My girlfriend manages our finances and my monthly salary get paid directly into her account, she has the only atm and credit card but gives me enough to get by each week. This has worked well for the past 6 months, however, 2 weeks ago she made me kneel to her when asking for some money back and told me I would have to do this to her from now on. Last week she told me I would have to do all the housework for her before she gives me anything (we don't even live together). I am afraid what she will make me do next. I would die if we ever broke up the trouble is she knows it too. Any advice?
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2006-11-03 21:13:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get with me baby!! I can do everything she does!!
2006-11-05 05:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly Madison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really stupid of her n foolish of u
how cud u let ure money in her account n let hjer hav d only atm this is really dumb
now all u can do is cut off with her next time after gettin ure money doin what evr she says then tell ure boss a neww account no. for ure salarty to go into and avoid her shes a crank
2006-11-04 05:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by fan#1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my god, grow some balls man, its your money and you should not have to beg for it or anything else! if you dont live together why would you put your money into her account anyway? go to work and change your payment bank details to your account and if she does'nt like it tell her to stick it.you might love her but she is taking you for a ride. she has all control by using your money against you. everybody needs money and by her having yours you are her slave to whatever she wants you to be.take her off the pedastool and the power trip she is on!!
2006-11-04 22:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by stimpy792003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just have to say that was a dumb move on your part and i am a female we can be real b*tches when we wont to be if I was you I would get another card and stop being so dumb if you let her get away with it now she will keep on doing it and you will regret it later on in the relationship.
2006-11-04 05:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own bank account. I know you love her but you need to stand up to her. This is your money and you worked for it so you don't have to kneel for it. Explain this to her and stop letting her treat you like this.
2006-11-04 05:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK...this is the 2nd time you're talking about this woman.
Mat, you like it so stop wasting all of our time and just take it. Stope being a little ****** and just take it.
Stay tied to the barrel, kneel to her when you want money and give up any hopes of making gentle love.
pansy!
2006-11-04 05:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
abviuosly she has a fetish for control you know like the people who like to walk a person around there house in a colar and leash and if you don't listen you get spanked well that sounds like she is on a control trip. get rid of her or tell her this is bothering you
2006-11-04 09:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a serious talk with her. To me, It seems like shes taking in charge and making you do all the work.You cant let that happen.You are not a slave to her.
2006-11-04 05:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by BlAZE` 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmmmm...Mat... 6mths?... dont even live together?... you have asked for FEMALE advice on this, so you better read (nearly) all the answers so far & GET A LIFE WITH A NEW GIRL who GENUINELY wants to be your 'FRIEND' as well .....
BEFORE SHE GOES & GETS HERSELF PREGNANT TO YOU ON PURPOSE !!!! ...COZ MAT, MATE.....THEN YOU'LL BE ASKING THE CHILD SUPPORT AGENCY FOR ADVICE on your paycheck NOT US FEMALES ONLINE ....geeeeze !
2006-11-04 15:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a pair and take care of your own finances. And tell her to kiss you lily white heinie, your not her slave, your her boyfriend.
2006-11-04 07:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you not simply change it to where your paycheck goes into an account of your own instead of hers? Thats not right , its your money and you work for it and should not have to beg for it.
2006-11-04 05:20:39 · answer #11 · answered by Ash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋