my husband has showed less interest for a year now,I told him many times and he said his bussines life made him less active in marriage life ,so now he's a bit more free and still the same as before,what can i do ?
2006-11-03 19:16:54 · 13 answers · asked by fallingprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find out what is wrong with you, before finding what is wrong with him, find out his good side and his weak side work on it and have free frank conversation, something may be distracted him from you find out what it is ? workout a solution yourself as you may know about him better than any others.
2006-11-03 19:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jaffs G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Spice it up girl...
Your relationship needs to take it up a notch. Use your imagination. Your hubby is in a rut and I bet he's still in work mode. You both need to have some fun together. Try this:
Take a pen and paper each. Go into seperate rooms. Write down what you'd like to do over the next year as far as fun, goals, etc. Meet back in the kitchen or dining room an hour later and compare notes. Take those things from each of your lists that match and do them first (together). Then take those that don't match and compromise.
Two things you don't do...don't live to work - you work to live and don't forget yourselves when you have children - once there gone you may have nothing left.
Now go forth and have fun with your husband!
2006-11-04 03:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by redcoat7121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just my opinion, but sometimes the more you suck into him trying to do everything right, it may be a turn off for him. Get a little back bone and let him know that if he's not willing to try or talk about it, then....well I can't anwere the rest of that for you because that would't be right. But you get the picture right. Shake him up a little make him smell the coffee for a change, let him come to you and ask why? It worked for me, just an idea. Hope it works out for the 2 of you. sunnydays
2006-11-04 03:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you REALLY want him to take more intrest in you don't just talk to him. Men are not as much into talking about our feelings as you women are. We want to SEE it and DO it, not talk about it.
Maybe you should go to the gym, work out, and lose some weight and get fit first of all. Then be a lot more sexually agressive with him. Do what he likes and serve him.
I'm not saying a woman HAS to do that to be a good woman. But you asked how to "deal with" your husband because he is not showing intrest in you. He wants you to be hot looking, sexy, and ready to go!
2006-11-04 03:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Roger S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make some moves of your own by using female seductive types of things.In other words,be the aggressive one and he may follow your lead!
2006-11-04 03:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something ya never did before to make him smile. Like Rapping! Serve him some breakfast rapping. He probaly giggle and thank you for making him laugh.
2006-11-04 03:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Winkytreats 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He forgot= genly remind him- maybe a nice dinner and a sexy night gown will get his attention!!nD
2006-11-04 03:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just in a rut. switch things up for him. add a little spicy to your lifestyle. and make him get out and have fun!
2006-11-04 03:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to give him some surprises in life..
i bet he would be a changed man..
2006-11-04 03:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by slamka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause hes screwin the sluts on the east side
they be busty beeotches
2006-11-04 03:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by fawad s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋