we've been together for 6 months nw,we were so much in luv & he even talked abt gettin engaged in like 2 years &he was takin it 2 seriously but then i told him tht i dont wanna have so much hopes so i dnt get hurt if things dnt work out,he used 2 get mad when i say tht,tht he even once told me tht if i dnt have hope 4 us thn we shudnt be 2gether.Like 3 weeks ago he was goin on a vacatin with his frndz & he told me he needed a break becuz we r 2 different!!wht i understood is tht he's trying 2 break up without hurting me.so when he came bck from the vacation he tld me he misses me & we talked abt it &he tld me if he wanted 2 break up he would've told me &tht he doesnt want 2 break up &he told me tht i have so much hopes for us &he doesnt know wt will happen in 3 or4 years &its still 2 soon 2 think of it!i was shocked cuz he's the one who used 2 get mad whn i tell him i dnt wanna have so much hopes.we've been on &off for like a week,we dont call eachother tht much,i wanna know wts wrong
2006-11-03 23:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by *punkdaisy* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
to be able to understand each other i think the best thing to do id to talk about what was on each other's mind cause no one knows what's on ur mind except urself.If you think you still love him and what to work out your relationship why don't you talk to him atleast everything will be cleared.If in case he change his mind n his feelings for you...well you don't have any other option but to just accept it no matter how hard it is but atleast give your self a piece of mind,its really hard to guess one's feeling so better talk to him to avoid any further confusions.
2006-11-03 23:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you were pushing him, and now hes doing the same to you, maybe he was hurt by your responses, even though you were right to say them, 6mths is too soon to talk but better to talk about your hopes and dreams now before to late, maybe you both need a break, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow much less in 2 to 4 years, go with the old saying let him go if he comes back then he loves you, dont sufforcate each other, grow with each other, but you both need space good luck
2006-11-04 00:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by walmartshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something incorrect, he's enjoying, so as that u will understand the discomfort. however the thought is sturdy. don't have a lot hopes on something, it hurts too a lot while it doenst artwork out. too a lot expectancies finally leads to undesirable dissapointment. besides, people who're in love on no account understand the outcomes, in basic terms blindly fall in love. there will be various problems, with mom and dad.......oh i'm bored of conversing all this
2016-10-21 06:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi....I think he has been thinking what u said and it made sense to him, I dont think hes the right guy for u..you 2 r still young and u need to enjoy life.When the right man comes along u will know it..
2006-11-03 23:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Starbright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow up and stop being a cheat. I think you should access if he is trustworthy, or was he havin a holiday fling.
2006-11-04 00:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i refuse to answer a question i cant read............learn how to spell and stop abbreviating everything
2006-11-03 23:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's seeing someone else behind your back
2006-11-04 00:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
new girl in his life?
2006-11-03 23:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by lostship 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋