I'm currently in a r'ship wit a guy 2 yrs younger.he WAS a virgin til he met me bt i'm not.he cant get over the fact that im not n he had a fight wit my ex who first di d with me n it became a police case.he kept tormenting me bout e past but i just cant bring myself 2 tell him,wat he wants is SPECIFIC details.sometimes he slaps me or even does things 2 hurt me or my feelings.he went out with other girl just 2 hurt me.i'm still hanging on 2 him.i know tat every nite he jus cant sleep due 2 tis matter n he wil cal me ard 1-3am jus to tel me tat he cant sleep n he needs to breakup n wen i agreed he wil say tat i don bother n don love him.no matter hw many times he said he wans to break up,e following day if we meet he wil not wan me 2 leave him.on somedays,i brave myself n tel him tat im leaving him n he wil cry n begged me.sighs.pls help me!i love him n yes i know he loves me.he said tat i must b willin 2 do anytin if i love him,so he wans me 2 tel him bt y cant he just accepts me?
2006-10-31 21:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by CherryCore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He needs to focus on the PRESENT and to GROW UP. If he can't do that then you move on to someone more mature and adult about things.
2006-10-31 21:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well every guy have different expectation in selecting their gf. Since he can't accept your past, I think your relationship may not work out well. If he really loves you he must be able to accept your past and forgive you for any mistakes that you have make. He must know the fac that nobody is perfect in this world and everybody make mistakes.
If he think that by going out with other girls is a form of revenge towards you, then I think he is very naive and he should not do such thing to hurt you and the other girls.
You need to consider carefully if there is any outcome in this relationship as both of you have more fight rather than happiness
Sometimes it is better to end a relationship earlier rather than drag it too long as it will cause more hurt to both parties
2006-10-31 22:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey little girl, yr story sucks and what do u knopw about love ?
Stop being a ***** like those ah lians and concentrate on yr studies.If u still refuse to others and continues to let him slaps you then carry on as u like.Yr childish story will breaks yr parents' heart.this guy is a SOB and u know he is one.All the childish issues likes breakup with him but dtill care for him.etc etc.like i say, STOP being and acting like a *****....
2006-10-31 22:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is crazy! no one should ever make you feel bad about your past a relationship should never hinge on what you may or may bot have done the only thing that matters is that you had a clean bill of health when you got with him other wise NONE OF HIS BUISNESS!! get away from this man now before you get in any deeper!
2006-10-31 21:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't love, you need to find some more respect for yourself and find someone who will treat you as you deserve not be a dick to you, this guy has issues and you'd be better off finding a better person to share you're life with.
-NmD!
2006-10-31 21:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should not tell him details of your past relationship, since it involves someone else's private matters.
The other thing is that you should tell him, as gently as possible, that he needs a psychological treatment, before your relationship can get anywhere.
2006-10-31 21:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i have been in a similar relationship too...i know it is really hard.
best of luck!
2006-10-31 21:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you retype this spelling out whole words
2006-10-31 21:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to LEAVE NOW, sweetie.
a man who really loves you will not subject you to torture, hit and use emotional blackmail on you. he only loves himself, not you.
do not deceive yourself anymore.
2006-10-31 21:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh first off, leave his sorry butt if he hits you. then your problem is solved. dont stay with someone who abuses you
2006-10-31 21:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋