how did it feel when you were rejected or cheated on by ur partner? i.e. he/she went off with someone else or to make matters worse, with your next door neighbour u really hated or your best friend? how bad did it hurt? do you still feel hurt? was it painful at the time and are you still hurt or do you just think the opposite and think that he wernt worth it coz i deserve better?
2006-11-03 21:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG!!! I can't believe that someone else on earth has had to go through this!! Last year I found out my husband was having an affair for 9 months with a neighbor of ours. I was friends with this woman before she moved into our neighborhood, so when she moved in, we quickly became best of friends. I was very angry, I kicked him out and never spoke to her again. I had to talk to him because when I filed for divorce, he wanted to talk a settlement in custody of our daughter. I refused. I told him that as long as he wanted to be with her, then he wasn't taking my child around HER. After about 3 months of not living with our family, he decided that he didn't want to be single or with HER for that matter. I made him jump through a million hoops to come back home (such as switching cell numbers with me, getting a better job, going to counseling, going to AA, plus many more). Also I made it a condition that if I EVER even THINK that he is talking to her again, then it is OVER FOR GOOD.
2006-11-03 23:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend more than cheated on me. I went out with him for 2 1/2 years. I adored him and it seemed he did me, too. In time I began to notice some disturbing things though. I would mention them to him and he always had a good explaination for them and seemed sooooo sincere. Finally, I did a little digging and found out ....... yep ........ he was married the whole time he was going out with me. Infact, he had been married for 18 yrs and had 3 kids! It hurt very bad. I was devastated because I really loved him. But, time healed. Today I am happily married to a wonderful man and he is divorced. What goes around comes around. Good luck with your situation.
2006-11-04 05:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife cheated on me a few times,it hurt like hell,but time is a great healer.Currently single,but had a few girlfriends since marraige break up,slowly but surely learned to trust again.
2006-11-04 10:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by duracell18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i`ve been cheated on and it hurts like hell. i don`t still feel hurt because it happened years ago but it has left me feeling very weary. i doubt i`ll ever get into another relationship which is silly because i know that not everyone would cheat on their partners but thats the legacy it`s left on me. i`ll never rule out going into another relationship as i know life does throw suprises at us from time to time
2006-11-04 11:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rejection and hurt go hand in hand. usually the problem stems from ones self. if you think that you have been cheated on, have you cheated on someone yourself. you then can answer the question from your own point of reference. good luck and stay warm
2006-11-04 05:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by jh452004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course rejection hurts! Are you a robot or something?
2006-11-04 05:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course it hurt but if you think it could be better than you cheat one
2006-11-04 05:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by dodo t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does hurt,even 17yrs later,he has done it 4x i know of,ill never trust him again,it hurts in so many ways,b strong,follow your heart,
2006-11-04 07:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well getting rejected is okay.. we all get rejected sometimes. but cheated!! na this is harsh
2006-11-04 05:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by RedDevil♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts until i can't stop my drinking even after 8yrs....
2006-11-04 07:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Scouser7674 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋