why is it some people and their partners do everything together and it seems like they have everything made - and becuase you and your partner aren't like that it seems like your relationship isnt as good - for example you dont do everything together like the shopping or you both go out seperatly with your friends - confused!!!
2006-10-23 22:47:01 · 19 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That has much to do with the respect and allowance of the freedom to be yourself. Couples where one or both are constantly pulling and tugging to always have things their way are not going to have harmony. There will be constant friction and that is not good.
Stable couples will do some things together but not need to do everything together. They allow for the other to have their own pursuits and hobbies. And if their love is mutual there will not be jealousy and envy.
2006-10-23 22:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never judge a book by its cover, it takes a long time for two people to reach a stage of deep union or as some would say to become soul-mates.
too many relationships are one-sided these days, me,me,me, for a genuine loving, lasting relationship it has to be sacrificial in the sense that both partners care much more about the others happiness than their own, to really want the best for someone else shows true love and devotion.
just ask the real heroes, those who have been together for many years and listen to the voice of experience.
2006-10-23 23:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfect relationship things are often not what they seem.
Not sure I could handle doing everything with my partner it would surely drive us both mad.
It might be they want to create the ideal relationship because maybe in reality the relationship is not as good as they make out.
2006-10-23 22:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by rachelsweet2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships are different. I don't believe there is a definition for a perfect relationship. Some people look like they have a "perfect relationship" because they find happiness and love in each other.
2006-10-23 22:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by crimson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because you don't do everything together does not mean you are not as perfect together - it just means you both have your own independence and do not have to rely on each other for everything. Even though you are in a relationship it is still important to have time to yourself. even if it is only an hour a week.
2006-10-23 22:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by alex_rccrd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your relation ship is perfect to u every relationship is different and unless you are constantly arguing all the time then u r OK
could you honestly say you want your partner with u 24 7 because i wouldn't
if u r happy with your relationship sod what any one else says
good luck
2006-10-23 23:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do everything with my partner, except certain family gatherings that my ex will be at. We do the shopping, cooking, washing up, walk the dogs, etc however, when I was with my ex he had his hobbies that I didn't enjoy and I had mine so we would do things separately, but then grew away from each other
2006-10-23 22:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a long term relationship and you don't share the day to day daily grind then you need to re-evaluate your relationship. I know because I've got the same dilemma and I've realised while its healthy and OK to spend some time apart its not OK to live totally separate lives ... whats the point in that?
2006-10-23 22:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different things suit different people - what is perfect to one couple would bore the pants off another. If you are BOTH happy in the relationship and in what you do then why worry - you've found your perfect match xx
2006-10-23 23:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about doing everything together...its about trust, and having the same values as your partner. communication is the key. my husband and i have a great relationship..we work hard to make each other happy, but i dont expect him to come to the mall with me, and he doesnt expect me to go golfing with him. some alone time is healthy for a couple.
2006-10-23 22:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋