but i know my attitude really matters so i am trying!!

does anyone have any lovely stories of how things worked out for them at my age or older to inspire me.

thanks very much..

xxx

2006-10-31 21:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my boyfriend but he keeps on doing tiny little things that just make me lose it.we've been together for 2yrs now and we spent a year without fighting but its different this year. we spent the whole year falling out with each other. recenty i texted him telling indon't want anything to do with him because it was too much pain living in the realtionship.but i love him and want him back. i have apologised to him but he still seems distant from me.he says he still loves me which leaves me confused becuase he is doing opposite.what should i do?

2006-10-31 21:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by trisa 1

At first I liked it but now it is getting worse,he doesn't like me hanging out with my friends not to mention my male friends...
and I wonder,how will he react if I tell him...
please help me

2006-10-31 21:23:36 · 22 answers · asked by Minerva 1

2006-10-31 21:21:29 · 49 answers · asked by Leo Bambino 1

2006-10-31 21:05:04 · 23 answers · asked by cheryl l 1

Sometimes not speaking true to someone I think I am fooling him but my intension is towards his kind only. Show me way.

2006-10-31 21:03:10 · 21 answers · asked by iampiyushpatel 1

I'm currently in a r'ship wit a guy 2 yrs younger.he WAS a virgin til he met me bt i'm not.he cant get over the fact that im not n he had a fight wit my ex who first di d with me n it became a police case.he kept tormenting me bout e past but i just cant bring myself 2 tell him,wat he wants is SPECIFIC details.sometimes he slaps me or even does things 2 hurt me or my feelings.he went out with other girl just 2 hurt me.i'm still hanging on 2 him.i know tat every nite he jus cant sleep due 2 tis matter n he wil cal me ard 1-3am jus to tel me tat he cant sleep n he needs to breakup n wen i agreed he wil say tat i don bother n don love him.no matter hw many times he said he wans to break up,e following day if we meet he wil not wan me 2 leave him.on somedays,i brave myself n tel him tat im leaving him n he wil cry n begged me.sighs.pls help me!i love him n yes i know he loves me.he said tat i must b willin 2 do anytin if i love him,so he wans me 2 tel him bt y cant he just accepts me?

2006-10-31 21:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by CherryCore 1

2006-10-31 20:51:32 · 18 answers · asked by CherryCore 1

i couldnt celebrate it this year because i was working, i did a kids halloween party where i work....did any of you actually go out dressed up....and did you go trick or treating, stories please

2006-10-31 20:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 20:32:57 · 10 answers · asked by pooja 1

i really wanna have sex with my bf. but i'm afraid that after that he'll get tired of me. i'm a virgin so yeah it's a big deal. would it be better if i just stick with the other acts? do guys treat their girl differently after they finally get sex? like do they stop being as sweet, ect..
i'm 19 by the way and up until a few months ago i thought i wanted to wait until marriage. but it just doesn't seem as much of a big deal as it did before. but on the other hand i love my over all innocence and if i have sex then all my innocence will be taken away and i'll be like every other 19 y/o. i just wanna still be able to give him something special but after sex i'll probably just feel tainted. i don't think i can explain it. just answer however you feel like responding. please don't be rude

2006-10-31 19:44:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i m planing to surprise my hubby on his birthday by decorating the home with candles n all that n cook a dinner which he like most.my problem is his birthday falls on a sunday which he will be stay allday inside the house n cant ask him to go out for decorate my home as he may guess what im up to.. ,,n i have two small kids too,pls pls pls .....kindly suggest a way to do as i planed...pls help me....!!!!!!!!

2006-10-31 19:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by mashi 2

i live in a house with 7 other people and things have been going missing lately, at first i put it down to my own carelessness, but today i just took out £200 to pay rent, it was in my bag which i left in my room. Then i went out to eat my dinner, came back and went to take the money from my bag and its not there. Ive looked around my room, its not there but i know i left it in my bag...but what can i do ,i cant just accuse people,plus they all seem so nice i cant believe one of them would be taking it esp as they all have more money than i do...i really cant afford this right now

2006-10-31 18:59:31 · 17 answers · asked by ash1 4

last night me and my friend went trick or treating for the laugh. then these two blokes came running after us out of a black car. two got my friend to the floor and one tripped me up in the middle of the road. he then dragged me up and told me to take my top off to clean their car with because we were supposed to have thrown an egg at it, when we didn't. my parents have phoned the police but i'm scared of walking to school incase thay come after me. any tips on not being scared?
cheerz xx

2006-10-31 18:43:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 18:28:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 18:25:12 · 1 answers · asked by blergipt 1

2006-10-31 18:16:02 · 4 answers · asked by wannaknow 1

Hey all, could sure use your help!

I've been in a relationship with this girl for almost 5 years now and everything was going smoothly, but last year she got a new job and met someone. To make things short, she slept with this guy and I found out, she said she was very sorry, that it was a mistake, blabla. I decided to give her another shot since she quit her job and got another one (which made me think she was serious about it) and she promised she would stop seeing/communicating with this guy. Recently, I was away on a business trip and I found out that she saw this guy again, although I do not know if she slept with him. This drove me MAD, since she had promised she would not see him again. We argued and right now she says she is sorry, that she just sees him as a friend (which I obviously do not believe) and that it won't happen again.

What would you do? Would you forgive her and move on? Or maybe its best to leave everything behind?

Thnx

2006-10-31 18:09:55 · 16 answers · asked by Opethian 1

2006-10-31 17:54:58 · 19 answers · asked by Kayla D 1

...in a 4+ year relationship, for a guy to expect/want his GF to dress fancy for him every day, every time they see one another, even if they aren't going anywhere special? Is it also a reasonable expectation of him to want her to provide him with "new" and "different" sides of her personality ...even after 4+ years when she has pretty much shown him all sides of who she is (obviously she has not stopped growing as a person, but it wouldn't be an overnight change type of thing, and it wouldn't always be in ways that benefit him only)? Finally, is it right of him to sometimes hinge the entire relationship on whether or not she's dressing up ...or allude that she's not doing anything for the relationship "for him" if she's not fulfilling his need for new/different/fancy in his woman. Thanks for the input.

2006-10-31 17:45:39 · 13 answers · asked by donnae11 2

While i love to be near my children and grandchildren I have my life too and they get upset when i live far away and I do not want to hurt their feelings. I get half the income in Idaho on social security than in california. California is rite across the border from Mexico where my huband lives and who knows how long it will take to process his papers. He and I have been togather a long time too. also I have arthritis and scoliosis of the spine and the cold weather hurts. Il'd love to come and visit every year but they are upset with me for wanting to live so far away. What should I do?
also they are upset because they do not like the church i belong to and i feel they should just be happy i love jesus and god.

2006-10-31 17:41:17 · 7 answers · asked by tortuga 2

after months of struggling with my attraction to her, getting the silent treatment, getting kicked out of the house, and going to therapy.... NOW she reciprocates out of nowhere. what am i supposed to do!? i think i was almost recovering damnit :(

2006-10-31 17:08:11 · 16 answers · asked by hawkette 1

What is the ans?
What is the ans?
I love a girl who is also my friend sister but she got BF. But now she still got sms me and when I told her that don’t sms each other, she will ask why? And she will say “u doesn’t love me anymore?”
What should I do?
Pls reply this!!1

2006-10-31 16:54:14 · 4 answers · asked by ah3ha0 1

To confuse the issue say you didn't have any type of relationship with her at school. Say you barely knew each other and hardly spoke but had mutual interest (despite there being a popularity "chasm") but you didn't act until it was too late because of shyness and then discovered she had found someone new. You leave school at the end of that year never to return and to not lay eyes on her again.

2006-10-31 16:50:42 · 11 answers · asked by dirkthesmirk 3

this is the situation...
were 4 months married here in abroad, i knew before that he has a son to a divorce woman...now his asking my permission to allow him to have a 2 weeks vacation to our country 'cause it's his son's birth day!!! do you think it's ok?! they will stay in 1 house for two weeks together w/ the son's mother?! shall i believe in him that nothing will happen?! though i know that he loves me! but do you guys have the control?! i knew that the woman still like him and i was afraid what will happened for that 2 weeks...

2006-10-31 16:14:00 · 9 answers · asked by lovely 1

My boyfriend and I have been together nearly a year. For awhile now I am always the one who asks for sex and he puts it off a few times before he finally gives in. He seems into it when we do it but not really excited about it. I doubt that he is sleeping with anyone else because I'm with him most of the time and I don't notice anything suspicious. I want to be exciting to him and enticing, not be a chore to have sex with. I try to suggest new things and ask him what his fantasies are but he never really answers me or says "i don't know". We are on vacation in a tropical location and tonight we went to a sex shop at my suggestion and got toys and a video and he ended up going to bed early saying his stomach hurt. I don't think he was trying to get out of it, but at the same time I don't think using the new toys mattered too much to him.

This is getting me down a lot and I've tried everything. Any ideas?

2006-10-31 15:52:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous