not sure if i posted this in the right area...
2006-10-23 20:31:00 · 10 answers · asked by tjuarez777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay your current gf will most likey find out so be straight up with her and tell her before it's too late.
2006-10-23 20:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By opening your mouth! Don't be scared now, whats done is done. Be a man at some point during this and what better point to start at then now. Yes you F----- up, there is no denying that. But if you have nay respect for your current girlfreind then the least you can do is be honest with her. Tell her from your mouth the truth!! She deserves that! This way you can clear your conscious and be able to breathe alittle easier and it lays it on the table for possibilities for even if any chance at a future for you both to try and work through this. She will have no other choice but to respect you for standing up and being honest. If i may add, while you are in the midst of telling the truth. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST!! You've gotten yourself in the predicament by obviously playing both sides of the fence. WHO DO U WANT TO BE WITH? Once you truely figure that out you can prevent anything like this from happening in the future and you will also clear your mind and be able to focus on who should be getting your undivided attention. Be careful out there!! Thank GOD its a pregnancy, because you could have been delivering your girlfriend worse news than this by having unprotected sex.... like and HIV status. PS> Find out if this baby on the way is yours, cuz if ol girl was messin with you and she knew you had a girl ain't know tellin what else she was doin those nights when you and your girlfriend were at the movies. FYI. Be Safe!!
2006-10-24 03:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by B. Good in NC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can sit and wait around for the problem to get bigger. or yoyu can choose a moment when you think that your gf is open for an honest conversation. make sure the mood is light and she has no problems of her own because you will only make it worse. choose your words well. be gentle coz remember, you're the one who is at fault here.
also let her know what you are planning to do about the prob. are you gonna marry ur ex? are you gonna break up with your current gf? don't leave her guessing.
so it's really palin and simple dude, gather up your courage and be man enough to tell the truth and face the consequences of your mistakes.
goodluck!
2006-10-24 03:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by jagged_junkie20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine that it isn't an easy thing to do, I think your best bet is to tell her as soon as possible. She's going to be crushed, but if you wait, it's only going to make it worse. Sit her down, tell her the truth, let her know that it was a surprise to you to, and that you are sorry for any pain this causes her.
2006-10-24 03:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem or baby isnt going to go away...tell her sooner rather than later. she is going to be devestated and whether the relationship continues is up to how you deal with this and how well you can support her. you also need to discuss with your ex the best priority for you her and the baby. if your gf loves you she will support you and forgive you even though im guessing this happened when you were with your ex...be patient and give her time
2006-10-24 03:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by carolyn t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better just tell her before she hears it from someone else. If it's your baby, you better decide what you are going to do about it, such as child support, etc.
2006-10-24 03:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you told us. Dont beat around the bush. It shouldnt really matter if it was after you got together.
2006-10-24 03:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid of what? You owe it to her to tell her.
Get your concerns for yourself and what might happen
to you out of the way and tell her.
2006-10-24 03:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by CHEIF GUARDIAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooooh...and it's yours i presume?? telling her right now would be good..she's going to be pissed... good luck with that...you know she's going to be your ex right???
2006-10-24 03:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by aclazo979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth.
2006-10-24 03:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by sai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋