Other - Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

My gf and I have been together just over a yr. We also live together with another roommate. On the weekend we had a petty argument+she was upset that I wasn't ready to talk. She walked out, I didn't hear from her for over 12hrs. She wouldnt answer my calls. She stayed at an ex's house over night. She said she had no-one else to turn to. She told me nothing happened. I found it hard but was ready to forgive her. Now she isn't sure about us! She says something is holding her back from getting back with me. She wants us to be slightly more independent from each other but i've already offered that. I'm sick of feeling in limbo. I either want to get back and work things out or cut loose and start moving on. Should I be understanding and just give her more time even though its really hurting me?

(By the way we are both female, as is the ex)

2006-10-23 23:58:30 · 12 answers · asked by angel74656 1

If I can keep it completely secret?

2006-10-23 23:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short my boyfriend (well know ex boyfriend) cheated on me, I just came from his house and his roomate let me in not knowing if he was there or not so I go in his room and hes in there asleep with some girl and then the girls sister was asleep ont he couch in his room.

He got mad cause he got caught and didnt apologize or nothin. Well I had a bag of his clothes in my car that I had got from the cleaners, would I be wrong if I fuked up all his clothes and tore them up and returned them or should I just be the bigger person and tell him he needs to come and get his shitt from out of my car.

I am so hurt cause I still love him and I know that he still loves me but he feels like Im gonna cheat on him cause his ex-wife cheated on him 2 years ago. That doesnt justify him doing wrong by me but should I just mess all his stuff up or be mature and tell him to come get it. Please help cause I am still broken hearted

2006-10-23 23:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

did you manage to resolve it?

2006-10-23 23:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-23 23:33:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is adorable but we are too different and I'm not happy.

2006-10-23 23:28:54 · 23 answers · asked by renaultfi69 2

is it possible...

2006-10-23 23:13:42 · 6 answers · asked by BEST ANSWERER 2

2006-10-23 23:00:27 · 6 answers · asked by amylynn2274 1

why is it some people and their partners do everything together and it seems like they have everything made - and becuase you and your partner aren't like that it seems like your relationship isnt as good - for example you dont do everything together like the shopping or you both go out seperatly with your friends - confused!!!

2006-10-23 22:47:01 · 19 answers · asked by Pebbles 2

Ok - I'm not a prude, and neither is he. We've always been open about everything sexual, and I even share my embarassing fetishes with him. Recently, he's pulled away from me, and he has become VERY distant. I took a hunch tonight, and checked his computer - sure enough - there it was.

Like I mentioned before, we're not prudes. I've actively asked him to share his fantasies with me - but I was unprepared for some of the "barely legal" sites he has hidden in his cache.

My normally open minded self is sensing there may be a problem, but I don't know how to approach the subject with him. He's very sensitive to a lot of things, and no matter how gently I try to talk about some things with him, he puts up a cold front.

Should I forget it, and focus on my own life? We're starting to drift apart and we haven't had personal intimacy in over 9 months.

Any advice here?

2006-10-23 22:45:03 · 15 answers · asked by pyrrhic_victories 2

i have been seeing her for a year and a half now i have met her parents but it is just not the same any more i recently met some fine chick who seems to be very caring i feel am falling for her what should i do?

2006-10-23 22:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by frank w 1

2006-10-23 22:31:15 · 21 answers · asked by Jamie X 2

Since the moment he looked in my eyes he said he fell in love with me and has loved me more as each day passes. he is supportive and caring and everything a man should be.My question is what things can i do to give him back the love he gives me. I have written little love notes and hidden them in his pockets, send him cards and emails...what other things can i do to express my love to him in a way he will appreciate?

2006-10-23 22:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by BlondeBarbie 4

hes still in love with his ex,,,and he has nowhere to go so i feel guilty to ask him to leave,,we fight alot,,im so hurt, and feel used,,,what do i do? help

2006-10-23 22:16:46 · 10 answers · asked by blaqueheartedgrl 1

I just read a post by Reno. He is quite rightly proud of his mother and I thought " Yehr why not hear about some other strong women?"
I think my mother is pretty amazing . What about yours?

2006-10-23 22:12:05 · 9 answers · asked by Christine H 7

When we married my wife had dog + cat & brought them into the marriage. I adore my wife and I've tolerated the animals so far, my complaints being they stink up the house, the cat claws furniture, their vet bills have been high, and kenneling/shipping them has cost a small fortune. We have a secluded yard so they spend a lot of time outdoors, pleasing me (and them).

We're moving to a large city where apts are tiny. I can't stand the thought of living in close quarters w/the cat; jumping on the bed at night, meowing for food at 4:00 am, the litter box, etc.

I'm staying mum on the subject but would love it if my wife brought up the idea of giving up the cat. Nothing yet. How can I bring up the subject with her? (I've tried & she gets upset, she's an animal activist) What if I offered someone $1000 to take the cat? It's worth it to me, I've spent that much w/1 vet visit. We have a baby, cats & babies are incompatible & I hoped that would prompt her but nothing yet. Help!!

2006-10-23 22:09:20 · 11 answers · asked by Babyface 3

i have a husband. he has 1 son and 3 grandkids. i have 2 sons and 1 grandkid. our kids are from our first marriages.
should i leave the majority to the money to my sons. like 75-25.?
how do you do this without offending your husband?

2006-10-23 21:49:15 · 2 answers · asked by rhonda3826 5

My girlfriend always wants me to do her up the ***, if you know what I mean.. she keeps begging me for it... I would give it a try but would it mean I'm gay?

2006-10-23 21:37:40 · 13 answers · asked by hello! 2

i'm having a princess theme party for my daughter, and i not only want girls to come but her boy cousins as well. what are some things i can give the boys as favors. i have rings, necklaces, and tiaras for the girls. i can only think of masks (like masquerde balls) to give. is that appropriate and are there any other suggestions? what are they?

2006-10-23 21:33:33 · 6 answers · asked by Tropicala 2

Help! My girlfriend always wants sex and she isn't very good in bed! She always makes this weird screamy noise when shes orgasiming and its really puts me off! What do I say or do?

2006-10-23 21:29:44 · 14 answers · asked by hello! 2

2006-10-23 21:29:32 · 1 answers · asked by tia p lump on dogs back 1

Now that we have equality and everything why should we get married?
People can still be committed to eachother without the ceremony.
Or should we 'update'the whole principles of marriage?

What do you think?

Thanks!

2006-10-23 21:24:46 · 24 answers · asked by kway_tzar 1

2006-10-23 21:09:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine : " I Miss My Friend " by Darryl Worley its a country song.

2006-10-23 20:54:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is a sr at high school. She has small breasts that otherwise appear to be healthy. She cries to me that "no guy is going to be interested in her "little a-'s". To a point she is right. The most popular people seem to be around the most pretty girls. I've told her that she is who she is, not her bra size, and stuff like that for years. Her mother died five years ago and now it is just her and me. On the other hand, I don't want to be prudish but part of me doesn't what a lot of guys trying to get in to her shirt anyway.

2006-10-23 20:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by Jas 2

I was 13 he was 17 when we started going out he was my first for everything, the first boy i kissed. 6 years later we have a 5 month old daughter together and 1 week ago i found out he had been seeing someone else for 4 weeks. I kind of knew it in my heart but didnt want to except it because he was telling me he loved me and no matter what he ever did in 6 years whenever he said those words I LOVE YOU i was blind to anything he did. This time i wasnt he was going out with her the night i confronted him (when i did he laughed in my face) i told him if he went i was gone, he went, i left. now i have to support my 5 month old daughter mentally, emotionally and financially while she is crying for her dad. We have spoken and i cant seem to bring myself to hate him. I have never been with another guy and feel like now i wont ever be. I looked after him for 6 years did everything he wanted is this why he did this to me. Now he is with her they became official the day we split.

2006-10-23 20:44:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

how could i get my partner to stay home of a night and spend time with me and our kids instead off doing karate classes 5 times a week

2006-10-23 20:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not sure what should I do? My boyfriend told me that he is under a lot of stress and pressure from his work. He does not like his job, he does not get on with his boss very much, he has got to find a new job before his apartment agreement runs out in December. He is looking for a job near my city, which for him is a different country. He told me the other day that he is sorry for me but he just asks for one thing and that is understanding and comprehension and he asked for patience. But I have not been dealing very well with him being distant with me. He is cold and distant when he speaks to me and if I tell him that he gets upset with me and tells me that I do not understand him and I do not support him and he says this is the last thing he needs now to worry about me as well. What should I do? I am worried I am loosing him.

2006-10-23 20:33:36 · 16 answers · asked by violet b 1

not sure if i posted this in the right area...

2006-10-23 20:31:00 · 10 answers · asked by tjuarez777 1

We dated for two years and talked about marriage. We saw each other every day and I thought we were best friends. He told me every day that I was the only girl for him, that he loved me all of his heart, and that he would never leave me. He dumped me over the phone while he was on vacation in a 20 min. conversation. He said he would call me when he got back home. It has been 2 months and I know he is home, he still has not contacted me. I am smart, very attractive, nice, and loving. I treated him and his family very well. I did everything I could to make him happy. I just do not understand. How can someone do that to another person? I am not perfect but I do know that I did not deserve to be treated this way. Should I try to contact him to get closure? I cry constantly... I do not know what to do. Am I crazy to still be depressed about this guy? I try to let it go and forget, but I can't. There are so many questions in my head about what went wrong. I feel so rejected and confused.

2006-10-23 20:30:47 · 6 answers · asked by tanglo02 2