2006-10-31 21:21:29 · 49 answers · asked by Leo Bambino 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on your belief. If you are a Christian then it is wrong and called fornication. You have to realize the spiritual seeds you are planting in your marriage. Although you may not see it in the natural you could be sowing seed that will cause all types of intimate problems in your marriage in the future.
Be careful and congrats if you are engaged.
2006-10-31 21:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by egg_sammash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one ever has the right to tell anyone else what to believe so it's a personal decision. What's right for me may not be right for someone else. I don't think one way is more "right" than another. If you're a deeply religious person then you'd probably believe whatever your religion tells you to believe. It would be inappropriate for anyone to challenge someone's religious beliefs. Just like it would be inappropriate for anyone to try to tell me I'm "wrong" for having sex without being married and for not following any particular religion.
2006-10-31 22:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone believes in diff things. I kind of think that it all depends on your religion and if you really love that person. Sex is such a powerful tool. It should only be shared with someone who is close and special to you. So I think that its ok as long as you don't go around having it with just anyone. It would prob be more special if you did save yourself for that special day.
2006-10-31 21:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not right to have sex before marriage.
2006-10-31 21:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Imran s 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You have to decide whether sex before marriage fits in with your personal set of values.
2006-10-31 21:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Its your right to choose whether you want sex before marriage or not. No one should tell you when you feel ready.
2006-10-31 21:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by janetlouise24 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex before marriage? Only if it doesn't disrupt the ceremony... haifangyew!!
2006-10-31 21:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that question, what is right for some will be wrong for others,
it is about your own personal choice and feelings,
some people like to wait because of religion or because they just want their wedding night to be special so they save themselves for that,
others will say," try before you buy".
everyone has their own different views, so as i said before, only you know what is right for you.
2006-11-01 01:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by mythmagicdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from many sides, its so wrong,
1- our god did not allow that
2- the socity regulations do not allow that.
3- our morals never allow that
4-we are humans , and we have to respect marrage cermonies, we are not like animals, coz this is animals habit, and we have to avoid doing so, but if we follow what other ppl do, then you can do it, but if you asked about right or wrong here i am to say its wrong , so its your choice whether to do or not to do, but my advice is to do, i think you have to marry , and then have sex as you like with your own wife, none will take her from you, so dont be haste slow down , choose your wife and then go on,
G'Luck
2006-10-31 21:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Eagle Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I cherish those memories and I learned a great deal about what pleasures a woman. I liked the variety of women I enjoyed, and I know when I am old those memories will keep me warm on winter nights.
2006-10-31 21:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bob M 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋