2006-10-30 17:04:33 · 18 answers · asked by Dorian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone will probably say marriage...... i lost mine at 15 and never regretted it, the fact that i lost it to someone i really loved was awsome. She'll always be my first, and i'll always be happy about that. Its always best to lose it to someone you love, rather than waiting until your 17....20....21....25.
2006-10-30 18:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not so much an age question as the ability to be able to say you lost it to someone you truly love and/or loved at the time. I can proudly say that, and it has made all the difference in the world not just then, but also ever since. It puts such a wonderful association and value on the act. If the first time ends up being cheap or with someone you don't particularly care for, it devalues the whole experience for the rest of your life. choose carefully.
2006-10-31 01:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by markwett 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its really not a question. But Honestly wait untill you are married or untill you have steady boyfriend that has put a ring on your finger or a promise ring. But even then if he is presuring you then he probably isnt a good person for you anyways. I lost my virginity when I was 16 and I wish I could go back Soooo bad. Now Im engaged but Ive only had sex with the one person that I lost it to. So if you have to question it then its good to say you should wait.
Be safe!
2006-10-31 01:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by .... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age matters. I think it is best when you are emotionally mature enough. 18 or older definately. I was 20 when I lost mine. I was in love with my boyfriend and waited for 2 years. I was finally ready to do it. However, it depends. The whole wait till marriage thing is stupid, no one does and if you decide to, later on in the marriage you may wish you didnt' and might cheat on your husband. It is up to you. But wait until you are responsible and on your own.
2006-10-31 01:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
By your question, I would say you're so not ready.
But in my opinion you should wait till marriage b/c it's more meaningful.
But I know people believe in different things, and in case you don't believe in the same morals as me, I would say wait until you're at least out of high school. If you sleep with someone while in high school, everyone will know about it. And sex shouldn't be something you brag about to your friends.
2006-10-31 01:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The night after getting married.
2006-10-31 01:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You will know when it is time, don't rush into it. This person will stay in your head forever and your friends will always talk about their first times, etc. So try not to just do it to make it happen!
2006-10-31 01:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by JoeJOE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Making sure you have protection, unless you want to end up in a heap of trouble, from my point of view, 27, male, New Yorker, I'd say about 16.
2006-10-31 01:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you are emotionally mature enough and financially stable enough to face ALL of the consqeuences of having sex.
2006-10-31 01:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that, wait 5 more years.
2006-10-31 01:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋