When you lost a love one to another...is there a way to deaden the pain without shooting off a toe or body part!
2006-10-30 19:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by MadDog21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my new boyfriend is going through the same thing right now,his x-girl told him she was not in love with him anymore,the hard part for me is the I am with him now and I have found out that he thinks of her when he is alone. So do yourself a favor and don't go with anyone else if she is still going to be in your head,I know she will always be in your heart.
2006-10-30 20:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to deal with out great pain and sorrow when we lose a love one to another! We must be patient and let time heal our wounded pride and broken hearts. Shooting off a toe will only make the pain worse. After enough body parts have been shot off then you have a hard time explaining to your next true love how it happened! Besides that you could get carried away and shot off the wrong part and be in loads of trouble. So try to remember TIME heals a broken heart!
2006-10-31 04:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy, i know exactly how you feel. to stop the pain, you need to focus on what the important things in life are, the constants, which are your family, and your best friends, that will be there for you. Talking helps a lottt, please try it, because you discover new things about the problem. Time will heal everythinig, but meanwhile, you can tell yourself that it wasnt meant to be, and imagin how much worse things would be if this went on longer, and how much more you would hurt then. When god closes a door, he opens a window, so be patient my friend. Focus on your work/studies, and do not dwindle in the past, or the future, just focus on the here and now, because you will be truly happy if u can just sit there and realize the NOW, this very second, and nothing else....
2006-10-31 04:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by blahblahbaba1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how it feels.. but.. don't let it get the best of you.. it's harder to say then do.. but with time that pain will go away.. don't expect it to go on the count of three.. I've been waiting 5 months going onto 6.. and it's still alot of pain..be pateint, and don't think on them.. think on how better you are without them!No more stress out hey.. no more suspicion of cheating.. no more bull!!! The pain will go away..if you feel like crying.. then do it.. if you eel like litening to sap songs.. do it.. get it out of your system..it's better to get it out of your system then to keep holding it in...once you've established that..then you'll be able to accept thing's better, even though it's bitter at first, it's sweeter in the end! Goodluck and I wish you the best!!! Take Care, and look after yourself..you never know who maybe looking!
2006-10-31 04:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on and you can too. If you lost a loved one, then maybe is wasn't meant to be...... I suggest for you to move on with a big happy face everyday and face the wonders of life that's ahead of you. Try not to look back because you're stepping into the future now and the past can not be changed. You should look into the future and see what's awaiting for you......
2006-10-31 03:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, time is the only thing that helps. Of course,getting back out there and dating again could be good for you right now. I know it will be hard but you've got to tell yourself to move on.
2006-10-31 06:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way is to let go of the pain and face a new life with a smile on your face.. God will never leave us empty, He will always replace someone we loose into someone better... Have faith on him....
2006-10-31 03:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by she 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sweety. Just go boxing and imgine them as the punching bag
2006-10-31 03:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋