i love my boyfriend but he keeps on doing tiny little things that just make me lose it.we've been together for 2yrs now and we spent a year without fighting but its different this year. we spent the whole year falling out with each other. recenty i texted him telling indon't want anything to do with him because it was too much pain living in the realtionship.but i love him and want him back. i have apologised to him but he still seems distant from me.he says he still loves me which leaves me confused becuase he is doing opposite.what should i do?
2006-10-31 21:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by trisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He knows now that you can hurt him the way you did. It is not always easy to take somebody back who has hurt you. He still loves you, but that doesnt mean he doesnt feel hurt. It hurts even more when you love the one who pained you. He seems distant because he most likely is trying to distance himself. He doesnt want to put himself back in a situation where he can be hurt again. What you should do is give him time, either he will come back to you, or he wont. Simple as that.
2006-10-31 21:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, u need to be honest in a relationship. If he knowingly does little things to irk you, he doesn't respect u. When the problems first started, they needed to be nipped in the bud right then and there. Communication is the second thing in a relationship, if u don't have that, u don't have a relationship. Surprise him with a candle lit dinner or something special and tell him that u need to talk. If your not happy, you not able to make anyone happy. And the not knowing makes it worse on u. Just try talking to him and see what happens.
2006-11-01 05:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by kittymeow63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you, but he is hurting and he is staying away to keep from getting hurt again. Let him go - constant arguments are a sign that you're not meant to be. My husband and I have been married 1 year and together for 3 years and we've not had an argument once.
2006-11-01 06:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both getting on each others nerves. Not to worry though. These things happens. No one person is to blame. Need to take a break. Take some time and sort things out. Don't let anger and frustration cause you both to make rash decisions.
2006-11-01 07:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant deal with tiny things how u will deal with major things ,,,and after all ur the one who apologised him so both ways he wins which leaves u wick ,,,no such thing as fighting everything has its way to put things back in track calmly both should have talked and come to conclusions or u love it and u can deal with it or not ,,,with love matters u have to be strong and make up ur mind ,,,,
2006-11-01 06:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by BrAvEy^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like the relationship has run its cause
2006-11-01 05:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you love him more when he is at the end of your finger tips, when he's is closer you start seeing the flaws in him and probably think you can do better
make up your mind what you want.....
2006-11-01 05:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space and time.....both of you need it....to think over about your relationship.....what it means to both of you....he's heart broken right now....forcing him to get back to you will only make it worst....just give him time....
2006-11-01 05:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by mag b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space.....maybe he might come round.....but you know deep down it's time to move on!
2006-11-01 08:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a lesbian, its hot
2006-11-01 05:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by zack s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋